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Her name means: "Loop" or "Tie"
Her character: Hardworking and generous, her
faith was so great that she left
her home forever to marry a man she had never
seen or met. Yet she played
favorites with her sons and failed to trust God
fully for the promise he had
made.
Her
sorrow: That she
was barren for the first twenty years of her
married life, and
that she never again set eyes on her favorite son, Jacob,
after he fled from his brother Esau.
Her
joy: That God had gone to extraordinary lengths to pursue her, to
invite her to become part of his people and his promises.
Key
Scriptures: Genesis 24;
25:19-34; 26:1-28:9
Her Story
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The sun was dipping beyond the western rim of the
sky as the young woman
approached the well outside the town of Nahor,
five hundred miles northeast of
Canaan. It was women's work to fetch fresh water
each evening, and Rebekah
hoisted the brimming jug to her shoulder, welcoming its
cooling touch against
her skin.
As she turned to go, a stranger greeted her,
asking for a drink. Obligingly,
she offered to draw water for his camels as
well. Rebekah
noticed the look of
surprised pleasure that flashed across his face.
Ten camels could put away a
lot of water, she knew. But had she overheard
his whispered prayer just
moments earlier, her astonishment would have
exceeded his: "O Lord, God of my
master Abraham, give me success today, and show
kindness to my master Abraham.
May it be that when I say to a girl, 'Please let
down your jar that I may have
a drink,' and she says, 'Drink, and I'll water
your camels too'—let her be the
one you have chosen for your servant
Isaac."
A simple gesture. A generous response. A young
woman's future altered in a
moment's time. The man Rebekah encountered at the well,
Abraham's servant, had
embarked on a sacred mission—to find Isaac a
wife from among Abraham's own
people rather than from among the surrounding
Canaanites. Like her great-aunt
Sarah before her, Rebekah would make the journey south to
embrace a future she
could hardly glimpse. Betrothed to a man twice
her age, whose name meant
"Laughter," she felt a sudden
giddiness rise inside her. The God of Abraham
and Sarah was wooing her, calling her name and
no other, offering a share in
the promise. God was forging a new nation to be
his own people.
Isaac was forty when he first set eyes on Rebekah. Perhaps his heart echoed
the joy of that first man, "Here at last is
bone of my bones and flesh of my
flesh!" So Isaac and Rebekah entered the tent of his mother
Sarah and made
love. And the Bible says that Rebekah comforted Isaac after the death
of his
mother.
Rebekah was
beautiful and strong like Sarah, yet she bore no children for the
first twenty years of her life with Isaac. Would
she suffer as Sarah did the
curse of barrenness? Isaac prayed and God heard,
giving her not one, but two
sons, who wrestled inside her womb. And God told
her: "Two nations are in your
womb, and two peoples from within you will be
separated; one people will be
stronger than the other, and the older will
serve the younger."
During the delivery, Jacob grasped the heel of
his brother Esau, as though
striving for first position. Though second by
birth, he was first in his
mother's affections. But his father loved Esau
best.
Years later, when Isaac was old and nearly
blind, he summoned his firstborn,
Esau. "Take your quiver and bow and hunt
some wild game for me. Prepare the
kind of meal I like, and I will give you my
blessing before I die."
But the clever Rebekah overheard and called quickly to
Jacob, suggesting a
scheme to trick the blessing from Isaac.
Disguised as Esau, Jacob presented
himself to his father for the much-coveted
blessing.
Isaac then blessed Jacob, thinking he was
blessing Esau: "May nations serve
you and peoples bow down to you. Be lord over
your brothers, and may the sons
of your mother bow down to you. May those who
curse you be cursed and those
who bless you be blessed."
Isaac had stretched out his hand and passed the
choicest blessing to his
younger son, thus recalling the words spoken
about the two children jostling
for position in Rebekah's womb. The benediction thus given
could not be
withdrawn, despite the deceit, despite Esau's
tears, and despite his vow to
kill Jacob. Afraid lest Esau take revenge, Rebekah persuaded Isaac to send
Jacob north to find a wife from among her
brother Laban's daughters.
As the years passed, Rebekah must have longed to embrace her
younger son,
hoping for the privilege of enfolding his
children in her embrace. But more
than twenty years would pass before Jacob
returned. And though Isaac would
live to welcome his son, Rebekah would not.
When Rebekah was a young girl, God had invited her to
play a vital role in the
story of his people. He had gone to great
lengths to pursue her. Like Sarah,
she would become a matriarch of God's people,
and like Sarah, her heart would
divide itself between faith and doubt, believing
that God's promise required
her intervention. Finding it difficult to rest
in the promise God had made,
she resorted to trickery to achieve it.
The results, mirroring her own heart, were
mixed. Though Jacob indeed became
heir to the promise, he was driven from his home
and the mother who loved him
too well. In addition, he and his descendants
would forever be at odds with
Esau and his people, the Edomites. Two thousand
years later, Herod the Great,
who hailed from Idumea (the Greek and Roman name
for Edom) would slaughter
many innocent children in his attempt to destroy
the infant Jesus.
Yet God was still at work, graciously using a
woman whose response to him was
far less than perfect, in order to accomplish
his purposes.
Her Promise
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Rebekah heard
Abraham's servant describe how he had prayed and how he was sure
she was the woman God intended for Isaac. God
himself had divinely
orchestrated the events. Rebekah seemed to have known that and,
when asked,
answered simply, "I will go."
Did Rebekah fully realize God's plan for her? Was she
open to following that
plan? Or was she simply entranced with the
romantic notions of a young girl
looking for her knight in shining armor?
Whatever her motivation, the events
were planned by God, and he was able and willing
to faithfully continue to
fulfill his promises through her.
God's faithfulness, despite our waywardness and
contrariness, is evident both
throughout Scripture and throughout our lives.
He will be faithful; he
promises.
