Tuesday, December 1, 2015

AFTER DEATH, WHAT?



HOW many times have you looked into a casket, seen the face of the deceased, and listened to the following statements: “He sure has suffered, but he is better off now,” or “She is at peace, never to suffer anymore.” ?

Dear reader, if the deceased had accepted Christ as Lord and Saviour and had been born again, these are correct statements. The Apostle Paul said this of Christians: “Therefore we are always confident, knowing that, whlist we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord: (For we walk by faith, not by sight:) We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.” (2 Corinthians 5:6-8).

However, if the deceased died in a lost spiritual condition, his troubles have just began. The instant his soul leaves his body, it goes directly to hell to burn for ever and ever. “The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God.” (Psalm 9:17). The Bible states that hell is a place “Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.” (Mark 9:44). Listen to the voice of the rich man crying out from hell: “And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham’s bossom: the rich man also died, and was buried; And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bossom. And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue, for I am tormented in this flame.” (Luke 16:22-14)

Perhaps someone looked at the face of this rich man as he was prepared for burial, and remarked that he was at peace now, never to suffer anymore. How wrong their statement would have been! As they were saying beautiful words over his body, his soul was screaming from the pits of hell. Suffering does not end at death for a loss person. After ten million years of eternity, he will still be burning. If you are spiritually lost and die in that condition, then you too will be doomed to a burning hell.

You might wonder what you must do to escape this torment in hell. The answer is the same one that Jesus gave to Nicodemus. “Jesus answered and said unto him, verily, I say unto thee, except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3). Just as you were born physically, you must be born spiritually to reach the portals of heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6).

You are not promised another day on this earth. Tomorrow might be too late. Now is the time to do something about your lost condition.”…For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation…” (2 Corinthians 6:2). Right now, while there is still life in your body, will you repent of your sins and call upon Jesus Christ to come into your heart and save your soul?” “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved…For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:9,13). “But as many as received him, to them he gave the power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:” (John 1:12). The decision is yours. Where will your soul be when they are preaching your funeral? Your life might end before another hour passes and your soul will be somewhere for eternity. Will you receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour and be confident of everlasting life in heaven?

If you will accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, please pray this prayer with all of your heart: Dear God, I admit I am a sinner, going to hell. I know that I cannot save myself. I repent of my sins and put my faith in the blood you shed for me on the cross to pay for all my sins. I now accept you as my Saviour and trust you to take me to heaven. Thank you for saving me. Amen.

(taken from www.fellowshiptractleague.org)



HBD KUYA BESTIE!


Superduper – friendly.
Malakas ang bad odor.
I mean, malakas ang sense of humor.
Grabe humalakhak – kita ngalangala.
Simple. At gentleman.
Sweet din.

Iyan ang mga katangian ng isang tunay na lalaki? na itinuring kong “tunay na kuya” at “tunay na kaibigan.” Puwede ring “tunay na kapamilya” at “tunay na kapuso.” Ehehe.

Nakilala ko siya taong 2011. I think, month of June or July, basta ganun. Dahil baguhan ako sa fb that time, hala! Kung sinu-sino na lang ina-add ko. At na-add ko siya. Kagaya sa kuwento ng karamihan, ang friendship din namin ay nag-start through fb chat. At nalaman kong ka-Church ko rin pala siya. Ehehe.

Until one day…

We decided to meet sa aming Church na dinadaluhan parehas – C21. August 2011 ‘yun ih ng una ko syang na-meet at nakausap na rin personally (di na sa fb chat, ehehe.) Grabe nga siya makangiti ih. Napaghahalatang isa siyang clown staff ng isang party organizer company. Joke lang : D. I mean, halatang-halata na very friendly siya at very kind. Inabutan pa nga niya ko ng calling card niya ih na both smart and globe numbers niya ay nandun. Up to now, nasa akin pa din ung calling card na yun. Oo promise. Kulang na lang ipalaminate ko yun o gawing poster.

That means, very welcome ako to be his BFF-bestfriendforever. Mayro’n bang forever?

After that, wala na kami halos communication hanggang umabot ng months until forever. Joke lang :D Siguro dahil na-busy kami parehas. Ako ata nagka-lovelife na ulit that time. Siya ewan ko kung anong reason niya. Baka siguro umuwi siya sa province nila. O panay overtime sa work. O nagkasakit. O may hinahatid-sundong girl. O baka nagka-lovelife na rin. O kaya naman brokenhearted (ouch di naman siguro.) Whatever it is, I believe, hawak ng Lord ang life niya.

Septermber 2012 na ulit naulit ang aming communications. Parang PLDT lang. Napatunayan ko na may forever pala. Niyahaha. Naging strong ang friendship na ito until now. Kaya matuturing ko itong strong friendship that even the devil envied it.

Wala akong kuya sa laman. In the flesh, sa English. Ehehe. Kasi malamang, ako kaya ang 1st born sa magkakapatid, at ang 1st born daw ang pinakamaganda sa magkakapatid. Nakikibasa ka lang, ehehe. I mean, kaya naman, itinuring ko siyang kuya, si “kuyaMark.” Kahit di na ko fulltime sa Church, pag nami-meet niya ko, palagi niya pa rin akong inaabutan ng lovegift, HAHAHA. Iniisip ko na lang na, “Kuya” ko naman siya ih, tanggapin ko na lang at baka ma-offend sya if di ko kunin. (tsaka baka isang araw, tseke na ibigay niya sakin worth house and lot, ehehe.)

Almost 4 years ko na siyang kaibigan. Minsan naiinis ako sa kanya lalo na pag emote ng emote sa fb tsaka always selfie post, nasasabi ko pa nga sa sarili ko, “si kuya talaga, makukurot ko talaga toh pag nakita ko tong mokong na to” joke lang : D Pero bless ako in fairness sa mga Gospel post  niya : )

I mean, sa 4 years na friendship ay wala naman akong naalala na nag-talo kami sa isang simple o malaking bagay. Kung mangyari man yan at alam kong mangyayari kasi immature pa naman ako ih, tsaka minsan nakakainis din ako, eh ganun talaga, that’s life. Pero naniniwala akong ang friendship na ito ay patuloy na kakainggitan ng diyablong mabaho dahil ang friendship na ito ay mache-cherish until rapture.


Kuya BFF Happy Bday! Palagi mo patawanin si ateMins ah kasi taga-chapter na’ko ih, ehehe. BestFriend Forever!

HIGIT PA SA IYONG PINAKAMABUTI


Nang maging ahente ng insurance si John sa isang kilalang kompanya ilang taon nang nakalipas, ang layunin niya ay pagbutihin ang pagtatrabaho doon at hindi ikumpromiso ang pananampalataya niya. May mga kasama siyang itinuring siyang sobrang simple at inosente sa mga palakad ng mundo. Sa tingin nila, dapat pumili sa dalawa – trabaho o integridad. Di raw sabay na nagagawa ang dalawang ito.

Ngunit nanindigan si John na naging maka-Dios na saksi sa mundo ng negosyo. May kahinaan siya sa arithmetic, at ito’y nagtulak sa kanya na lalong mag-depende kay Cristo sa lahat ng bagay. Lalong naging mabisa ang kanyang patotoo.

Sa mga taon pang sumunod, siya’y naging pinakamagaling na ahente roon at ginamit siya ng Dios para mapalapit kay Cristo ang marami sa katrabaho niya. Di naglaon naging manedger siya ng pinakamalawak na sangay ng kompanya – ni minsan di niya ikinumpromiso ang kanyang integridad.

Kuya Mark : ) alam kong nagsisikap kang mabuhay at magtrabaho na di ikinukumpromiso ang pananalig sa gitna ng makamundong mga kasama. Alam ko ring nagsisikap kang magpakabuti, ngunit minsan, pakiramdam mo ay di pa sapat ang ginagawa mo. Ipinapaalaala ng Colosas 1:29 na ang pananangan natin sa kapangyarihan ng Dios na sa atin ang gagawa para maging epektibo tayo. Ang buod ng prinsipyo ni John, “Tinutulungan ako ng Dios na magawa ang mas higit pa kaysa sa aking pinakamabuti!” Magagawa rin ito ng Dios para sa’yo, Kuya Mark : )

Say this poem:
“Sa paglakad, kamay ko’y hawak ng aking Manliligtas
May galak sa paglakad
Di sa akin kundi sa Iyong lakas.”


Dahil dito’y nagpapagal din naman ako at nagsisikap ayon sa Kanyang paggawa na gumagawa sa akin na may kapangyarihan.

Colosas 1:29

ISSUES CONCERNING NETWORKING BUSINESS



     NETWORKING IS A BUSINESS,CLIENT-BASED SALES.

     Mahirap talaga sa sales pero malaki ang kita kapag nag-tiyaga ka. Kung madali ang sales,wala sanang nag - fail diba? Mahirap sa sales pero may technique, may skills na dapat i - apply. Parang si Jesus lang iyan. Siya ay nag - recruit ng 12 apostle at ang 12 apostle ay na - recruite ang buong mundo. That is networking. Ang kauna-unahang networker ay si Jesus. Siya ang nagturo sa mga alagad ng networking. Sabi Niya, “Gawin ninyong alagad ang lahat ng bansa.” Sa ibang salita, “Recruitin niyo ang lahat ng tao sa Kristiyanismo.”

     Ang ibig sabihin ng networking business ay “pagpaparami ng sarili” kasi kung ikaw lang ay mapapagod ka at walang magpapatuloy ng sinimulan mo. That’s the biblical point of networking. Puro kasi masama ang iniisip ng marami sa networking. Huwag dapat sa puro negative, dapat may positive din.

     Si Jesus ang upline ng lahat, Siya ang top earner dahil Siya lamang ang dapat maitaas at maluwalhati. Dapat ang tamang sabihin, “Mag-ingat sa networking company na papasukan para hindi maloko.” Hindi puwede i - desregard ang networking profession.

     Iyong kapatid kong lalaki ay nasa networking na matino at kitang-kita ko na umuunlad siya. Kung bakit palaging nata - topic ng mga preacher ang networking dahil kinukuha nila iyong example sa loss of commitment ng marami at nagpapaloko kasi ang marami. Kapag nag - fullblast ka sa networking ay maaaring mapabayaan mo ang commitment mo sa Lord at iyon ang ayaw nilang mangyari.

     Networking is a business. Mabentahan ka ng product from networking o ikaw ang magbenta? Ang avon, natasha, mse&boardwalk ay networking din naman. Parang real state din. Iyan lang ang masasabi ko.

     Basta don’t forget na ahente ka ng kaluluwa. That’s the toughest but most rewarding profession. Wala ng tatalo diyan. Soulwinning business is like a networking business. Kailangan mong mag - invest ng pera sa soulwinning kagaya ng networking.

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MAIN PROBLEM IN A MAN-WOMAN RELATIONSHIP



When I read the book of John Gray entitled, "the ignorance of the nature of man&woman, " I have found out that ang pinaka-problema sa babae is ‘yung biglang nagsi-swing ang mood o pabago-bago ng mood at diyan namomoroblema ang mga lalaki. Ang problema naman sa lalaki, may time na gusto lang nilang nakatago sa cave, manahimik lang ng ilang araw, ayaw paistorbo. Kaya akala ng babae, wala ng pakialam sa kanya. Ang babae ay kagaya ng alon dahil paiba-iba ng mood. Ang lalaki ay parang lastiko o goma dahil may time na lumalayo pero babalik din. Kapag lumayo ang loob ng lalaki, hindi ibig sabihin na hindi na babalik at diyan bumibitaw ang babae. Kapag nag-swing naman ang mood ng babae, naiinis ang lalaki at diyan naman siya bumibitaw. Dapat malaman ng bawat isa ang nature ng partner. Ang pinaka- mahalaga sa babae ay respect at sa lalaki ay trust. Huwag dapat magpakita ang babae na nagdududa siya sa lalaki, foul na foul ‘yun. Kaya maraming lalaki ang ayaw sa masyadong selosa - palaging nagdududa.

Above all, para sa akin… kung bakit nagkaka-problema talaga sa relasyon ay dahil hindi si Jesus Christ ang top priority sa relationship, hindi si Jesus ang sentro ng pag-iibigan, hindi si Jesus ang 1st & last love, hindi si Jesus ang all in all in life.

By: Aldrin Cabrera


ARE WOMEN MOODY IN A RELATIONSHIP?



In my own personal experience,sinungaling ako kung sasabihin kong hindi ako naiinis. Ang
kagandahan lang, pag naiinis ako ay nagso-sorry agad ako. Kung mahal mo talaga ang partner mo ay willing kang mag sorry agad at iwasan na ang mga bagay na ugat kung bakit kayo nagtatalo. Dapat ang lalaki ang unang mag sorry para mapatunayan niyang gentleman siya talaga. Hindi rin mabuti sa lalaki ang masiyadong dominante at strong will, ang taas ng ere na kaunting pagkakamali lang ng babae eh pinagtataasan na niya ng tinig at pinagsasabihan niya gamit ng mata2lim na salita. that is an attitude problem. Totoo na to have a dominant & strong will attitude ay nagpapakita na mahusay ka sa lahat ng bagay dahil perfectionist ka ng pagkatao ng iba but nagpapakita rin iyan na hindi mo na overcome ang iyong sarili.

Dapat huwag matakot na ipaalam sa partner ang weakness para matuto ang bawat isa na mag search ng heart before God. Kapag dominante ang lalaki ay hindi niya mae earn ang trust ng babae kasi wala siyang respect na naipapakita kundi gusto niyang siya palagi ang masunod,na hindi niya kailangan ng comment, correction & suggestion ng babae.

Ang babae ay mapaghanap ng lambing kaya pag di na siya napapansin tru txt, call or personal dates ay di maiwasang siya ay mag- isip ng negative. Sa start ng relationship, masiyadong sensitive ang babae kaya moody, di pa 100% ang trust niya sa lalaki, pero habang tumatagal ang relationship ay tumataas na din ang trust kaya nawawala na ang moodiness. Tataas lang ang trust ng babae kapag nadama niyang mataas ang respect sa kanya ng guy, yung di siya ia-under estimate tsaka malaya siyang nakakapagsalita sa guy, di siya natatakot magsalita dahil feel niya na respetado siyang pakinggan.

Mahirap din naman ang trabaho ng lalaki kapag nagsisimula pa lang ang relasyon. Basta ang technique,dapat tahimik lang ang lalaki kapag marami ng salita ang babae at kahit di feel mag sorry ng lalaki dahil ang babae ang may problem, dapat mag sorry pa rin sya.

Death to self ang relationship. Sa unang 2 years ng relationship ay napaka-selosa ng babae, dapat handa ang lalaki diyan at mag-ingat ng pamumuhay, hahaha. Kung mahal mo ang babae, dapat handa kang mahigpitan, mabantayan at mapag-aralan ng babae ang bawat kilos mo, parang cctv camera mo siya, hehehe. Basta tamang higpit lang, huwag naman iyo ng pati pakikipag bonding mo sa mga old friends mo,bestfriends and friends ay ipagbabawal niya. Dapat hindi nakakasakal, hehe.

Ang style dapat para patas ang relationship, kapag hinigpitan ka ng partner mo ay  higpitan mo din siya. Dapat.diyan maipapakita ang love sa isa’t isa. Mahirap kapag sobrang luwag sa isa’t isa, iyong walang rules & regulation kasi diyan pumapasok ang 3rd party.

Kapag palaging nag-aaway, dapat ay nagbabati kaagad dahil you have each other to be happy not to be sad. Kailangang ma overcome ang weakness ng bawat isa para always happy-jollibee, waha. Kung hindi ka rin liligaya, bakit ka pa papasok sa relasyon? Hangal ka. Iyan ang sinasabi ni Apostle Paul na mas mabuting single kaysa double para walang sakit ng ulo. Sa akin ay balewala na ang sakit ng ulo kaya gusto kong mag double, wahahahahhaahahhaha!!!

Kung bakit selosa ang babae kasi naghahanap siya ng assurance na mahal siya talaga ng lalaki kaya dapat everyday of man’s life ay ina-assure niya ang partner niya na love na love niya ito at napakalaking ginhawa iyan sa part ng girl.

That’s all, Thank you and God bless you. Your life is very important to Christ so, don’t waste your time for a man/woman who is not interested to Jesus. Huh.
By: Aldrin Cabrera


 

WE HONOR THE SPIRIT WHEN WE SHARE THE GOOD NEWS OF SALVATION WITH OTHERS



If you found an awesome new website, discovered a cool store at the mall or rented a hilarious movie, you’d recommend it to your friends. That’s all God asks of you. Recommend him to your friends.

Stick to the truth, stay on track, keep it simple and avoid arguments. You don’t have to know everything. If someone asks you something you don’t know,  look it up, then get back to the person!

You job is to share the message, God’s job is to work in the heart of your friend. Stick to doing your job and let God do his.

When you share the good news with others, not only will you have beautiful feet, the rest of you will smell pretty nice as well!

It has been said, “God doesn’t call you to be successful, just faithful.”

When you share the Gospel with someone, remember to clearly explain that:

1.       God loves you and wants a relationship with you.
(John 3:16)
2.       Your personal sin has harmed your intimacy with God. Sin results in physical death and spiritual separation from God.
(Romans 6:23)
3.       Jesus Christ lived a perfect life to fulfill God’s requirements and he died to make us right with God. He is the only solution for our sin problem.
(1 John 2:2)
4.       When we trust Jesus as our Savior from sin, we receive God’s forgiveness and become members of his family.
(1 John 1:8-9)
5.       Heaven is God’s gift to us. We can never be good enough to earn it, only receive it by faith.
(Ephesians 2:8-9)
6.       If we reject God’s offer of salvation, we will be punished forever.
(Matthew 25:46)

God, sometimes I’m scared of what other people think. I’m scared of what might happen if I start telling them about you. But you are the only hope for a dying world! Help me to put into practice the truths that I know and reach out to others to rescue them. I want to live like Jesus. I want to smell like you. Amen.

From the Book:
How to Smell like God


THE WORLD SAYS… GOD SAYS…


The world says…
You need to find yourself.

God says…
You’re lost, I need to find you.

The world says…
Follow your heart!

God says…
Your heart is deceitful, follow me.

The world says…
Do what you want!

God says…
Deny yourself, do what I want.

The world says…
Be all you can be!

God says…
Let me fill you and be more than you can be.

The world says…
Whoever dies with the most toys, wins!

God says…
Get your priorities straight. Whoever dies without me, loses.

From the Book:
How to Smell like God



THE MYSTERIES AND MEANING OF LIFE



1.       Obey God, for this is the duty of every person.
(Ecclesiastes 12:13)
2.       Enjoy life, even though it is brief and filled with uncertainty.
(Ecclesiastes 5:12, 16-20)
3.       Work hard, though it sometimes seems tiring and useless.
(Ecclesiastes 5:8-15, 6:9)

From the Book:
How to Smell like God



THE DAY WE LET STUMPY OUT OF THE LOCKER



If God really exists, what difference does that make to me? How does that affect my life? Do I even matter to God?

It was easy to make fun of Luke – a head shorter than the rest of the kids in our class, tangled hair, acne covering his face… and the clothes he wore made him look like a walking rummage sale.
You know the kind of guy he was. When we were hanging around talking with our friends and he came walking down the hall, we kinda closed up the circle so he couldn’t slip in and join our group. And we were eating in the cafeteria and he sat down at our table, we’d all remember something “important” to do and get up – one by one – leaving him sitting there all alone.
You know the kind of guy he was.
No one called him by his real name. We just called him Stumpy.
At least that’s what we called him to his face.
Stumpy didn’t play any sports. He wasn’t in drama or band or on the honor roll. He didn’t go to football games. Stumpy managed to slip through all the cracks. He didn’t fit into any clique. Stumpy’s only companion was this tall lanky kid whom everyone called Goose.
They always hung out together. Goose had Stumpy sharpen his pencils, do his homework, and buy candy bars for him. In return, Goose spent time with Stumpy. But I guess I shouldn’t be too hard on him, because that was more than anyone else at my high school was willing to do.
Stumpy and Goose spent long afternoon in a deserted corner of the Student Union playing cards during their lunch hour, free time, and after school.
For the first month of school, I didn’t pay much attention to them. But as I slid between the cliques myself, I began to spend more and more time learning to play poker with Goose and Stumpy, watching my afternoon slip away in the Student Union.
What I remember most about Stumpy was locking him in a locker.
“Let me out!”
            It just sorta happened one day. We were playing cards after school. Other than the three of us, the room was deserted. Suddenly, Goose winked at me and mouthed the words, “Follow my lead.” I shrugged my shoulders and nodded.
            Goose stood up. “Hey, Stumpy, could you help me get something out of my locker?”
            “Sure, Goose, I guess. What do you need?”
            “Just this,” said Goose, grabbing Stumpy by one arm. I jumped up and caught hold of his other arm.
            “Hey, you guys! What are you doing?” Stumpy muttered, beginning to get frightened.
            We dragged him over to the wall of lockers and Goose lifted the latch and threw a locker door open. We shoved Stumpy inside and slammed the door shut. Then, we slid a pencil through the lock so he couldn’t jimmy it open from the inside. Stumpy was trapped.
            “Well, Steve, let’s go home,” said Goose.
            “Okay, Goose, let’s go,” I called out, making sure I said it loud enough for Stumpy to hear.
            “Hey, you guys, don’t leave me in here. Lemme out!” he sounded really scared. We could hear him squirming inside the locker, but it was no use. He was trapped.
            We both pretended to leave the Student Union, but really stood by the doorway watching and laughing. We could hear Stumpy struggling against the locker, wiggling around.
            Then we let him out. And Goose and I laughed and told him how much fun it was and that we were just kidding around and slapped him on the back and then we all sat down to finish the card game.
            That was the first of many lock-ups. Each time we left him there a little longer. Or banged on the sides of the locker a little louder. Or poked stuff in those ventilation holes at the bottom of the locker. Or pushed in the sides of the adjoining lockers to squish him.
            Stumpy never struggled. He never fought back. He never returned our insults. And when we let him out, he’d just said, “Okay you guys, Okay you guys. Things are cool.”
“Things were not cool”
            Then came the day in March when Goose and I were really bored. We knew that just locking Stumpy in the locker wouldn’t be enough fun. So that day, after we stuck him in the locker, we blew pencil shavings in the top ventilation holes and then poured water down into the locker.
            “How’s the weather in there, Stumpy?” Goose called.
            I stood there laughing so hard my gut hurt.
            “Okay, you guys. Okay, you guys,” a muffled voice said. “Lemme out.” Finally, right before class, we let him out and whacked him on the back and laughed.
            “Just kidding around there, Stumpy,” said Goose, gathering up his books. He headed toward the door and I turned to get my books. And that’s when I happened to glance at Stumpy’s face.
            His eyes were bloodshot. As hard as he was trying to hide it, I could tell that not all the wetness on his face had come from the water we’d poured down the back of the locker. And for some reason that day didn’t look away. He just stood there. And in, that moment, I looked into his eyes.
            In that brief instant, in those sad eyes, I saw the real Stumpy. It was as if I could peer down inside him and know what he was feeling. And I heard the cry of his heart: Care about me. Tell me I matter. I just wished somebody would tell me I matter.
            Then he turned away, shaking. He drew one arm across his face to dry his eyes, grabbed his books, and looked back at me laughing a wild desperate laugh. “Okay, you guys,” he said. “Things are cool.”
            But I knew things were not cool. Not inside Stumpy.
            I spent less and less time in the Student Union after that day. Occasionally, I’d walk by the door and see Goose in there slapping Stumpy on the back, laughing. And sometimes Stumpy would see me standing in the doorway, watching. And then he would look away from me, and when I couldn’t see his face, he would laugh. But even from across the room I knew it wasn’t real laughter.
            I never apologized to Stumpy. I never asked for his forgiveness. The memory of that day in the Student Union still haunts me. I can still see his pleading eyes and hear him hiding behind that lonely laughter.
            And I can still hear him say, “Okay, you guys. Okay, you guys. Things are cool.” But beneath it all I know he was begging me to stop. To listen. To care. To see past the grungy clothes and the acne and the greasy hair. To be the one person who call him Luke instead of Stumpy.
“Have you met him?”
            Since then I’ve met lots of “Stumpys,” each with a different name and a different face. But if you look close enough, their eyes are the same. They feel alone and afraid and they’re willing to do anything to hear someone say, “You matter to me. I care about you.” They reach out again and again for the hand that slaps them, because without that hand they’d have nothing at all.
            Maybe you’ve met someone like Stumpy. Maybe you know someone like Stumpy. I’ll bet – if you’re honest with yourself – you’d have to admit there have been times in your life when you’ve known exactly how he felt.
            I wish I could whisper a message back through the years. I wish I could tell him, “I’m sorry, Luke. You do matter. You don’t deserve this. I care. But more importantly, so does God. He wants to be your friend. He wants to take away the pain, the loneliness and the fear. He loves you, Luke, and you don’t have to be alone any more.”
            Before you begin smelling like God, you gotta meet him. And the amazing truth is: God is already waiting to meet you.
            More than anything else, God is love. He cares about everyone. Stumpy. Your friends. Me. And you. No matter what you look like, how you dress, or how you act. God cares about you. He cares about your choices and dreams and feelings and heartaches. Everything you do matters to him. And God wants to have a relationship with you.
            The world looks at how you dress, what you do, and what you own: Stuff + Status = Success! But God looks at who you are underneath, in your heart. And he sees all the hopes, struggles, questions, mistakes, hurts and doubts. And he loves you anyway. With a love that will never fail or fade or falter or slip away or grow cold.
            You are Precious to God.

From the Book:
How to Smell like God








SERVING JESUS MEANS BOLDLY STANDING UP FOR GOD WITH PASSION, LOVE AND COMMITMENT



There are few things worth dying for. There are even fewer worth living for. The question is not so much, “Are you willing to die for Jesus?” but, “Are you willing to live for him?”

Serving Jesus is all about making choices every day. Every moment. Every hour. Both when no one is looking, and when everyone is staring your way. In front of your friends. Your family.

When people are using Jesus’ name as a cuss word, say something. When your friends are mocking Christ, stand up for your Savior. When someone asks you why you go to Church, tell him. When people sneer at you, don’t back down. It’s not easy.

But it’s always worth it.

Take a bold stand for Jesus. Nothing that’s lukewarm ever smells like God.

“Jesus, this life of following you isn’t gonna be easy, but I want to walk with you all the way. Even when i’m tempted to back down or turn around, give me courage. Let me be bold and compassionate. Invade me. Change me from the inside, out. Make me your own, Lord. Fill me with your unpredictable, unstoppable, unquenchable Spirit. Blow through my life and fill me with your power and love. I want to live for you and follow you. Forever. Amen.”

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How to Smell like God



PORTRAITS OF LOVE

PORTRAITS OF LOVE

There is a story about a priest who painted a picture of Christ. He was very proud of the picture and wanted other people to notice it as well. So, he invited the famous author Leo Tolstoy to come over. The priest thought that if Tolstoy liked his painting, then the other priest would admire it as well. Tolstoy came into the room and sat in front of the painting. For an hour he just sat there and stared at it. The priest was getting really excited.

Then, as Tolstoy stood up to leave, the priest asked, “So, what do you think?”

And Tolstoy looked at him and said, “If you would have loved him more, you would have painted him better.”

God doesn’t want us to do stuff for him because we’re gonna get rewarded or praised or famous for doing it. Instead, he wants our love for him to motivate us to do great things for him.

Don’t let Jesus say to you one day, “If you would have loved me more, you would have served me better.”

“But if anyone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need and refuses to help-how can God’s love be in that person? Dear children, let us stop just saying we love each other; let us really show it by our actions” (1 John 3:17, 18).

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How to Smell like God



PAUL DESCRIPTION OF GOD



Paul description of God:
a.He is the God who made the world and everything in it.
What that means to us today:
a.There is only one God. He is all-powerful. He planned and created the universe.

Paul description of God:
b.Since He is Lord of heaven and earth, he doesn’t live in man-made temples, and human hands can’t serve his needs-for he has no needs.
What that means to us today:
b.He is ruler of all that there is both physically and spiritually. God is self-existent and doesn’t live in a physical realm. You can’t contain him. Rather, God exists everywhere at once.

Paul description of God:
c.He himself gives life and breath to everything, and he satisfies every need there is.
What that means to us today:
c.God is the source of all life. He provides for our needs day by day.

Paul description of God:
d.From one man he created all the nations throughout the whole earth. He decided beforehand which should rise and fall, and he determined their boundaries.
What that means to us today:
d.God created human life. Your ancestors didn’t evolve from a monkey or climb from the slime. All the events in history are God’s hands. He controls them and nothing takes him by surprise. Nothing happens by chance in the universe. God is in control.

Paul description of God:
e.His purpose in all of this was that the nations should seek after God and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him-though he is not far from any one of us.
What that means to us today:
e.There is purpose to the universe. God’s plan all along has been for human beings to seek him. That what his purpose in creation, civilization and history. God is within the reach of every heart.

Paul description of God:
f.For in him we live and move and exist. As one of your own poets says, ‘We are his offspring.’
What that means to us today:
f.We depend on God to preserve our lives, to give us existence and meaning.

Paul description of God:
g.And since this is true, we shouldn’t think of God as an idol designed by craftsmen from gold or silver or stone.
What that means to us today:
g.We shouldn’t pretend that we can create our own “god” the way we want. We don’t tell God the way it is-he tells us!

Paul description of God:
h.God overlooked people’s former ignorance about these things, but now he commands everyone everywhere to turn away from idols and turn to him.
What that means to us today:
h.Now that Christ has come, God holds everyone accountable for his or her life, choices, and sins. God commands people to turn from their sins and turn to him. Whatever you desire more than God is an idol to you.

Paul description of God:
i.For he has set a day for judging the world with justice by the man he has appointed, and he proved to everyone who is this by raising him from the dead.
What that means to us today:
i.One day Jesus will return to judge people. And God is fair, he doesn’t grade on a curve. Those who have turned to him will be pardoned. Those who have not, will be sentenced. The proof of God’s plan was Jesus’ resurrection.

Paul description of God:
j.When they heard Paul speak of the resurrection of a person who had been dead, some laughed, but others said, “We want to hear more about this later.” That ended Paul’s discussion with them, but some joined him and became believers.  Among them where Dionysius, a member of the Council, a woman named Damarias, and others.” (Acts 17:24-34)
What that means to us today:
j.People respond differently when they hear about the resurrection. Some laugh. Some put off making a commitment to Christ. And some become believers. Which one will you be?

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How to Smell like God





OTHERS MAY, BUT YOU CANNOT



If God has called you to be really like Jesus, He will draw you into a life of crucifixion and humility, and put upon you such demands of obedience that you will not be able to follow other people or measure yourself by other Christians, and in many ways He will seem to let other good people do things which He will not let you do…

The Lord may let others be honored and put forward, and keep you in hidden obscurity, because He wants to produce some choice, fragrant fruit for His coming glory, which can only be produced in the shade. He may let others do work for Him and get the credit for it, but He will make you work and toil on without knowing how much you are doing; and then to make your work still more precious, He may let others get the credit for the work which you have done, and thus make you reward ten times greater when Jesus comes.

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How to Smell like God



HOW TO SMELL LIKE GOD



God’s love is not based on your inherit worth. You haven’t earned His love or deserved it in any way.  His love is unmerited love and your worth doesn’t come from what you’ve done or what you look like or what you wear. It’s not based on your appearance or performance, where you live or what kind of car you drive. Your worth comes from how much God was willing to pay to restore your severed relationship with Him.

If you’ve ever felt alone or wondered if there is anyone out there who cares, the answer is “YES!” No matter who you are. No matter what you’ve done. He accepts you “as is” & He loves you.

God thinks you are worth dying for. Not because of great things you’ve done, but because of His deep love for you.

God is almighty, all-knowing, fair, and full of love. He wants to have a relationship with you. He’s out to get you-not to catch you doing something wrong-but to meet you and make you part of His family. It’s not too late. Listen to God’s call. Accept His offer. Trust in His love. Don’t step off the cliff of this life into uncertainty-fall instead into God’s waiting & forgiving arms.

If your soul is alone or afraid or filled with regrets and pain, you can find forgiveness for the past and hope for the future by simply trusting in Christ for your salvation.

There’s only one solution to our sin problem-the sin needs to be removed. It’s like a stain on your soul that needs to be cleared off before you can be in the presence of God. What is the ultimate stain-remover? What’s the only solution available? The Blood of Jesus.

God’s love is unfailing, unflinching and everlasting; that His forgiveness is full and free and forever; and that when He forgives, He forgets and doesn’t keep a record of wrongs. God’s word is like a scalpel. Separating truth from lies and exposing all the diseased areas of our sinful lives. And sometimes that hurts. But once we realize who we are in God’s eyes, we finally have the chance to receive God’s gift of life. And be made better. Forever.

Now, imagine a whole planet of zombies. Dead people walking around , never  experiencing true life, and not even realizing they’re missing out. See? A world filled with the living dead. Pursuing evil. Doomed forever. But then God came down. Jesus lived and died and conquered death. And He offers life without end to all who believe, “No matter who we are or what we have done.” (Romans 3:22).

A distinct change occurs in people’s hearts and lives when they become Christians. It’s like they’re given brand-new lives. And to God, they stop smelling like dead, rotting corpses, and begin to smell like His Son, Jesus.

Most people are zombies. They go through the motions of being alive, but inside, they’re spiritually dead. They live without God and without hope in the world (Ephesians 2:12). And there’s only one way to get off this planet alive: Faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior.

You might wish to pray something like this:
“Dear God. I want to be a part of your family. I want to experience that spiritual rebirth and stop living like a zombie. I admit I’m a sinner and can’t get to heaven on my own. I know that Jesus lived, died and rose again to forgive my sins. Today, I place my trust in Him and I turn my life over to You. I repent of my past and give you my future. Thanks for being my Savior, Jesus. I can’t wait to smell more like You. Amen.”

It’s not the prayer you pray or the words you say, but rather the attitude of your heart. At the moment, when you believe in Jesus Christ as Your Savior, you are given new life from God. And heaven is guaranteed. You are no longer a zombie. You can finally start on the journey toward smelling like God.

Some people think Christianity is restricting, boring, lifeless, dull or limiting. But here Jesus is saying, “You got it all wrong. I came to give ultimate life. It’s what I lived for. That’s what I offer! More freedom. More peace. More meaning than you’ve ever imagined. If you want to experience life to the fullest with the most possible joy, freedom, purpose and pain. Step over here and follow me. If you want the dry juiceless existence of never really tapping into life, go your own way.”

Jesus isn’t here to limit us, but to set us free, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free” (John 8:36). Freedom, not restriction. That’s what lies at the heart of following Jesus. The secret to smelling like God is realizing that it’s Jesus expressing Himself through you that smells so good. As you hand over the reigns of your life to Him and say, “Take me where you want me to go!” You’ll start to smell more like God everyday.

If God is your copilot, switch seats! Embrace the moment. Pursue your dreams. Live without regrets. He wants you to experience all the fullness of life has to offer, all the joy and peace possible. Life on the edge. Life to the max. The ultimate adventure. That’s what Jesus came to provide. That’s what He promises. It’s the journey of a lifetime and there’s no turning back. Are you ready to sign on? Once you place your faith in Him, the adventure has begun!

When you trust in Christ, a change takes place in you that will affect your choices, lifestyle and attitudes. Things that didn’t bother you before you may start to make you uncomfortable. Language and joking that seemed natural may begin to sound unnatural and offensive. Why? Because you’re no longer yourself! You’re a new and different person. The moment you become a Christian, God gives you an awesome new identity. This doesn’t mean you don’t care about your old friends or that you aren’t willing to spend time with them or that you’re better than they are. It simply means you shouldn’t be surprised when you don’t “fit in” like you used to. You have a totally new identity. You’ve started to smell like God!

When we become a believer of Christ, we went from lowly to holy, from zeroes to heroes. God doesn’t just remodel your old life, He gives you a radical new one. So if you don’t feel like yourself anymore, it may be a good thing. God is shaping you to be more-and smell more-like Jesus!

Sin promises to taste delicious, but after you take a bite you discover that the after taste is sour. You end with regrets, shame, confussion and hurt, only listen to that sweet, promising voice again, “Pick me up. I’m harmless.” Any time a sin seems safe, watch out!

God doesn’t force us to behave when temptation come our way. He gives us a choice. A chance to follow Jesus. A chance to smell like God.

In God’s eyes, showing compassion and meeting the physical needs of those less fortunate than you is a practical way of expressing your love for Jesus. You actually serve Him when you serve them. Always it is compassion. Perhaps you’ve seen Him. Perhaps sometimes you thought this:
“He’s not my problem. Someone else will help him.
I’m in a hurry. I’ll help the next I see.
Those people are dangerous. You need to keep your distance.
What would people think if they saw me talking to him?”

And each time the words, “When you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me,” fade softly into the static of everyday life. Jesus in the background. Excuses. Busyness. Priorities. Left overs.

We see brand names on everything from jeans to computers to pick-up trucks to shoes. Everything has a logo or trademark these days. But what about Christianity? Is there any identifying mark or distinctive lifestyle?

“A new command I give to you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13:34, 35, NIV.)

Jesus said that the trademark of Christianity is a lifestyle of love. Love smells like God.

It can be as simple as a smile, a hug, a word of thanks, a phone call, a backrub, an encouraging email, listening, spending time with someone, praying for or offering to help her through a tough time, being there where he needs you. Compassion takes different forms but the trademark of love is evident.

How do you make that kind of love and lifestyle your own? By pursuing your relationship with Jesus, growing in your understanding of who He is and what He has done for you, and by letting His love shine in and through your life. Following Jesus day by day. Choice by choice. Smelling like God all the while. Giving God, and others, more than your left overs.

Love is not a feeling you get in your gut while you’re holding your girflfriend’s hand. That might be nausea, but it ain’t love. Love is not that queasy, exciting little thrill you get wherever you see her. That might be constipation but it ain’t love. Love is not a feeling, it’s a choice. It’s a decision to meet the needs of another person by serving his or her best interests despite the price, whatever the cost-and expecting nothing in return. Love is a response. And love always has a genuine concern for other Person’s best interest. It’s not like giving away your leftovers. Love doesn’t judge others based on mere appearances. In God’s eyes we’re all equals. Christians sometimes make the mistake of thinking lonely people only need God. Very often, lonely people need us.

The closer we are to God. Like Mary or Moses-the more we’ll smell like Jesus. The more we’ll grow in this darkened world. The secret to smelling like God and serving like Jesus is to stay intimate with God and let the Holy Spirit direct your life.

The people who accomplish great things for God always have: (1) unshakable confidence (2) unquenchable passion (3) wholehearted devotion (4) genuine humility (5) generous heart.

No matter what you do or have done, God will always accept you. But He will never accept your excuses. Learn to say “Yes!” to Him. Whatever the cost. Whatever it takes. Whatever it leads.

God doesn’t look for accomplishments but faithfulness. He doesn’t care how many Church services you’ve attended, how many Bible verses you’ve memorized, how many things you’ve checked off your to-do list. What He is wondering, and what He will ask you one day, is: “Where was your heart? What was your desire? How did you live out my love for the world to see?”

Christianity isn’t a tradition. It isn’t a religion. It isn’t about going to Church and trying your hardest to follow the rules. It isn’t even about being good. It isn’t about how you dress, who your parents are or how you act. Christianity is all about knowing, serving and honoring the God who loves you.

When we pray we talk to God, but there’s more to it than that is more of a lifestyle than activity. That’s why God encourages us to “pray continually” and live lives of “constant prayer.” Because  prayer is being real before God. That means no pretending. No acting like you’re good enough, respectable enough or wise enough on your own that you don’t need God. No games, no role-playing, no masks, no excuses. Be genuine, be vulnerable, honest, sincere and authentic.

You can live an authentic life by being:
Honest-by keeping your promises.
Sincere-by meaning what you say.
Respectful-by showing that you care.
Vulnerable-by admitting when you’re wrong.

When you’re filled with sadness, let it overflow to Him. When you’re angry or afraid or hurting or confused, let Him know. When you’re stressed out or in trouble, talk to God. That’s real prayer.

Praise God for who He is. Thank God for all He’s done. And on those days when God’s love just overwhelms you and you can’t seem to hold in it, let loose! Explode into passionate praise and thanksgiving without fear of embarrassment! That’s what being real is all about.

The way to achieve true inner harmony and happiness isn’t by earning a mountain of cash or impressing hordes of fans or even seeing your name in lights. True harmony, happiness and peace come from knowing your sins are forgiven and that you are accepted by God-despite the mistakes and the wrongs you’ve done in the past.

We all have scars. Some are on the surface. Some are in our hearts, where no one but God can see. Deep, deep scars. Scars from those words you accidentally overhead… from the apology that was never given… from the tears you bottled up and never cried… from the shattered dreams or broken heart you carry. But instead of blindly asking, “Why?”, open your eyes and ask, “who else?” Odds are, someday you’ll met someone with the same scars. Will you be ready to help that person? Will you let God bring something out of the scars in your life?

We honor God when we stick with Him, trust that He knows best and remain faithful even when life doesn’t make sense.

God will be with you. Through the tough times. Through the good times. Through the bad times. You may never see the full purpose of suffering in this life, but you can honor the Holy Spirit by continuing to trust in Him even when life-with all of its suffering-doesn’t make sense.

Are you looking for a practical way to express your love for God? Then begin learning and obeying His commands. God doesn’t want us to serve Him out of obligation or guilt, but in freedom expressed through love. True obedience always disobeying yourself. Jesus came to do His Father’s will rather than whatever he wanted.

Sometimes we go to Church and hear about how important is to share Christ’s love, but too often we make excuses for doing nothing. Or, we just go through the motions. We don’t usually consider sharing our faith with others a matter of life and death. Yet a main part of the job description of being a Christian is rescuing other people. People drifting away from God. People who are spiritually drowning.

When Jesus returns, the last thing you want to be doing is standing there wondering if you could have done more to save someone. Saving someone’s life is something you’ll never regret. Sharing with him or her the new life Jesus offers is even better. Because it lasts forever.

God sent Jesus to suffer in your place and pay the penalty for your sins. Trusting in Christ as your Savior is the only way to have a right relationship with God. Before you can start to smell like God, you need to get to know and believe in the one true God.

Then, follow Jesus and let Him change you from the inside out. Following God isn’t base on a set of rules, but on deepening your relationship with Him and letting Him rule in your life.

Finally, let the Holy Spirit guide you into a life of purity that spreads the fragrance of heaven throughout your world. And as you go, God goes with you. To touch the lives of others with the aroma of His love. Out of gratitude for what God has done, you can honor Him by taking the message of His love to the world.

To know Him. To serve Him. To honor Him. That’s what it means to smell like God.

Serving God is the ultimate adventure and heaven is the ultimate destination. May your life burn with its supernatural scent! I pray that I’ll see you (and smell you) there, someday soon!

Blessings!

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How to Smell like God

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