MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

 MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

Ladies alam nyo ba na men are visual creatures? That’s how they’re created. Just the sight of a woman’s body na stimulate na sila. Unlike us women, kelangan na I-touch tayo to turn us on 🤭

Knowing that, we have to be responsible also, we  can’t just wear anything and expect no reaction from them. Wala man silang sabihin or gawin pero sa isip nila andun ka na 😬 

It is written in the Bible, do not cause your brother to stumble.

My body my rules na naman kayo 🙄susuot kayo ng kita na kaluluwa nyo tapos gagalit kayo kapag may reaction from the opposite sex. “Eh kahit naman balot na balot na, ganon pa din daw” this is something else na, baka may mental factor na to. 

Parati na lang ba na sila ang dapat turuan paano rumespeto sa babae? We should do that naman talaga but we have to consider their biological tendencies also. Hindi ba dapat tayo din wag natin sila i-trigger? 

This is not about respect ha. This is about science. A fact na created visual creature ang mga lalake. 

Doc Bev Ferrer

SLEEPLESS NIGHTS

ALAM MO BA KUNG BAKIT SA GABI HINDI KA MA KATULOG AGAD?

Maliban sa Insomnia 

Naranasan mo na ba? 

Hihiga ka, babangon, iinom ng tubig at hihiga na naman ulit. Pag Higa mo mamaya makakaramdam ka na naiihi ka, pagkatapos ipipikit mo mata mo at didilat kana naman bubuksan ang cellphone para lang sumakit ang mata para makatulog. Pero kahit puyat na puyat ka na bigla ka na namang mapaisip at itatanong sa sarili.  

Okay Lang ba ako? 

Magiging masaya pa ba ako? 

May mali ba sa sarili ko? 

Nakapikit na nga mga mata mo pero dilat at gumagalaw parin ang utak mo. Bigla kanalang malulungkot. Bigla kanalang iiyak, bigla ka nalang manghihina. 

Kailan ka makakatulog? 

Makakatulog ka Lang pagkatapos mong umiyak dahil sa pagod ng utak at puso mo. Sa madaling salita.. 

Kapag matagal matulog ang tao ibig sabihin malalim ang lungkot niya.  

Kaya pag may kilala kang tao na puspusang nag oonline kahit gabi na o umiiyak gabi-gabi wag mong tawanan kasi hindi mo alam kong anong nararamdaman o pakiramdam nila. 

(kung naranasan mo ito ibig sabihin napakalungkot mong tao) 

written by : Ate Lemrach

THEY GROW UP TOO FAST

So fast. 

But we don’t appreciate the years of little kids while we’re in them.⁣⁣

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Because humans never do until it's too late and they're gone.⁣⁣

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While we're in it, we often wish parts of it away,⁣⁣

the hardly any time to ourselves,⁣⁣

the crawling across the floor to put away puzzles and crayons,⁣⁣

the peeling off stickers,⁣⁣

and scraping muffins and scrambled eggs off the kitchen floor.⁣⁣

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We wish away the tantrums,⁣⁣

the constant fighting,⁣⁣

the bad behavior,⁣⁣

the non-stop laundry,⁣⁣

and the exhaustion ALL THE TIME.⁣⁣

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We wish away every imperfect moment that makes our skin crawl.⁣⁣

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But one day, it will be over⁣⁣

and we’ll miss it—⁣

ALL OF IT.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss the giggles,⁣⁣

the smiles,⁣⁣

the “not wiped off” kisses,⁣⁣

and chubby arms and toothless grins.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss being needed,⁣⁣

the crooked teeth,⁣⁣

the time spent together,⁣⁣

and hearing “Mommy look!” every two minutes.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss who we are RIGHT NOW as individuals and a family.⁣⁣

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Because soon new people will be living in our house with us. Their faces and voices will morph into someone else’s.⁣⁣

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And they’ll keep changing.⁣⁣

And we’ll be new people, too.⁣⁣

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So, let’s try to take in ALL OF IT—⁣⁣

the bad, hard, and the good—⁣⁣

and not take any of it for granted.⁣⁣

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Because I guarantee,⁣⁣

one day soon,⁣⁣

we’ll miss THIS.⁣

Because gosh, they grow up too fast. 

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✍️: Living FULL

📸: @lainey.molnar