Men, if the woman you like
and love said yes in courtship with you and you know in your heart that the
feelings are not yet mutual, well, you need to do something about it. If you
want to hear her next yes for a long lasting relationship, you need to lead the
friendship to a deeper level everyday. How can you lead her in the future kung
friendship palang hindi mo na siya ma-lead? Make sure to make the courtship
deep, interesting and fun everyday.
“Kamusta ka na? “Hahaha!”
or spiritual text messages are good but how about asking her deep and
interesting questions like, “What adventures do you like?” “What are your
earliest memories?” “How did you handle first day of school when you were a
child?” “What’s your routine every morning?” “How about at night?” “What’s your
favorite cartoon character?” “Fave thing to do beside this and that?” Make sure
to connect. Don’t just text. You can call, send emails, visit her at home and
make some surprises.
How about going out on
dates (of course with the permission of your parents) but doing not the usual
ones? How about considering eating in turu-turo’s, go on a roller coaster ride,
have some roadtrips while playing loud music and sing together? How about
working out together and become gym buddies? Or do a Bible-Study in a coffee
shop?
Oh girls love that!
Remember this: Courtship
is another level of friendship and this might lead the both of you to at least
consider marriage in the future but how will this happen if it’s stagnant,
usual and not growing?
Courtship is a wonderful
time in your relationship which you refrain from physical intimacy, you deepen
friendship, learn about each other’s values and goals, and interacted spiritual
level.
Wag kang pumayag na ang
kanta ni girl sayo ay ito: How can I fall, how can I fall if you just won’t
give me reason at all?
Men, let it grow! Kung
manliligaw ka ay husayan mo na! If not, someone else will.
P.S.
Kung nag-aaral ka pa,
hindi para sayo ito, hahaha : D
-Jamey Keeneth Santiago
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