1.He hasn’t
asked you on a date. When a guy likes you, he’ll ask you on a date, it’s that
simple.
2.You haven’t
hooked up even drunk. Get him drunk and see what happens. If he doesn’t make a
move drunk, he hasn’t thought about it sober. Or he thought about it sober and
thought never.
3.Plans always
revolve around his schedule. The relationship isn’t 50/50 at all. It’s you
giving more than you get and he knows he can get away with it because he knows
how you feel.
4.He
disappears for a long periods of time. He might talk to you everyday but the
second the weekend comes around, you won’t speak until Monday.
5.When you do
hang out, it’s in groups. He doesn’t want to be alone with you. It’s that
simple.
6.He cancels
often. He’ll cancel last minute, not even feel bad about it, come up with an
excuse and not try and make it up to you.
7.He talks
about other girls to you. He isn’t trying to make you jealous. He’s trying to
make it clear he does not in this lifetime think of you as anything more.
8.He says he
values the friendship. If I never hear this line again in my lifetime, I’ll be
happy. I’d rather someone say to my face straight up, we will never work out
because I have no interest in you, then try and spare my feelings.
9.He ignores
you in public. If he likes you, he’ll be happy to see you, he won’t be trying
to dodge you in public.
10.He doesn’t
always reply to your texts. You might talk a lot but the conversation ends when
he says so.
11.You think
he’s confusing but he just doesn’t like you. Girls tend to create these
narratives in their mind of what they want the story to be instead of looking
at what is actually there. You read the signs you want to, to justify what you
want to believe to be true.
12.He asks
about other guys. He wants you to move on from him and he’s hoping and praying
you do some day soon.
13.You only
ever text. Responding to a text message takes zero effort. If you removed cell
phones and social media from your life, would he disappear? Yes. I thought so.
14.He’s always
busy. You invite him out and he says he can’t make it then shows up to the same
place anyway. Sometimes people are too busy for you because they don’t want to
spend time with you.
15.You have to
actually wonder how he feels. A guy who likes you won’t make you question how
he feels. I get it. Liking someone who doesn’t like you blows. But all any of
us can do in our lives is give it our best and hope the person feels the same
way, if they don’t it isn’t our responsibility to convince someone to like us
or that we are worthy of their love and attention.
God Bless Us..
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