FORGIVENESS

...means you accept what wrongs have been done to you, you let go of those wrongs, you calm your heart with God’s love and patience, and you begin again—with or without that person, it’s up to you.

We end up stuck as friends with benefits, even though we are secretly searching for a serious relationship, because we are stubborn. We consider waiting romantic. We refuse to move on from people who have made it clear they are wrong for us. We give them too many chances. We give them too much credit.

SEX LOVE AND VIRGINITY

Lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don't get it, they walk away.

The problem may not be the virginity or the sex.

The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity...

NO! But because they were foolish and they wVeere called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL. And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!

Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that's all they have to offer.

Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?

- Can you support him spiritually?

- Can you support him physically?

- How about mentally?

All you do is demand money for bag, shoes,clothes, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.

Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future?

Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?

How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?

Rather than jumping from one club to another.

And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL continues...

Yes.Nobody is perfect.

We all have our bad sides.

BUT..

Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man.

Build your man to your taste

And stop looking for a ready made husband

*Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with to achieve what he has...

And hear the story of your life from him one day

- Did You Work With me to achieve all I've got?

- Ever since you've entered this house... What has added to what you met?

* Note:

- There's just nothing as best as building up your man yourself.

- And you will forever earn his respect

Learn to love without attachment.

PAIN IS NOT MEANT TO END YOU

I am a firm believer that if you love someone you should let them go. If you love someone you let them free, you let them find who they are.

The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never explained.

Pain is not meant to end you. Bad days are not all there is. Weakness is not what defines you. And the broken pieces of you do not reflect who you are.

CHEERS!

So, cheers to you, to us, for letting each other go. For allowing other people to enter our lives and nurture us further into life. Thank you for stopping by in my life and leaving a mark. I do not regret loving you.

THIS YEAR I HOPE YOU TELL PEOPLE HOW YOU FEEL

 This year, I hope you tell people how you feel.

When you love them, you tell them. When you want them to stay, you ask them not to go. When you’re missing them, you express that. When you’re hurting, you let them see the innermost parts of your heart.

I hope you stop pretending. I hope you stop acting like you’re okay when you’re cracking on the inside. I hope you stop telling yourself you don’t need anyone. And I hope you become strong, but soft.

This year, I hope you love with passion.

There are no rules for love. You don’t have to act a certain way or say a specific thing. You don’t have to follow the guidelines of those around you, or fit into a mold of the man or woman you’re ‘supposed to be.’ I hope in this new year, you break away from those expectations. I hope you love with fullness, love with passion, love with everything you have.

This year, I hope you are bold.

I hope you love fiercely. I hope you give people your heart and you let them hold yours. I hope you share your mind. I hope you believe in the future. I hope you quit measuring yourself and your relationship to those around you and find happiness on even your most difficult days. I hope you fight for things and people that you love. I hope you look back and know that you lived your life exactly how you wanted to, with the people you care for by your side. But most of all, I hope you are fearless when it comes to matters of your heart.

DO NOT AVOID HEARTBREAK

Do not avoid disappointment. Do not avoid failure. Do not avoid the call to be negative. Your rise from these ashes will be the value of your life. These things will teach you what you can withstand, what you’re capable of.

I AM A DEEP WOMAN

...who wants a deep relationship. I want long conversations about your life, i want to hear stories about your past, i want to understand your pain and i want to add value to your life. I want a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun.