MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

 MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

Ladies alam nyo ba na men are visual creatures? That’s how they’re created. Just the sight of a woman’s body na stimulate na sila. Unlike us women, kelangan na I-touch tayo to turn us on 🤭

Knowing that, we have to be responsible also, we  can’t just wear anything and expect no reaction from them. Wala man silang sabihin or gawin pero sa isip nila andun ka na 😬 

It is written in the Bible, do not cause your brother to stumble.

My body my rules na naman kayo 🙄susuot kayo ng kita na kaluluwa nyo tapos gagalit kayo kapag may reaction from the opposite sex. “Eh kahit naman balot na balot na, ganon pa din daw” this is something else na, baka may mental factor na to. 

Parati na lang ba na sila ang dapat turuan paano rumespeto sa babae? We should do that naman talaga but we have to consider their biological tendencies also. Hindi ba dapat tayo din wag natin sila i-trigger? 

This is not about respect ha. This is about science. A fact na created visual creature ang mga lalake. 

Doc Bev Ferrer

SLEEPLESS NIGHTS

ALAM MO BA KUNG BAKIT SA GABI HINDI KA MA KATULOG AGAD?

Maliban sa Insomnia 

Naranasan mo na ba? 

Hihiga ka, babangon, iinom ng tubig at hihiga na naman ulit. Pag Higa mo mamaya makakaramdam ka na naiihi ka, pagkatapos ipipikit mo mata mo at didilat kana naman bubuksan ang cellphone para lang sumakit ang mata para makatulog. Pero kahit puyat na puyat ka na bigla ka na namang mapaisip at itatanong sa sarili.  

Okay Lang ba ako? 

Magiging masaya pa ba ako? 

May mali ba sa sarili ko? 

Nakapikit na nga mga mata mo pero dilat at gumagalaw parin ang utak mo. Bigla kanalang malulungkot. Bigla kanalang iiyak, bigla ka nalang manghihina. 

Kailan ka makakatulog? 

Makakatulog ka Lang pagkatapos mong umiyak dahil sa pagod ng utak at puso mo. Sa madaling salita.. 

Kapag matagal matulog ang tao ibig sabihin malalim ang lungkot niya.  

Kaya pag may kilala kang tao na puspusang nag oonline kahit gabi na o umiiyak gabi-gabi wag mong tawanan kasi hindi mo alam kong anong nararamdaman o pakiramdam nila. 

(kung naranasan mo ito ibig sabihin napakalungkot mong tao) 

written by : Ate Lemrach

THEY GROW UP TOO FAST

So fast. 

But we don’t appreciate the years of little kids while we’re in them.⁣⁣

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Because humans never do until it's too late and they're gone.⁣⁣

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While we're in it, we often wish parts of it away,⁣⁣

the hardly any time to ourselves,⁣⁣

the crawling across the floor to put away puzzles and crayons,⁣⁣

the peeling off stickers,⁣⁣

and scraping muffins and scrambled eggs off the kitchen floor.⁣⁣

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We wish away the tantrums,⁣⁣

the constant fighting,⁣⁣

the bad behavior,⁣⁣

the non-stop laundry,⁣⁣

and the exhaustion ALL THE TIME.⁣⁣

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We wish away every imperfect moment that makes our skin crawl.⁣⁣

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But one day, it will be over⁣⁣

and we’ll miss it—⁣

ALL OF IT.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss the giggles,⁣⁣

the smiles,⁣⁣

the “not wiped off” kisses,⁣⁣

and chubby arms and toothless grins.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss being needed,⁣⁣

the crooked teeth,⁣⁣

the time spent together,⁣⁣

and hearing “Mommy look!” every two minutes.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss who we are RIGHT NOW as individuals and a family.⁣⁣

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Because soon new people will be living in our house with us. Their faces and voices will morph into someone else’s.⁣⁣

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And they’ll keep changing.⁣⁣

And we’ll be new people, too.⁣⁣

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So, let’s try to take in ALL OF IT—⁣⁣

the bad, hard, and the good—⁣⁣

and not take any of it for granted.⁣⁣

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Because I guarantee,⁣⁣

one day soon,⁣⁣

we’ll miss THIS.⁣

Because gosh, they grow up too fast. 

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✍️: Living FULL

📸: @lainey.molnar

HOW STRONG YOUR FAITH TO HOLD ON AND RELY TO GOD

 when couple are both christians, consider that the trials and testings of the enemy(devil) is much more stronger.to both test HOW STRONG YOUR FAITH TO HOLD ON AND RELY TO OUR ALMIGHTY GOD..and how strong and fully committed you are to entrust your future to our one and only Omniscient and omnipresent God..this only proves that your flesh are weak thou your spirits are willing to serve Him truly..you where both deceived by the enemy😔may Godbless you both and continue serving God💜

THE REASON FOR SEPARATION IS HARD HEARTS

 Been seeing alot of post of this couple who just broke up recently...

Because of the break up issue...

Of Moira and Jason

May mga nagsasabi na ano bayan "CHRISTIAN" pa naman pareho yan...

Hala nagloko dba Christian yan..

And many more statement na hindi naaalis yung word na- diba Christian yan.

But you know what it's easy to claim to be a Christian and profess that Jesus is the center of the relationship or of any relationship but it's Jesus who knows the heart...

But why did Moi and Jason broke up even the both of them are christians?

It say in Mark 10: 9

9 Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” 

It means marriage should not be broken by any means or  man If God is really the center. But why are Moira and Jason separate, what is the main reason?  The Bible says in (Matthew 19:8)“Jesus replied, “Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended.”

It's not God who intended it!!

What it says in the bible about the God centered love? It never gives up, it never loses faith, it endures!!

The Bible says in (1 Corinthians 13:7) states “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

The reason for separation is “hard hearts”. Jesus is not the center of their relationship in the first place, because if it was, it is impossible to separate your wife. After all, Jesus is living in heart of the flesh, and not in the stone heart (Ezekiel 36:26). 

So don't  be surprice why even some Christian people come into that point of there lives  or Marriage it's not God it's not there Christianity it's there "Heart."

For its say that 

Proverbs 4:23

Above all else, guard your heart  for everything you do flows from it.

If it's not God who's on the center of your life you don't have the power to guard and guide it...

BEING YOUR MOM WILL ALWAYS BE MY GREATEST PRIVILEGE

 What a privilege it is to wrap you in my arms.

What a privilege it is to be your biggest fan.

What a privilege it is to hold your hand.

What a privilege it is to watch you grow. 

What a privilege it is to be your source of comfort.

What a privilege it is to be the one you search for across a crowded room.

What a privilege it is to assuage your fears.

What a privilege it is to be the one who gives you advice.

What a privilege it is to be your role model.

What a privilege it is to be the one you turn to for guidance.

What a privilege it is to make you feel safe.

What a privilege it is to have a front row seat as you discover yourself.

And when the day comes when you spread your wings and fly, 

I hope you know that 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 ALWAYS 𝑏𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑠𝑡 𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑙𝑒𝑔𝑒.

Written by: Surviving Mom Blog with Randi Latzman

TEN REALIZATIONS THAT YOU HAVE TO EMBRACE

As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping. 

2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself. 

3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you. 

4. You are a work in progress,  so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone. 

5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes. 

6. Those people who know you better will stay with you no matter what. These are people that you have to keep because they have the purest intentions for you. 

7. Maturity is to prioritize your needs over anything. For as long it can serve its purpose, you don't feel the need to buy a new one. 

8. Embrace the fact that we outgrew people. Some of them do not stay because they have other priorities. You don't stop them, you let them go. 

9. You choose your battles because not everything is worth your time and energy. You would want to protect your peace of mind than engage in drama. 

10. You choose your happiness more than anything. You don't let people define your success. You make the most of every day because life is fleeting. 

You chase your dreams, not people anymore.