Dear Anak,
Hindi kita ikukumpara sa ibang bata.
Hindi ako maiinggit sa meron sila na wala ka.
Hindi ako magagalit kung hindi mo pa kaya.
Hindi ako manghihinayang sa bagay na hindi mo nagagawa.
Hindi ako magsasawang ipagmalaki ang angking mong talino at ganda.
At lalong hindi ako titigil na ipagtanggol ka sa pagkukumpara ng iba.
Dahil UNIQUE ka. Iba ka at iba sila. ❤️
Happy 1 year & 10 months old Anak♥️
Earlier doesn’t always mean better.
Her kid walked at one year, yours walked at eighteen months, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.
Her kid potty-trained at two years old, yours didn't potty-train until four years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.
Her kid recognized all his letters and numbers before pre-school, yours had no interest until almost four, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.
Her kid was sleeping through the night by three months, yours wasn’t sleeping through the night until two years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.
Because reaching developmental milestones early means 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 in the long run.
Because a college professor won’t wonder how old her students were when they could count to one hundred or spell their names.
And no one will know or care if the Harvard graduate or the CEO had a pacifier or didn't potty-train until five years old.
What matters most is the whole child,
who 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are,
and how kind 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are
So let the pressure go,
and let your kids be kids.
Don’t rush them through their childhoods,
and make them miss out
because they’re too busy meeting milestone after milestone.
Besides, earlier doesn’t always mean better.
𝘐𝘵 just means earlier.
Happy 1 year & 10 months old Anak♥️
Jesus said, “Assuredly, I say to you, today you will be with Me in paradise.” - John19:25-27
Jesus spoke these words to a criminal who confessed that he is a sinner and believed that Jesus is the Lord and Savior.
A criminal was able to go to Heaven even though he didn’t went through the tradition of having a holy communion, an ash in the forehead, confession of sins to any religious man, baptized in water, or signed a religious membership form He is a sinful man who never had a chance to do good to be saved, his only credential and background was that he used to be a criminal which is the reason he was crucified to death.
And yet the Lord gave him an assurance that he will enter heaven.
What did the criminal do to have the assurance to be where Jesus is?
1. He confessed that he is a sinful man in full humility. (Luke 23:40-41
2. He believed that Jesus is the Son of God and the Messiah. (Luke 23:42)
3. He entrusted his soul to Jesus. (Luke 23:42)
- Apostle Renato D. Carillo
Why does Jesus want us to care for our mothers?
Before Jesus breathed His last, He ensured that Mary will not be neglected the reason Jesus relied her on His beloved servant, John the Beloved. After that scene, Mary was never alone but she went with John, who treated her as his own mother and Mary treated him as her son for that time Mary was already widowed and Jesus didn’t want Mary to be neglected.
Jesus is the creator of Mary and all mothers. He wants us to understand the sacrifices of our mother for us to be brought out into this world. For mothers are irreplaceable, and God never makes a mistake in choosing a vessel for one to be born. Mothers are chosen and handpicked by God given to us. So we must love, honor, respect, and obey them. It is the key to have a long, satisfied, blessed, prosperous and God-pleasing life. (Ephesians 6:1-3)
- Apostle Renato D. Carillo
May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world is crucified to me and I to the world. (Galatians 6:14 NCB)
The world tells us that wealth, fame, and power are the things we must take pride in. But the Bible tells us otherwise: to make the cross our pride. But why? Why should the very symbol of shame be our pride? Because it is not just any cross we boast of. We boast in the cross of Christ. We boast in what Christ has done—and suffered—for us. We boast in His love and His grace, so unfathomable and so undeserved. We boast in His gift of salvation, of life eternal. But it doesn’t end there. Accepting the benefits of the cross requires that we share in His sufferings... that we die to ourselves and be crucified with Him.
kung mababasa mo to at may sarili ka nang pamilyang binubuo,
Sign mo na to..
“BUMUKOD NA KAYO!”
NAPAKASARAP AT NAPAKASAYA sa pakiramdam nang nakabukod!
Ok lang kahit konti pa lang gamit.
Ganun tlga sa umpisa.
Mahirap, oo.
kc wala ka nang ibang aasahan kungdi kayo2 na lang.
Wala ka nang katuwang sa pag aalaga sa mga anak mo.
Ung pera nyo dapat tipirin kung mag uupa na kau.
Pero sa bawat hirap naman andun ung pagkatuto at pagiging mas matatag.
Maniwala ka, mas masarap yung naka bukod.
Malaya kang gawin laht ng gusto mo,
Wala kang pakikisamahan,
At nakakapag desisyon kayo ng walang
kinoconsider na ibang tao.
MAS MAG MAMATURE KAYO BILANG PAMILYA KUNG NAKABUKOD KAYO!
Kaya sige na.
don't be afraid to start over.
Isa ito sa pinakamagandang desisyong magagawa nyo bilang mag asawa at bilang isang pamilya.
“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and the two shall become one flesh” (Gen 2:24)
Did you know that children can also have a bad day? And their only way to unwind is by releasing their tantrum and temper to their mother.
"A study by the University of Washington’s Department of Psychology found that children are 800% worse around their mothers. The study indicated that observing children’s behavior at the entrance of their mothers in the room showed changes for the worse, drastically and rapidly.
Child psychologists concluded that mothers are the safety bubble of a child’s life when she is around. Children know they are safe, and they can be or do anything they want because mom will keep them safe."
Dear mothers,
You are their safe place.
You are a garbage disposal of unpleasant feelings and emotions.
If they have been holding it together for a whole day, in an unpleasant situation, the second they see you, they know it's time they can finally let it go.
So calm down when you find yourself wondering why does my child behave for everyone but me, it is because you have the privilege of being his mother and are doing an excellent job.
