Saturday, February 15, 2014

IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP

If you are currently in a relationship with a man, please ask yourself these questions before moving forward in your relationship:

1. Is this a man after God's heart? Where is He leading my heart and where am I leading his... closer to God or away from Him?

2. Is this relationship a distraction, destructive, or a detour from what matters most to me or what God may have planned for my life?

3. Do his words (spoken, written, or typed) or actions mislead me or manipulate my heart? Do I try to manipulate his heart?

4. Do I feel free to be myself or do I have to become someone I'm not to connect with him or get him to love and accept me?

5. Is this a pure relationship with pure motives that I will one day be proud of or do I compromise my moral convictions to feel connected to him?

6. Do I have peace about this relationship knowing God is glorified in this relationship or do I feel guilty about this relationship?

7. Where is the relationship going and where will it lead me in the next 5, 10, 15 years of my life. Is it worth the work it takes and the invested time to get there?

8. Do my friends and family believe He is the one for me and what would I think or how would I advise a friend if I was on the outside looking in to this relationship?

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