Saturday, October 19, 2019

FRIENDSHIP – TELL THEM NOW


“A friend loves at all times.”
-Proverbs 17:17

Have you ever had the feeling that you ought to pick up the phone and call someone, or drop by for a visit, but then someone interrupted you, or your phone rang?

Charles Hanson Towne knew something of this when he wrote the following poem:

Around the corner I have a friend,
In this city that has no end;
Yet day’s go by, and weeks rush on,
And before I know it a year has gone,
And I never see my old friend’s face,
For life is a swift and terrible race.
He knows I like him just as well
As in the days when I rang his bell
And rang mine.
We were younger then
And now we are busy, tired men:
Tired with playing a foolish game,
Tired with trying to make a name,
“Tomorrow,” I say, “I will call on Jim,”
Just to show that I am thinking of him.
But tomorrow comes – and tomorrow goes,
And the distance between us grows and grows
Around the corner, but miles away..
“Here’s a telegram, Jim died today.”
And that’s what we get, and deserve in the end:
Around the corner, a lost friend.

Your life will be a great deal more cheerful if you take advantage of the opportunity to say, “Thank You,” or “I Love You,” or “I Appreciate what you have done.” Never make the mistake of thinking that he knows, or she knows. Tell him. Tell her.

FORGIVE THEM


“The Lord forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases.”
-Psalm 103:3

Sigmund Freud, the Austrian psychiatrist, said, “One must forgive one’s enemies, but not before they have been hanged.” I thought of those words as I spoke with a dignified, cultured woman in her 70’s. She had grown up with loyalty instilled in her, but someone betrayed her, and that person became an enemy until death.

But late in life, she had been forced to reexamine this.  Jesus Christ had become real to her. He said, “For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:14, 15). This last part got to her. She said, “If God won’t forgive me unless I forgive my enemies, I guess I had better learn how to do it.”

What does forgiveness do?
First: It breaks down the door of the prison where you have been both prisoner and jailer. Bitterness has imprisoned you, and your isolation from someone who was once your friend has nailed shut the door. Life is far too short to be lived with anger and hatred.

Second: Forgiveness restores and heals broken relationships. “I’d so much like my brother to come to my wedding,” a man told his counselor. “Well, why don’t you invite him.” There was a long pause as the man said, “Something happened and we just drifted apart.” Drifting apart is the result of an unforgiving spirit. To forgive reverses that trend and brings you back towards each other.

Third: Forgiveness also add years to your life and health to your soul. Make a study of those who have lived over 80 years and you will find people who are at peace with themselves and have learned to forgive their enemies.

COMPASSION


“The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.”
-James 5:11

When C.Leslie Miller was chatting with an elderly surgeon friend, he asked, “Doctor, do you ever worry about the time when your fingers will lose their skills?” The doctor paused and then replied, “No, but I do confess that at times I worry that the day may come when my heart will no longer feel the suffering of my patients.” What he was describing was “Compassion.” Another man put it, “Better that your heart has no words than your words have no heart.” The Greek word for compassion literally means to “Suffer with someone.” It means you feel what they feel – you hurt where they hurt.

Many of our problems could be solved if we learn to hurt where others hurt. Jesus did this. When He was criticized for eating with tax-gatherers and sinners, Jesus replied, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.  But go and learn what this means..” (Matthew 9:12, 13.)

How can your heart feel again? First – ask God to break up the hardness of your heart. We have become desensitized by our video-saturated world. We think of tenderness as weakness rather than strength. We need to learn that it’s okay to cry, feel, and respond to our emotions. Read 2 Timothy 3, and note how Paul’s words are a description of so many today.

Second, take a genuine interest in others. The heart has an amazing capacity to love, provided it is not suffocating with self-love.

Finally – reach out and touch somebody who is hurting. You won’t have to go very far for the world is full of hurting people. When you reach out, you will discover that healing comes for your needs as well.

BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD


“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.”
-Psalm 37:7

Animal lovers recognize that only the dog who trusts his master will lie on his back while you scratch his chest because in that position, it is totally vulnerable. So it is with us – nothing makes us more helpless than being in the position of having played out our options. There is nothing more we can do except trust God.

About 3,000 years ago, God addressed this issue as He said, “Be still and know that I Am God” (Psalm 46:10). The word translated “Be still” also means “Relax, let go, stop pushing.” Is anything so contrary to our nature? But there are times and situations which are beyond our scope and power to fix, and it is then that God says, “Be still and know that I Am God.”

In her book “The Edges of His Ways”, Amy Carmichael wrote, “There is no command in the whole Bible so difficult to obey and so penetrating in power, as the command to be still.” Amy Carmichael was never a woman to sit idly by and do nothing when she saw difficulty. Working in India among the outcasts, Amy began to notice with horror that thousands of little girls were temple prostitutes. Rising to do battle with this evil, she spent her life rescuing them and establishing training schools for them. Yet Amy learned through difficulty and physical pain, that there are times when we only do nothing but wait upon the Lord.

God not only tells us to be still, but adds a second command, “Know that I Am God!” Meditation or being quiet may have some therapeutic value. Taking time from a busy schedule never hurts anyone, but just slowing down isn’t enough. Understanding that God is God gives meaning to what otherwise would be a hopeless situation.

NESTOR SARMIENTO


You are a man who drive and let the wind rustle through your skin. You are a man who make people around you feel alive. You are a type of person that brings good energy wherever you go, and the type of person people want to be around. I hope you will continue to live louder, shine brighter from this moment on.

#NestorYang
#NeYa

NESTOR SARMIENTO


Deserve natin na paggising ng umaga ay maramdaman nating espesyal tayo sa isang tao. Deserve din natin na pagkatapos ng nakakapagod na araw ay maramdaman nating hindi tayo nag-iisa.

We deserve to fall in love. We deserve to wake up one day and know we are with the right person and we will never doubt that.

#NestorYang
#NeYa

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