You're my Love
my Life
the Air that i breathe.
You're my Soul
my Happiness
the All that i Need.
You're my Light
my Moon
the Stars in the Sky.
You're my Ups
my Inspiration
the Reason i Try.
You're my Strength
my Life
the Love from the Start.
You're my God
my Lord
the Beat of my Heart.
You're my Tears
my Joy in the Love that You bring.
You're my World
my Galaxy
You are my Everything.
Wednesday, December 4, 2019
LORD GOD
You are my Rock, my Number One, the Good Ending to a bad day and the Best Start to a new day.
WHEN TRUTH APPEARS TO BE FALSE
“Therefore each of you must put off
falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor.”
Ephesians 4:25
Three people were talking about a
mutual friend. One told how the friend had been struck by a car and killed. The
second said, “No, you are wrong.” He explained how their friend, riding in a
taxi, had been involved in an accident. Their friend was fatally injured.
“No,” said the third. “You are both
wrong. The truth is our friend died at our local hospital. I know that because
his wife called me from the hospital and told me herself.”
Each was convinced that the others
were wrong. Here is what happened: as the man got off a bus, he was hit by a
car and badly injured. Passers-by flagged down a taxi and shoved the injured
man into the back seat. But the taxi went too fast, struck another car and the
injured man was hurt even more. He arrived at the hospital and soon died.
There are times when individuals are
completely honest in giving their perception of a situation. No one is purposely deceiving the others nor
lying, yet their stories contradict. The most persuasive individual usually is
considered to be the one telling the truth.
A generation ago truth telling was considered
very important and dishonesty was considered a flaw in a person’s character.
Today, we prefer to call a lie “disinformation” or “misstatement.”
We used to say “Honesty is the best
policy.” God places a premium on truth. Even if there were no God, no heaven or
hell, and no judgment hereafter, honesty is the only way that a society, a
family, or a marriage can survive. When we begin to live and practice deceit
and falsehood, relationships cannot survive. A person who lies is rending the
very fabric of his soul, and eventually, there will be nothing of value. Think
about it.
THE VALUE OF LIFE
“Whoever believes in the Son has
eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life.”
John 3:36
What is the value of a human life?
There is enough phosphorous in the human body to tip twenty-two hundred
matches, enough iron to make a small nail, enough fat to make seven bars of
soap – (in some cases a few more than that), enough calcium to white-wash a
chicken coop, and enough sugar to fill a small bowl. But, is not life worth a
great deal more than a few elements from a periodic table?
Two thousand years ago, God
considered your life so important that He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to
provide eternal life for you. There are some things that money cannot buy. When
you have a loved one in the hospital, you would spend all your money to save
that person’s life. We may be able to sustain life, but when the human heart
stops we cannot create life.
That is how God views your life. He
looked on your helplessness and inability to create eternal life, and God said,
“I’ll send my Son to provide eternal life. I’ll do for you what you can never
do.” What is the worth of the human soul? In God’s eyes it was worth the death
of His only Son.
Amidst the fantastic achievements of
the twentieth century, there is a tendency to minimize the individual. You are
one of 5 billion but in God’s eyes, you are an individual and He loves you just
as you are. You were born as an individual and you will die alone. Your life is
so important that God sent His Son to be your Savior.
Here is Christ’s invitation to you,
“Come to Me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew
11:28). May God help you to make faith in Christ your guidelines for living.
When it comes to life and death, nothing of material value is important as
human life.
NESTOR SARMIENTO
“You deserve someone who will make you see that you’re worth a text back,
you’re worth a relationship label, you’re worth all of his/her time and
attention.”
NESTOR SARMIENTO
“Isa kang alamat na masarap basahin. Isa kang kanta na masarap pakinggan.
Isa kang tugtog na masarap sayawan. Isa kang videoke na masarap rentahan. Isa
kang ulam na masarap kainin.”
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#I am the kind of person who says hi
to cats.
#Christianity is a relationship. Not a
religion. I did not convert, I was reborn.
#Perfection is found in accepting your
imperfections.
#Great marriages don’t happen by luck or by accident. They are the result
of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection,
prayer, mutual respect and a rock-solid commitment between a husband a wife.
#A perfect relationship is not that
you never get angry, upset or irritated with each other. It’s how fast you
resolve and bounce back to normal.
Saturday, November 23, 2019
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"Get out of the safe zone and step into the faith zone"
"As i walking through a valley, my declaration was God is on the Throne, and my impossible became possible through Jesus Christ."
"As i walking through a valley, my declaration was God is on the Throne, and my impossible became possible through Jesus Christ."
NESTOR SARMIENTO
I prayed that we will be in each other's lives as long as we are on this earth - sharing stories above unli rice, sharing laughters above balot penoy, and a soul connection until the sun comes up.
NESTOR SARMIENTO
Thank you for coming into my life. Thank you for making me smile like crazy. Thank you for making me happy.
NESTOR SARMIENTO
Naaalala kita sa bawat librong nababasa ko. Sa bawat tauhan ng kuwento, iniisip kong ikaw iyon. Sa pagtitimpla ko ng kape. Sa bawat paglubog ng araw. Maniwala ka, naaalala kita araw-araw. Sa lahat ng bagay. Sa bawat paghinga - at wala akong balak na magpahinga na alalahanin ka.
Saturday, October 19, 2019
UNWELCOMED SURPRISES
Yet the Lord longs to be gracious to
you; He rises to show you compassion.
-Isaiah 30:18
The world is full of surprises – some
of which are not welcomed. A position opens up in your company, and you express
an interest in it. But when your boss interviews you, he says management has
decided to no longer fill that position, but to eliminate your job as well!
Your phone rings one evening after
you have retired. “Who could be calling at this hour?” you wonder. It is a
friend telling of a death in the family.
How do you handle unwelcomed
surprises? Psychologists call it “Coping.” Others say with resignation, “That’s
life!” When unexpected surprises come our way, we fight them and become bitter,
or we reach out for the grace of God and become better because of what we have
endured.
What is this gift called “grace?” It
is God’s help that enables you to cope with unwelcomed surprises of life.
Long ago, the Apostle Paul faced many
unwanted surprises, yet he welcomed them. In responding to what he called “A
thorn in the flesh” Paul said, “Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it
away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power
is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about
my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s
sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in
difficulties. For I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:8-10).
When unwelcomed surprises confront
you, learn about God’s grace and you will also find strength to cope. It’s
worth discovering.
GROWING OLD GRACIOUSLY
Teach us to number our days aright,
that we may gain a heart of wisdom
-Psalm 90:12
“Dear Dr.Sala, would you have any
suggestions to help people who have reached their 80s and feel very useless at
times? I am 82, in a wheelchair and have little energy.”
One: Come to
grips with the fact that you are here by the will of God. God makes no
mistakes, “In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the
plan of Him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His
will.” –Ephesians 1:11
Two: Realize
that your true value as a person is dependent on your character and not your
productivity. As we age, we tend to think that we are worth little unless we
are producing. The Bible tells us that you are valuable not because of what you
do, but because of what you are. Paintings and fine books become more valuable
with age, and so it is with people.
Three: Accept
your lessening strength with grace. “I greet each day as a gift,” says Beatrice
Cole, at age 90. She says that the last decade, from age 80 to 90, has been the
best gift of her life although she has been alone most of the time.
Four: Force
yourself to get out and mix with people. “After I lost Ethel,” says Frank
Emery, “I forced myself to get out, to travel, to play golf, to be with people.
It was the only way I could beat the loneliness.”
Five: Refuse
to accept defeat at your own hand. Loneliness never leaves us where it finds
us. We either greet it as a friend or as an enemy. As a friend, loneliness can
cause us to reach out and make new friendships and enrich our lives.
WHERE YOUR TREASURE IS
“Keep your lives free from the love
of money because God has said, Never will I leave you; never will I forsake
you.”
-Hebrews 13:5
Long ago, Jesus said, “Do not store
up yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where
thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven,
where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and
steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew
6:19-21).
It seems to me that our generation
has its value system upside down. We aren’t willing to wait for anything
tomorrow; it must be ours today. So much of our time is spent in the pursuit of
“things” that we have lost sight of what really counts. It often takes a tragedy
to understand this.
When a friend and I were finishing on
the end of a pier, we noticed smoke coming out of a nearby house. We raced for
the humble little cottage but it was too late. Flames were coming out the doors
and had turned into a raging inferno. We learned that an oil furnace had
exploded, and the house had almost instantly been enveloped in fire.
Outside stood the young father and
mother and a little girl of about seven. The mother was crying and the dad was
wringing his hands as in anguish he cried, “My God, all is lost.” The little
girl reached up and took her daddy’s hand saying, “All’s not lost, Daddy, you
got Mommy and Me!”
Houses can be rebuilt, but
relationships endure long after the taste of material success has turned to
ashes. What’s gone wrong that causes us to place greater value on things than
people; that considers gold and glitter more important than love and
friendship?
Jesus said, “Lay up treasures in
heaven for where your treasure is your heart will be also.” The treasures that
really count can’t be measured in gold and silver. Think about it.
THE DEAD SEA SCROLLS
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but
My Words will never pass away.”
-Matthew 24:35
It has finally happened: the
long-awaited Dead Sea scrolls are now available for scholarly translation. We
will soon learn why Israeli officials have withheld releasing the translation
of these very important documents.
The whole controversy centers around
some 800 different fragments or scrolls which were written between the year 200
B.C. and A.D. 67. The scrolls which had been meticulously copied by members of
the Qumran Community (an ascetic, monastic group) had been hidden in caves. In
their wildest nightmare, monks never thought that for almost 2000 years the
scrolls would remain hidden until they were discovered in the twentieth
century. Dr.William F. Albright, an authority on biblical antiquities, called
the Isaiah scroll, “The most important discovery ever made in Old Testament
manuscripts.”
Of the 800 documents of the
collection, about 127 are biblical texts including portions of every Old
Testament writings, there have been no known New Testament fragments found on
public record.
Why are the scrolls important? If the
text of the Bible had been corrupted or altered, comparing these very old
copies of scripture with modern ones would indicate that quickly. Are they
different? The answer is no! Analyzing the most important one, the Isaiah
scroll, scholars conclude there are no doctrinal differences at all, only minor
differences in spelling and the syntax of sentences. That is extremely significant.
HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED
“People were also bringing babies to
Jesus to have Him touch them.”
-Luke 18:15
When writer Elisabeth Elliot visited
Dohnavur Fellowship in South India to do research for a book on the life of Amy
Carmichael, she met Pungaja, a remarkable woman working with the mentally
incompetent. Pungaja herself was handicapped by the loss of one eye.
When asked how she had become involve
in such a work, Pungaja explained that one day, tremendously burdened by life,
she went to Amy Carmichael who was affectionately called Amma by nationals of
India. “When she hugged me,” she said, “All of my burdens went away!” The
Indian men and women who followed Amy Carmichael’s footsteps in serving others
have been witnessed to her life.
Have you ever considered the impact
of a loving touch? There were times when Jesus healed sickness with a command.
But there were other occasions when He reached out and touched someone. He
touched the leper who went through life crying, “Unclean, unclean!” He touched
the blind man by the gate of Jericho and He still touches those who are
neglected by society today.
People respond to the loving touch. A
family counselor says that most unwanted teenage pregnancies could be prevented
if a father only hugged his teenage daughter everyday.
“Is any sick among you?” wrote James
to the infant church almost 2000 years ago, “Let him call for the elders of the
Church; and let them pray over him, anointing him in the name of the Lord”
(James 5:14). There is healing in the touch of love and faith.
GOOD NEWS
“For the Word of God is living and
active. Sharper than any edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and
spirit”
-Hebrews 4:12
Crucial debate in the Russian
parliament came to a halt as legislators, policemen, cooks, secretaries, and bureaucrats
rushed into the main hall. Had a fire alarm sounded? Was another coup in
progress? No, the Moscow Bible Society was giving away Bibles, New Testaments
and a special edition of a Children’s Bible – an unprecedented event in the
70-year communist government. Some 6,000 volumes were given away, and as the
supply dwindlend, “clamor gave way to near chaos,” an official reported.
In the same month that Bibles were
being distributed in Russia, individuals inside China were being arrested for
receiving them. Chinese officials learned of a pipeline of Bibles being carried
from HongKong to individuals inside China. Local authorities informed believers
that Bibles were being brought in, and asked them to meet a certain train.
Local believers came but they were met by the arresting officers.
A very limited numbers of Bibles are
available for purchase in China today through government-approved sources.
These demand to know details about the buyer, information which many people are
reluctant to disclose, with the arrests and imprisonment of the Cultural
Revolution still fresh in their minds.
The Bible continues to be the world’s
best-loved and most widely distributed book. Books of the Bible have been
printed in 1,646 languages and dialects, according to the United Bible Society.
Complete Bibles have been published in 318 languages as of the end of 1990.
FRIENDSHIP – TELL THEM NOW
“A friend loves at all times.”
-Proverbs 17:17
Have you ever had the feeling that
you ought to pick up the phone and call someone, or drop by for a visit, but
then someone interrupted you, or your phone rang?
Charles Hanson Towne knew something
of this when he wrote the following poem:
Around the corner I have a friend,
In this city that has no end;
Yet day’s go by, and weeks rush on,
And before I know it a year has gone,
And I never see my old friend’s face,
For life is a swift and terrible
race.
He knows I like him just as well
As in the days when I rang his bell
And rang mine.
We were younger then
And now we are busy, tired men:
Tired with playing a foolish game,
Tired with trying to make a name,
“Tomorrow,” I say, “I will call on
Jim,”
Just to show that I am thinking of
him.
But tomorrow comes – and tomorrow
goes,
And the distance between us grows and
grows
Around the corner, but miles away..
“Here’s a telegram, Jim died today.”
And that’s what we get, and deserve
in the end:
Around the corner, a lost friend.
Your life will be a great deal more
cheerful if you take advantage of the opportunity to say, “Thank You,” or “I
Love You,” or “I Appreciate what you have done.” Never make the mistake of
thinking that he knows, or she knows. Tell him. Tell her.
FORGIVE THEM
“The Lord forgives all your sins and
heals all your diseases.”
-Psalm 103:3
Sigmund Freud, the Austrian
psychiatrist, said, “One must forgive one’s enemies, but not before they have
been hanged.” I thought of those words as I spoke with a dignified, cultured
woman in her 70’s. She had grown up with loyalty instilled in her, but someone
betrayed her, and that person became an enemy until death.
But late in life, she had been forced
to reexamine this. Jesus Christ had
become real to her. He said, “For if you forgive men when they sin against you,
your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their
sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:14, 15). This last
part got to her. She said, “If God won’t forgive me unless I forgive my
enemies, I guess I had better learn how to do it.”
What does forgiveness do?
First: It
breaks down the door of the prison where you have been both prisoner and
jailer. Bitterness has imprisoned you, and your isolation from someone who was
once your friend has nailed shut the door. Life is far too short to be lived
with anger and hatred.
Second: Forgiveness
restores and heals broken relationships. “I’d so much like my brother to come
to my wedding,” a man told his counselor. “Well, why don’t you invite him.”
There was a long pause as the man said, “Something happened and we just drifted
apart.” Drifting apart is the result of an unforgiving spirit. To forgive
reverses that trend and brings you back towards each other.
Third: Forgiveness
also add years to your life and health to your soul. Make a study of those who
have lived over 80 years and you will find people who are at peace with
themselves and have learned to forgive their enemies.
COMPASSION
“The Lord is full of compassion and
mercy.”
-James 5:11
When C.Leslie Miller was chatting
with an elderly surgeon friend, he asked, “Doctor, do you ever worry about the
time when your fingers will lose their skills?” The doctor paused and then
replied, “No, but I do confess that at times I worry that the day may come when
my heart will no longer feel the suffering of my patients.” What he was
describing was “Compassion.” Another man put it, “Better that your heart has no
words than your words have no heart.” The Greek word for compassion literally
means to “Suffer with someone.” It means you feel what they feel – you hurt
where they hurt.
Many of our problems could be solved
if we learn to hurt where others hurt. Jesus did this. When He was criticized
for eating with tax-gatherers and sinners, Jesus replied, “It is not the healthy
who need a doctor, but the sick. But go
and learn what this means..” (Matthew 9:12, 13.)
How can your heart feel again? First – ask God to break up the
hardness of your heart. We have become desensitized by our video-saturated
world. We think of tenderness as weakness rather than strength. We need to
learn that it’s okay to cry, feel, and respond to our emotions. Read 2 Timothy
3, and note how Paul’s words are a description of so many today.
Second, take a
genuine interest in others. The heart has an amazing capacity to love, provided
it is not suffocating with self-love.
Finally –
reach out and touch somebody who is hurting. You won’t have to go very far for
the world is full of hurting people. When you reach out, you will discover that
healing comes for your needs as well.
BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD
“Be still before the Lord and wait
patiently for Him.”
-Psalm 37:7
Animal lovers recognize that only the
dog who trusts his master will lie on his back while you scratch his chest
because in that position, it is totally vulnerable. So it is with us – nothing
makes us more helpless than being in the position of having played out our
options. There is nothing more we can do except trust God.
About 3,000 years ago, God addressed
this issue as He said, “Be still and know that I Am God” (Psalm 46:10). The
word translated “Be still” also means “Relax, let go, stop pushing.” Is
anything so contrary to our nature? But there are times and situations which
are beyond our scope and power to fix, and it is then that God says, “Be still
and know that I Am God.”
In her book “The Edges of His Ways”,
Amy Carmichael wrote, “There is no command in the whole Bible so difficult to
obey and so penetrating in power, as the command to be still.” Amy Carmichael
was never a woman to sit idly by and do nothing when she saw difficulty.
Working in India among the outcasts, Amy began to notice with horror that
thousands of little girls were temple prostitutes. Rising to do battle with
this evil, she spent her life rescuing them and establishing training schools
for them. Yet Amy learned through difficulty and physical pain, that there are
times when we only do nothing but wait upon the Lord.
God not only tells us to be still,
but adds a second command, “Know that I Am God!” Meditation or being quiet may
have some therapeutic value. Taking time from a busy schedule never hurts
anyone, but just slowing down isn’t enough. Understanding that God is God gives
meaning to what otherwise would be a hopeless situation.
NESTOR SARMIENTO
You are a man who drive and let the
wind rustle through your skin. You are a man who make people around you feel
alive. You are a type of person that brings good energy wherever you go, and
the type of person people want to be around. I hope you will continue to live
louder, shine brighter from this moment on.
#NestorYang
#NeYa
NESTOR SARMIENTO
Deserve natin na paggising ng umaga
ay maramdaman nating espesyal tayo sa isang tao. Deserve din natin na
pagkatapos ng nakakapagod na araw ay maramdaman nating hindi tayo nag-iisa.
We deserve to fall in love. We
deserve to wake up one day and know we are with the right person and we will
never doubt that.
#NestorYang
#NeYa
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Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what
excites you.
A negative mind will never give you a positive life.
Saturday, September 14, 2019
THE PRICE FOR YOUR FAITH
Blessed are those who are
persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
-Matthew 5:5-10
You are a single male, an
educator teaching in a local junior college. You show up for classes on Monday
morning to be greeted by a trio of khaki-clad men who ask to talk with you. You
are escorted to a small room where one of the men reads a document accusing you
of being a religious zealot. They show you a photo of yourself, obviously shot
with a telephoto lens. Your mind reels, trying to place the location. The
building in the photo is the apartment where your friend lives, the one who
invited you to attend a small gathering of believers who meet weekly for prayer
and Bible Study.
The three men say you need
to reeducated and effective immediately, you are relieved of your teaching
duties. You have seven days to report to a country farm where you will work and
attend indoctrination classes. There’s no trial, no appeal.
Absurd! That all depends
on where you live. The fact is that this very scene, reminiscent of what took
place in the Cultural Revolution in China, is again taking place.
Donald, my son-in-law and
I have been to China and got to talk to a lot of people including veterans of
previous repressions. “What can believers elsewhere do to be ready should
persecution ever come to us?” Donald asked them. We heard them suggest three
things.
First – tell people to
make sure that they are Born Again. Scores of people know about Christianity
and consider themselves Christians yet have never been Born Again. Second –
tell people to internalize their faith. In other words, get your faith in your
heart. Don’t wear in on your sleeve. Third – tell people to know the Word of
God and be able to stand on it.
THE GREATEST TEMPTATION
The Lord is the stronghold
of my life – of whom shall I be afraid?
-Psalm 27:1
There is an old story that
says when Christians were under severe persecution in Rome, Peter decided he
would leave. As Peter walks out of Rome, he encounters the resurrected Christ
who is going the opposite direction. When asked by Peter, “Quo Vadis?” (Where
are you going?), Christ replies that He is going back to Rome to die again.
Whereupon Peter returns to Rome and there, according to tradition, is martyred,
having been crucified upside down.
Anyone who has ever
experienced the fear of persecution can understand the struggle, the desire to
flee, and save his hide. But only those who have survived have any right to
criticize those who waver. Such as Wang Ming Tao, who lived most of his life in
seething caldron of controversy and challenge.
Finding Christ as a young
man, Wang first felt the bitter taste of rejection when he was thrown out of
school because of his decision to be baptized. Eventually, Wang Ming Tao and
his wife were both sent to prison; he for 22 years, and she for 20 years
because of their refusal to give up what they believed in.
Shortly before of his
death, Wang told a friend, “Living in this world, a person will encounter three
strong temptations. The first is the temptation of material things. The second
temptation is that of vanity. The third temptation is of the flesh.” Reflecting
on these he continued, “I have encountered all of these, and thanks be to God,
for none of these things did I ever fail.” Then with remorse he said, “But at
the end I fell, but for what reason? Fear.” Then he added, “And now, after many
years of great trial, I have learned another lesson. Even fear will give way to
victory!”
ON GIVING THANKS
“Give thanks in all
circumstances.”
-1 Thessalonians 5:18
Give thanks? How can I
give thanks on such a day as this? All over the world there are wars, hunger,
oppression, and unrest. How can I truly give thanks under the present conditions?
There is a man in history
called Habakkuk. He lived about 600 years before Christ, when the world was in
great turmoil. There appeared to be no hope for Habakkuk’s nation of Israel. He
saw corruption and confusion everywhere. “Why does God not intervene?” He
asked. “Why is God silent in times of disaster?”
Habakkuk did find answer.
The answer lies in that God is still on the throne of the universe. He is from
everlasting to everlasting. Said the Psalmist: “Of old hast thou laid the
foundation of the earth; and the heavens are the work of Thy hand. They shall
perish, but thou shalt endure, thou changest them, and they shall be changed.
But thou art the same, and thy years shall have no end” (Psalm 102:25-28).
Habakkuk had questions in
his mind; but he brought them to God. God not only answered his questions, but
He also put a song in his heart.
You will find that as you
put your faith in Jesus, peace and joy will flood your heart, in spite of
difficult circumstances about you. Any thanksgiving time will be the best ever,
because your happiness does not depend upon world conditions or material gain
but upon a loving heavenly Father who is still on the throne and who cares for
us individually. Give thanks? Yes, you can if your faith rests in God.
MEN AND WOMEN DO NOT TALK THE SAME
The Lord God said, “It is
not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
-Genesis 2:18
Men and women just don’t
communicate the same way, contends a new book “You just don’t understand women and
men in conversation.” Written by sociologist Deborah Tannen. Tannen videotaped
hundreds of hours of conversations between males and females and analyzed the
substance of their conversations.
Have you experienced
difficulty in communicating with your mate or members of the opposite sex?
One: Remember that men
communicate from the realm of the physical, women the emotional. Communication
has three levels (1) trivia (2) facts (3) emotions. Men reach the limits of
their ability to communicate when they explore feelings. With women, however,
it begins there and go from the physical to the emotional.
Two: Remember that
communication means something totally different to men. When asked to rate
themselves as a communicator on a scale of 1 to 10, men always rate themselves
3 points above their wive’s rating.
Three: Understand that
every person has a vital need to communicate; look for the level of
communication which allows adequate expressions. For a man, it means opening up
to vent emotions and feelings; for a woman, it means understanding that her
husband may be trying when she reads his efforts as insufficient. And she
offers criticism.
Four: Accept that
communication skills can be learned no matter how you grew up.
Five: Learn to interpret
the non-verbal signals which communicate in more than 700, 000 ways.
Six: Tell your mate how
much you value your relationship and why communication is important to you.
Charles Dickens gave good
advice when he said: Never close your lips to him to whom you have opened your
heart.
LIFE IS FRAGILE
Why you do not even know
what will happen tomorrow, what is your life? You are a mist that appears for a
little while and then vanishes.”
-James 4:14
Boris Yeltzin was
weathering the stormy coup in Moscow. As he mounted the barricade outside the
parliament, he allowed his five-year-old granddaughter to climb up and stand by
his side. History was being made and it was a grand moment to share with this
little girl.
Seeing the soldiers and
tanks, the little girl turned to her now powerful grandfather and asked,
“Grandfather, will the soldiers shoot us in the head?” at her question, reality
turned and I felt the fragility of life, Yeltzin said in an interview of CNN.
“What is your life?” asks
one of the first New Testament books to be written. I thought of those words as
I stood beside the bed of a friend’s dad who was described as a very careful
driver. He always wore seatbelts and never exceeded the speed limit. Yet a car
approaching from the opposite direction drifting off the highway and injuring
him.
Moses, who had known both
the classroom of Egypt and the vastness of a classroom under the stars as he
took care of his father-in-law’s sheep, said life is like a tale that is told,
or a story which a shepherd would tell around the camp fire at the end of the
day (Psalm 90:4).
Three thousand years ago,
Moses talked about our years as being “Threescore years and ten” (Psalm 90:10),
or 70 years, still about the length of the average life span today. But of one
thing I am certain – eventually, we will cross the threshold which separates us
from eternity.
The real enemy is not
death: it is an empty life which brings us to the end with no assurance of life
beyond the grave. Think about it.
HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED
I will remember the deeds
of the Lord… I will meditate on all your works and consider all your mighty
deeds.
-Psalm 77:11,12
How would you like to be
remembered when you die? The American humorist Mark Twain said, “So live that
when you die, even the undertaker will be sorry” - not an easy accomplishment. Douglas Mac
Arthur is remembered for saying, “Old Soldiers never die, they just fade away.”
Jonas Salk as the man who discovered the polio vaccine. And some will be
remembered for their evil deeds – as serial killers, assassins, political
terrorists, rapist or thieves.
In the Old Testament book of Chronicles are
fascinating stories of famous and powerful people. Some went to their deaths in
disgrace and some in fame and glory. Their life stories finish with a one –
line summary. For example, King Jehoram, was arrogant and ill-liked. He died at
32 of an incurable disease. The chapter on his life closes with these words:
“He passed away, to no one’s regret, and was buried in the City of David, but
not in the tombs of the kings.” (2 Chronicles 21:20).
What a contrast to another
king Josiah, who lived a few generations later. Of him it was written, “He was
buried in the tombs of his fathers, and all Judah and Jerusalem mourned for
him.” Jeremiah composed laments for Josiah which to this day are sung.
If for some strange reason
God draws a line at the end of your life at 12 tonight, how would you be
remembered? No one knows when we should prepare the epitaph for our final
resting place. Yet we are remembered both for what we are and what we do,
negatively or positively.
CIRCUMSTANCES
Be still and know that I
am God.
-Psalm 46:10
Two prospectors went to a
desert in search for a gold. They carefully noted every landmark, because to be
lost could mean certain death. One night a great storm drove them into a cave,
and from there they watched the lightning flash. Soon the rain began to pour
and floodwaters gushed across the desert, ripping up cacti and completely
changing the terrain.
One of the prospectors
cried out in panic, “All the landmarks are swept away and we are lost!” But the
other man calmly said, “Wait! Soon the storm clouds will be gone, and we will
see the sky.” Sure enough, the clouds rolled back and when the two old
prospectors saw the stars, they found their bearings.
The prospectors have faded
into history, but the panic that one feels when the landmarks are swept away is
still in the hearts of many people today. People see the landscape of humanity
destroyed and are quick to panic. As the prospectors had to wait and look up,
so the solution to your concern lies in looking upward.
Two things give me peace
amidst the storms of life. One is by looking at the stars in the heavens, I
realize that the God who placed them above, eons of years ago, is the same
today. Second, by remembering the ruins of ancient civilizations, I realize
that the problems confronting me are not here to stay. They are merely part of
the challenge of life, and they, like the civilizations of the past, will not
be with me forever.
It is by looking upward
that gives us our bearing when the circumstances of life are chaotic. There is
the anchor of a loving God who never changes. He speaks to our hearts today
amidst the thunder and roar of life.
BELIEF WITHOUT PROOF
“Now faith is being sure
of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.”
-Hebrews 11:1
“Faith,” wrote the Quaker
scholar Elton Trueblood, “is not belief without proof, but trust without
reservation.” Yet the fact is, faith seems to contradict the world of reality.
The saying goes, “Seeing
is believing” but in reality, believing is seeing. This is what Jesus taught in
John 10. It was part of a heated conversation Jesus had with some religious
leaders of the day who called Him “demon-possessed” (John 10:19). The people,
who had more spiritual insight than their leaders said, “These are not the
sayings of a man possessed by a demon. Can a demon open the eyes of the blind?”
(John 10:21).
Jesus said, “Believe the
miracles, that you may learn and understand that the Father is in Me, and I in
the Father” (John 10:38). Notice the progression of those three verbs which are
like steps to spiritual understanding: First, believe – then learn, then
understand.
We reverse it today.
First, we want to understand everything. We want proof. Only then are we
willing to believe. That’s our problem. Believing comes first, said Jesus. Then
knowing, then understanding.
In writing to the
Corinthians, Paul said, “The man without the Spirit does not accept the things
that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he
cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned” (1 Corintihans
2:14).
Have you reversed the
order, insisting that you understand first, and then you will believe? Try it
the other way around. Believe, and with the step of faith will come knowledge,
then understanding. Believing is seeing!
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MOOD: wanna move to
another city and start a new life
I love the sound of smooth
winds and gentle wings of butterflies and dragonflies on a quiet field. I find
it so peaceful.
I love the sound of heavy
rain and thunder on a dark night. I find it so peaceful.
It is always nice to stop
and smell the roses, or the sunflowers.
Saturday, August 3, 2019
THE FIVE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS IN YOUR LIFE
1.JESUS and your relationship with Him
2.To be like Him
3.To do His works
4.To win the lost
5.To live ready, rapture ready
-Apostle Renato D.Carillo
www.miraclehour.org
THROUGH FAITH WE UNDERSTAND
“For what is seen is temporary, but
what is unseen is eternal.”
-2 Corinthians 4:18
Long ago, a poet remarked that birds
fly but we cannot because birds have perfect faith and we do not. Aeronautical
engineers tell us that it is impossible for birds to fly because of the way
they are made. Yet birds, not knowing that they cannot fly, rise to heights
above.
The writer of the book of Hebrews
wrote, “Through faith we understand that the world’s were framed by the word of
God” (Hebrews 11:3). Let’s look into the phrase, “Through faith we understand…”
Faith and logic seem to be
contradictory. Some things seem not to have logic to them whatsoever. Yet, when
taken by faith, we can come to accept and understand what may not be perfectly
logical. Some people, lacking faith, are stumped by the lack of logic and
struggle for most of their lives, waiting for explanations which will never
come.
One of the reasons that Scripture
talks about “faith as a little child” is that children are not connected with
logic; theirs is simple, straightforward trust, and on the wings of faith, they
understand.
It isn’t that faith is an enemy of
logic, for there are times when faith is the most logical thing in the world.
But faith transcends logic; this means through faith we understand what you
consider that logical is somewhat of a judgment call – it’s an understanding of
what you think. God’s logic, however, is totally different than ours, and by
accepting His point of view by faith, we understand many things which would
otherwise escape us.
Faith transcends logic, and apart
from faith, relationships break down quickly. This means there is a logic to
faith and through faith, we understand.
THE BLANK SPOT
“I Am the way and the truth and the
life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
-John 14:6
In 1911, thieves broke into the
prestigious Louvre art gallery in Paris and took the Mona Lisa. During the
two-year period when the haunting image of the woman was missing, there were
more people who come to the gallery to stare at the empty spot on the wall than
those who had gone to look at the masterpiece in the twelve previous years.
People were coming to the Louvre to see what wasn’t there.
Have you noticed that the most of us
do the same thing? When we are blessed with health, we never stop to think
about how our circulatory system works or our legs and arms function, or how
our eyes focus properly. But let illness strike and suddenly we understand how
much of these we have taken for granted.
Hellen Keller once wrote, “I have
often thought that it would be a blessing if human beings were stricken blind
and deaf for a few days at some time during their adult lives. Darkness would make
them more appreciative of sight; silence would teach them the joys of sound.”
She had a point.
In China and Russia, I have given
Bibles to individuals who had never owned one before, who had lived under
repressive governments where Bibles were not allowed. It is impossible to
describe the look of joy and gratitude in their eyes as we presented them with
one. How carefully they grasped the book with both hands as though dropping it
would be a tragedy of indescribable consequences.
Like the people who came to visit the
blank spot on the wall when the Mona Lisa disappeared, I suspect that we would
all protest if we lost the right and privilege to own and carry Bibles. Yet
scores of us never take advantage of the grand Book which guides us to heaven’s
shore.
MAXIMILLAN KOLBE
“Greater love has no one than this,
that one lay down His life for His friends.”
-John 15:13
It was 3pm in one of the last days of
July 1941 at the Auschwitz concentration camp. The sirens began to shriek and
German sentries shouldered their guns. There had been an escape. Silently the
men of Block 14 prayed that the escapee had not been from their block. That
evening their worst fears were confirmed. The missing prisoner had been from
Block 14.
The next day, the remaining 600 men
from Block 14 were forced to stand on the parade ground under the broiling sun.
Those who collapsed were left to die where they lay. At the day’s end, the
deputy commander, Fritsch, arrived to announced the fate of the terrified men.
“The fugitive has not been found,”
barked Fritsch. “In reprisal for your comrade’s escape, 10 of you will die by
starvation. Next time it will be 20.”
The ten were selected. One of those
men, Franciszek Gajowniezek, a Polish army sergeant, was sobbing, “My wife and
my children.” Suddenly, a Polish Fransciscan priest, Maximillan Kolbe, pushed
his way to the front as guards sighted their rifles on his chest. “I want to
talk to the commander,” he said, looking Fritsch straight in the eye. “I want
to die in the place of the prisoner,” he said pointing to the sobbing
Gajowniezed.
Maximillan Kolbe died in place of a
man who bore the sentence of death. In all probability, God will never ask you
to make the decision Kolbe made. Yet He does ask you to make a decision – for
to love demands sacrifice for someone else. None of us has the right to live
selfishly, for all of us have been the recipients, in some way, of the love
that prompted Maximillan Kolbe to give up his life.
DOES IT MATTER WHAT YOU BELIEVE
“And without faith it is impossible
to please God.”
-Hebrews 11:6
Does it make any difference what you
believe, just so that you believe it with all your heart? Millions of men and
women would answer no. They would respond that it does not make much difference
what you believe as long as you believe it will all your might. Some would
perhaps add that all religions lead to the same place if you do your best and
follow the teaching.
A number of prominent medical authorities
recognize the therapeutic power of belief as opposed to the debilitating and
unhealthy effects of doubt and skepticism.
Several months ago, I was on an
airplane when it was hit with a strong turbulence. Trays of food were dumped
left and right. The coffee cup I was holding stayed in my hand while the coffee
spiraled towards the ceiling in an eerie column for a few seconds before it
dropped. Most of it missing the cup. I turned to the young man seated next to
me and said, “This turbulence would make even an atheist a little more unsure
of himself, wouldn’t it?”
He smiled and we joked for a minute.
But the incident did trigger off a rather serious discussion on the importance
of faith. As our plane tossed back and forth, I said to the young man, “It isn’t
my faith in those jet engines that is going to get us to our destination, it is
their power to lift us above the storm. No matter how great my faith in them,
if they have not the power to overcome the force of gravity and the turbulence
of the storm, we are in trouble.”
That is the big difference between
faith and belief and faith in God. The validity of Christianity is not the
strength of your belief, but rather its strength is in the empty tomb and God’s
power that brought Jesus forth from the grave.
COLD OR HOT
“Those whom I love I rebuke and
discipline. So be earnest and repent.”
-Revelation 3:19
In the first century, Laodicea was a
wealthy banking center. It became famous for its medical center which
specialized in eye problems. And eye salve was produced in Laodicea which was
exported all over the known world.
Laodicea was also not without a
Christian witness. We know that Paul instructed the Colossians to read the
letter he had written to the Church at Laodicea, and asked that his letter to
the Colossians be copied and sent to the Laodicean believers.
A generation after the Laodicean
church was born, another letter was sent to the Church there – a stinging
rebuke which came from the pen of John the Apostle. In this letter, Christ
says, “I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I would that you
were cold or hot. So because you are lukewarm and neither hot nor cold, I will
spit you out of My mouth” (Revelation 3:15, 16). The rebuke continues, “Because
you say, ‘I am rich and I have become wealthy, and have need of nothing, and
you do not know that you are wretched and miserable and poor and blind and
naked, I advise you to buy from Me gold refined by fire, that you may become
rich, and white garments that you may clothe yourself, and that the shame of
your nakedness may not be revealed; and eye salve to anoint your eyes that you
may see” (3:17, 18).
What happened in the generation that
had passed since the warmth of first love was born in the hearts of the
Laodiceans? Complacency, smugness, and indifference had taken its toll. The
Laodiceans thought they had everything they needed. They had material riches
but were spiritually impoverished. They exported eye salve all over the world
but were blind to their true condition.
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