When Adam was lonely, God gave him one wife and not 5 friends.
If you don’t get this, don’t get married.
Don’t act single when your are already married.
All your barkadas must understand that you are already married, if they can’t then that means you have the wrong set of friends all along and it’s ok to kick them out of your life.
Going Saturday night outs “for the boys” is not healthy.
Bring your wife!
If wives are not allowed, then don’t go.
If you call that corny, then don’t get married.
Nothing wrong with enjoying a single life, just remain single. You can marry at 50 if you want. Nothing wrong.
If your boyfriend doesn’t get this? Be prepared for a rough marriage. So why marry?
A successful marriage needs to be worked out.
Frequent dates with your wife, frequent laughter, bondings, making her your best friend are more essential than “for the boys”. Im also saying that for wives who loves “for the girls only night out”. Not healthy also.
We always pray “lead me not into temptation”.
But if where you are going is making yourself near to temptation, so why pray “lead me not into temptation”? You’re fooling God, you’re also fooling yourself. There’s an effort in your part when you pray that prayer.
Your friends with wrong principles can easily brush on you. If they will talk about their love affair outside marriage, then just add a little bit of drinks, that idea will easily reach your subconscious. And you will begin to think its ok and allowable.
Protect yourself and protect your relationship at all times.
Dr. Richard Mata
Di lang pampamilya, pang marites pa!
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