THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU

 You were the one who made me laugh when my heart felt heavy, the one who held my hand as the tears fell, the one who picked up the phone on the first ring, and let me pour my tired heart out for the thousandth time. You were the one who wrote me letters reminding me of the love I deserve.

It was you who showed me my worth, time and time again. Encouraging me when I was down, celebrating with me when I was up, supporting me on the days I didn’t believe in myself.

It was you who taught me that time and distance don’t have power over a real connection. It was you who showed me that real love doesn’t leave, doesn’t run, doesn’t fade when the roads turn and twist.

It was you who showed me who I was and had the potential to be, time and time again, when I was too distracted by fear and sweet nothings and empty promises to notice I had wandered away from you, away from myself.

And it was you who taught me what love was.

It was you who showed me that love stays, that love fights, that love is next you, walking with you every step of the way. You, who showed me that love doesn’t change with the seasons or life’s obstacles. You, who reminded me that I was wonderful and valued and important and worthy.

It was you who was there for me whenever I needed you. It was you who gave me strength when I was down, who reminded me of all I had fought through and all the potential I had left to be.

So thank you. Thank you for being the person who didn’t leave, didn’t drift with time, didn’t make me feel as if love has conditions and rules.

Thank you for showing me the love I hope to find one day with a romantic partner—a love that is real, and pure, and embedded in your heart—a soul connection.

I know these words will never be enough to tell you all that you mean to me. Just know that I am the person I am because of the care you’ve shown me. And I only hope that we’ll be in each other’s lives as long as we’re on this earth—sharing poolside mimosas, tacos at sunset, and all our secrets until the sun comes up.

Thank you for being you.

YOUR CHILDREN WILL RESPOND WITH LOVE THROUGH YOUR WORST

 Your children will respond with love through your worst.  ⁣

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In the morning, when your breath smells really bad…they’ll still kiss you.⁣

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When you yell at them for standing there with the toothbrush hanging out of their mouth instead of brushing when you’re running late for school…they still hug you goodbye.⁣

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When you’re crying with frustration at how bad your day is going…they’ll lace their arms around your neck into a hug and offer you a tissue.⁣

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When you’re having a case of the blahs and aren’t in the mood for horse rides or playing Barbies…they’ll still want you to lay with them till they fall asleep.⁣

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When your hair is in a messy bun, and you’re cranky, running on three hours of sleep…they’ll still look at you filled with nothing but love.⁣

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Because to them,⁣

you’re the best no matter what you look like,⁣

smell like,⁣

and how you act.⁣

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And they always manage to lift you⁣

with those kisses,⁣

hugs,⁣

and gazes.⁣

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So next time your children have a tantrum,⁣

case of the blahs,⁣

or are exhausted and cranky—⁣

let’s remember to lead with love⁣

just like our children.⁣

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 📷: Unknown Artist

HUWAG ITIGIL ANG LIGAWAN STAGE

 Nakapag date kami ulit! Sabi nga ay huwag itigil ang ligawan stage 🙂

Madalas bitbit namin ang mga kids kapag nalabas kami. Wala kaming helper o kamag-anak na kasama kaya buong pamilya kami palagi (relate? 😅)

Pero iba pa din kapag lalabas kayong mag-asawa ng kayo lang 🤍

Malakas sya maka recharge ng relationship. 

Pero gets namin ang mga couples na nasa season na walang mapag iwanan ng mga anak..

Pag laki-laki nila ay maiiwan din natin mga momsh at daddies.

Pero reminder lang itong post na ito, kelan kayo huling nag date? 🙂 

Pwedeng mag-date sa sala kapag tulog na ang mga chikitings ❤️

✔️kamustahin nyo ang isa’t isa?

✔️may pinag dadaanan ba kayo individually?

✔️saan area ng buhay mo ngayon at season mo ngayon kailangan mo ng help ng asawa mo?

✔️kamusta ang growth ninyo sa spiritual, physical at iba pa? 

Masarap makipag kwentuhan sa mga asawa natin di ba? 

Totoo na ang mga asawa natin ang BEST FRIEND natin.. ka-kwentuhan, ka-ramay sa lahat ng season, ka-bonding sa araw-araw, kasama mangarap sa buhay, kasama idiscover ang purpose ni Lord sa isa’t isa at sa buong pamilya. 

Kapag may pagkakataon, mag-date ulit na kayong dalawa lang. 

huwag manghinayang gumastos sa asawa natin 🙂 sabi nga ng isa sa mentors namin kapag nga ceo ang ka-date mo special ang pinapakain mo, lalo na dapat sa asawa mo 🤍

CHOOSE WISELY FOR YOUR CHILD

 Choose wisely, not only for you but also for your child.

Later in marriage when you hit parenthood, you'll realize what you really wish for in your spouse is not big money or 'six-pack'. A pretty face and a good bank account are nice to have but at the end of the day, there's so much more you should be looking for.

At 3am when your child is crying, and your eyes are heavy and your body is weak for postpartum, it will not be how he looks or what he owns that will matter. It'll be the compassion in his heart and the love for you in his soul that push him out of the bed to attend the child immediately and tell you,

"Go back to sleep, love. I got this."

If I could tell the younger people what to consider in a companion, I would say marry the man who will be the best father for your children. The man who will put you and your little family first, above all else. The man who is as responsible as you are in raising family because you both are in it together. In short, marry the person who will set a standard for a spouse in your children.

Because in all of these, whenever you watch your partner with your child, you'll find yourself falling in love all over again.

Choose wisely, not only for you but also for your child.♥️

Credits: Unknown

MOMENTARY LIFE

 At the end of the day di naman pala mahalaga kung gaano kadami ang pera mo, kung gaano kalayo ang narating mo, kung gaano kataas ang pinagaralan mo, kung gaano kadami ang naipundar mo, kung gaano ka kasikat kasi di mo naman madadala lahat yan sa kabilang buhay. 

Hubad kang pinanganak, hubad ka ding mamamatay. 

Okay lang naman na maging financially free, maging successful at maging productive sa limited life natin dito sa mundo pero pag dyan umikot ang buhay natin, lugi tayo. 

Life is short. 

Life is unpredictable. 

Say i love you. 

Hug. 

Kiss. 

Spend time with your loved ones. 

Damihan mo, wag yung tira-tirang time. 

Forgive. 

Enjoy every moment. 

Embrace every season. 

Live as if its your LAST day. 

Appreciate EVERYTHING or else you’ll REGRET everything soon. 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍🤍🤍🤍

 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍🤍🤍