EMBRACE FEMININITY

Ilang coffee date ba ang kailangan mo para makilala siya ng maigi? You’ll never really know the person until you live in one roof.

FAITH- relationship with God (Healthy fear to God and obedient)

FAMILY- good relationship with his family

FRIENDS- respected by his friends and other people

WORK AND MINISTRY- may work and has a servant leadership attitude

CHARACTER- is this kind of person you would want to spend the rest of your life with? Can you trust him.

Kung check naman pala lahat to? But wait, there’s  more!

HEALTHY- is your heart emotionally ready to receive and give love? No issues from the past or present that maybe still needs major healing now? Magiging Good Gift ka rin ba sa buhay niya?

CLARITY- nag lay down ba si guy ng intention for marriage?

DREAM- may dream and pursuit of great future of life ba si kuya?

APPROVAL- may peace and affirmation from God on this potential new season?

So now, kung check rin sa mga yan si guy, ok na! so pag tinanong ka ulit in a proper date with the question for that matamis mong OO, by all means, CONGRATULATIONS!!

Then just continue to get to know more in a holy, respectful, and loving way possible. Until that time he officially proposes to get married.

And lastly, never compromise your standards. You are worth that wait for the altar. Pursue with the intention of getting married. Not pursue just to have a relationship.

P.S.don’t over-complicate courtship and marriage – you should be a gracious woman at this point – pray, decide and commit it to God.

“Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart” –Jeremiah 29:12-13

Women are called to wait

Women are meant to be pursued

Don’t idolize marriage

Discover the balance

Embrace femininity

So please know that – when you are healthy, you’ll have clarity. And when you have clarity, you’ll have better decisions. And until you have clarity, you have no business to making decisions and that takes time.

Okay, you made wrong decisions in the past. When you repent, you are forgiven. You can start over. If you wait upon the Lord, make sure to be expectant of his perfect timing. For now, be the woman that the man you’re looking for is also looking for. Be the kind of woman God wants you to be and relax, enjoy your singlehood season with the right kind of fellowship.

-Ethelie