Monday, February 10, 2025

TRUST IN THE LORD

 Blessed are those whose strength is in You!

Continue to trust the Lord, whatever you’re facing today! He has been faithful to us in the past, and will continously be faithful today, tomorrow…. forever!

DIYOS AMA SA LANGIT

...ang mga dinaranas ko pong paghihirap at pagsubok ang nagdadala sa akin para magtanong kung kailan N’yo po ako tutugunin. Maraming salamat po Panginoon na nakikinig Ka po sa aking dalangin. Tulungan N’yo po akong mamuhay nang may buong pagtitiwala sa Iyo.

INVITE HIM

 Have you ever doubted that God loves you? Well, this is what you need to know, "GOD IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU." He made you so He could love you and you could love Him too. He loves you whether or not you think you deserve His love. There is nothing you can do that will make Him stop loving you.


Invite Him in your heart right now.

ONE OF MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

 PARA SA MGA BATANG GEN Z....


The story centers around a poor teenage girl, Shancai (Barbie Hsu), who at the insistence of her parents goes to a school for rich people. The school is dominated by Daoming Si (Jerry Yan), Huaze Lei (Vic Chou), Meizuo (Vanness Wu) and Ximen (Ken Chu)—four rich, handsome but arrogant students collectively known as the 'F4', short for 'Flower 4'. They are heirs to four rich and influential families in Taiwan. They terrorize the school by handing out red cards to those they do not like, which allows other students to bully the victims until they leave the school.


After one of Shancai's friends receives the wrath of the F4's leader, Daoming Si, she stands up to and berates him, which in turn results in a red card of her own. Shancai hates the arrogant and rude Daoming Si. Her persistence in standing up for what is right gradually gains the F4's respect and Daoming Si starts to fall for her. Shancai is attracted to the silent Huaze Lei in the beginning. But Daoming Si's constant yet annoying efforts has her question her feelings for both Huaze Lei and Daoming Si.


Later in the series, Daoming Si's mother comes to Taiwan. She instantly dislikes Shancai because of her poor background. Both Daoming Si and Shancai face hurdles his mother throws their way to separate them. Though Shancai does not profess her love for him yet, Daoming Si remains determined. The series shows the journey of Daoming Si and Shancai's feelings for one another.


from: BATANG 90s MILLENIALS

Saturday, February 8, 2025

THANK YOU LORD

 Panginoon, tulungan N’yo po kaming maging mapagpasalamat sa lahat ng Iyong ipinagkakaloob sa amin.

PSALM 103:1-5

 FORGET NOT ALL HIS BENEFITS!

Enjoy it, thank God for it and share it.


Bless the Lord, O my soul;

And all that is within me, bless His holy name!

Bless the Lord, O my soul,

And forget not all His benefits:

Who forgives all your iniquities,

Who heals all your diseases,

Who redeems your life from destruction,

Who crowns you with lovingkindness and tender mercies, Who satisfies your mouth with good things, So that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s. -PSALM 103:1-5


Thank you for your love and prayers to us.

▫️Apostle Renato D. Carillo

I HAVE LEARNT

..that being who you are isn’t straightforward. We are complicated, contradictory beings, and we don’t always make sense (some of us rarely make sense), but accepting that about ourselves is the biggest step toward happiness.

SALAMAT PO PANGINOON

 Panginoon, maraming salamat po dahil minamahal Ninyo ako kahit pa makasalanan ako. Salamat po dahil kahit wala akong maipagmamalaki, minamahal N’yo pa rin ako.

NO ONE

 no one can separate us from the Love of God. no matter what satan does against us or how difficult the path we face, none of these can take us away from God. nothing can separate us from Him. God's love will never leave us. He will protect us. the only way we can be separated from His love is if we choose to sin & this is something we must never allow to happen.


-Apostle Renato D. Carillo

PHILIPPIANS 4:13

 ""𝐼 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑑𝑜 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ ℎ𝑖𝑚 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑔𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑛𝑠 𝑚𝑒."" (𝑃ℎ𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑝𝑝𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑠 4:13 𝐸𝑆𝑉)


For sure, you've quoted this verse before. Baka nga favorite verse mo rin 'yan. But contrary to common interpretation, HINDI totoong kaya nating gawin ang lahat ng bagay. ❌


Yes, you read that right. Philippians 4:13 doesn't give us license to claim na magagawa natin ang lahat ng iisipin o pipilitin nating gawin.


Because in context, these are the things Paul was referring to when he said he can do ""all things""---

1️⃣ being content whatever the circumstances

2️⃣ enduring any and every situation

IT IS ABOUT CHRIST

 Some days, love is easy. Other days, it feels impossible. It’s challenging when someone hurts you, when trust is broken, or when it feels like they don’t deserve your love.


But love isn’t about who deserves it—it’s about who Christ is. He showed us how to love, even when it’s hard.

BEING INLOVE

 love is not for the faint of heart. it's not the romanticized version we're fed but something more brutal & honest.


it's standing infront of someone with all your wounds exposed, knowing they see every scar, every broken piece & still they stay.


being inlove doesn't come without pain. it's earned in the moments when you want to walk away, when you weight of it all feels too heavy but you choose to stay.


it knows that love isn't about finding someone who makes you whole but about finding someone who sees you as you are & holds space for you to heal, grow & become more than you ever thought you could be.


love is messy & uncomfortable. it's where you find out what you're really made of & what you're really willing to fight.


there's a kind of experience that can't be taught, only approached with caution.


it's about showing up daily, saying, "this is who i choose again & again, and..


forever YOU🤍

IT WILL WORK OUT

 when the love is right & the person is right, it will work out. trust that. believe that. stop doubting yourself & questioning your self worth. if someone is making you feel that you are less than worthy then that is not the right person for you. you deserved to feel loved & adored just the way you are.

THERE WAS A REASON

 you cannot force something in your life. if something is right, you will never have to wonder. you won't feel lost, you won't feel conflicted. what is right for you will stay. you won't have to chase it, you won't have to mend it. you won't have to bend backward to make it fit your life. when something is right, it will bring peace.


there was a reason for those pieces thas so pain - fully did not fit in your life. there is always a reason, i promise you.


one day, you will be thankful that the very same thing you wished so hard to had in your life did not work out.

I AM PROUD OF YOU

Just in case no one has told you this today, i'm so proud of you & everything you have endured & achieved. i hope you know how worthy you are & how much you bring to the world.


i'm proud of you for not giving up no matter how many times you've wanted to. i'm proud of you for choosing to keep going. i'm proud of you for continuing to show up each day despite what you have been through.


i'm proud of you for taking steps to better yourself & your life lately & for finally showing you're just how much you are capable of.


your strength & courage is inspiring & you should be proud of yourself, too.

MOM

 Toni Gonzaga: “A lot of families exist today because the mom chose to forgive. Kahit gaano ka kapagod hindi ka pwedeng mapundi dahil ‘pag napundi ang nanay delikado ang pamilya. Kaya dapat laging shining bright lang nanay. Pero ang galing nga ng nanay eh, kahit broken on the inside umiilaw pa rin sa tahanan. Tsaka dito natin makikita na may rason ang lahat ng pagsubok sa buhay gaano man kasakit. Kung may pinagdadaanan tayong pagsubok ngayon sa buhay, hindi natin agad makikita kung ano yung reason. Parang while going through the storm wag mong i-analyze kasi sa kakaisip at kakaisip mo lalo kang malulugmok at made-depress. Basta ang goal is malampasan ko to.”


A mother’s role in the family is incredibly powerful. Many families thrive because of a mother’s resilience. But I also think it’s unfair to expect moms to always stay strong, no matter what. Moms are not superhuman—they’re people with limits, too.


If a mom “burns out,” it’s not just on her; it’s a sign the family should step up and support her. Moms shouldn’t feel like they have to carry the entire family alone. It’s a partnership, and everyone in the family has a role to play in keeping the light shining.


As a family, sometimes we just have to focus on surviving the storm. It’s not always about understanding the "why" in the moment; it’s about getting through it. But let’s also make sure moms know it’s okay to ask for help when they need it. Families are strongest when everyone works together, not when all the pressure is placed on one person.

CHILD

 There are many ways to raise a child.

And there are many people who want to tell you how you should raise your child.


Some will offer their opinions when asked, but many will give unsolicited advice.


it is easy to doubt your parenting decisions when you are surrounded by people questioning your choices.


The truth is that what works for one child may not work for another child.

The truth is that what works for one mother may not work for another mother.

The truth is that every day with your child is the first day of raising your child at that age.


The truth is that NOBODY has all the answers.


What should a mother do?

𝑇𝑟𝑢𝑠𝑡 ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑡𝑠.


In a world full of opinions, all I can do is trust my own voice and my own heart.


𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑚𝑦 𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒.


Will I always get it right?

No.

Will I always do what I think is best?

Yes. With every ounce of my being.


If I want guidance, I will ask.

I will stand by my choices even if others don't agree with them.


𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭.


𝐸𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑒𝑙𝑠𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑠𝑖𝑚𝑝𝑙𝑦 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑛𝑜𝑖𝑠𝑒.


Written by: Surviving Mom Blog with Randi Latzman

TMAD

 TMAD stands for "Two Meals a Day," meaning you only eat two meals within a specific eating window each day, essentially creating a fasting period between those two meals; it's a form of intermittent fasting where you restrict your eating to a shorter window, typically around 8 hours, and fast for the remainin


How to do TMAD:

Choose your eating window:

Decide on an 8-hour period where you will eat your two meals, like 12pm-8pm. 

Plan your meals:

Ensure your two meals are nutritionally balanced and include a good source of protein, healthy fats, and fiber. 

Fast during non-eating window:

Avoid consuming any calories outside of your chosen eating window, except for water and unsweetened beverages. 

Important points to consider:

Listen to your body:

If you experience any negative symptoms like excessive hunger, dizziness, or fatigue, adjust your eating window or consult a healthcare professional. 


Hydrate well:

Drink plenty of water and unsweetened beverages during your fasting window to stay hydrated.

KIDNEY

 "KUNG ALAM KO LANG, WALA SANA AKO GA DIALYSIS 3X A WEEK" (If only I knew CKD, I am not doing Dialysis 3x a week) --- Let me share the story. Let this serve as awareness to everyone. 


Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD) is a growing health crisis in the Philippines, affecting millions with little warning. 


A 2022 study in revealed that CKD cases in the Philippines have risen to 35.94%, this is a SILENT KILLER. Early detection and proactive care are crucial to managing this condition effectively. 


26, young and engaged to be married na sana when He was diagnosed with Chronic Kidney Disease  Secondary to Iga Nephropathy. He is now 29, three years undergoing Dialysis 3x a week. Why?


1. Panay kain ng chichirya (snack chips) na sobrang alat. This happens everyday! 

2. Para makatipid sa pera at oras, meals prepared are frozen preserved and canned goods like: hotdogs, beefloaf, cornedbeef, tocino, and chorizo. 

3. Lack of awareness of healthy food choices that too much salt is bad for the kidneys. 

4. Blood pressure increases at the very young age of 23 with 140/90. Then to 150/90. 

5. Did not take medication maintenance for the BP kasi hindi nagpa check up. 

6. Nag self medicate lang pag may maramdaman take agad ng PAIN KILLERS. 


Pag mataas ang BP, kelangan agad ipa check if needed ng maintenance, if hindi ka mag medication, expect na mahihirapan ang Kidney to function. It may be too late for now, kasi once kidney fails, forever kana dadalaw sa dialysis center. Nanakawin nya ang oras mo, pera mo, at kabataan mo. 


Kaya make better choices. 


This is not a testimony.

But a reminder that Prevention is better than undergoing Dialysis 3x a week. 


Sharing is Caring


-donna miranda


For CKD prevention while on a high-protein diet, follow these direct steps:


1. Balance Protein Intake

 • Stick to 1.2–2.0g of protein per kg body weight (about 78–130g per day for you).

 • Avoid excessive red meat and processed meats; prioritize lean proteins (chicken, fish, tofu, eggs).


2. Stay Hydrated

 • Drink at least 2–3 liters of water daily to help kidneys filter waste from protein metabolism.


3. Limit Sodium

 • Keep sodium intake below 2,300 mg per day.

 • Choose low-sodium canned tuna and rinse it before eating.


4. Monitor Blood Pressure & Blood Sugar

 • Keep BP below 130/80 mmHg.

 • Avoid excess sugar and processed carbs to prevent diabetes risk.


5. Avoid Excessive NSAIDs & Supplements

 • Limit ibuprofen, naproxen, and unnecessary supplements that strain the kidneys.


6. Get Regular Kidney Function Tests

 • Check creatinine, eGFR, and urine protein at least once a year, especially with a high-protein diet.


7. exercise daily 


chronic kidney disease (CKD) patients can exercise, but the type and intensity should be tailored to their condition and overall health. Regular physical activity can help improve cardiovascular health, muscle strength, and overall well-being. However, it’s essential to follow these guidelines:


1. Consult a Doctor First

 • Before starting an exercise program, CKD patients should get medical clearance from their nephrologist.


2. Choose Low-Impact Exercises

 • Walking (brisk or incline walking)

 • Cycling (stationary or outdoor)

 • Swimming (if allowed)

 • Yoga or stretching

 • Light resistance training (bodyweight exercises or light weights)


3. Avoid High-Risk Activities

 • High-intensity exercises that cause excessive fatigue

 • Contact sports or activities with a high risk of injury

 • Heavy weightlifting without supervision


4. Monitor Symptoms

 • Stop exercising if you feel dizzy, short of breath, excessively tired, or have chest pain.

 • Stay hydrated but follow fluid restrictions if applicable.


5. Exercise Frequency & Duration

 • 150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity activity (e.g., 30 minutes, 5 times a week)

 • Start slowly and gradually increase intensity

Monday, January 27, 2025

THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

 "there's no perfect marriage. it always have ups & downs. but as long as there is love, respect & commitmmnt to stand together at all cost, i believe marriage can withstand. & the best is, if you put God on top, walang hindi malalagpasan sa lahat ng struggles ang mag-asawa."

ARIES

 Aries: They want to be your best friend (and then some). They get super excited and super energized when you’re around. They ask tons of questions. They’ll be very touchy-feely, and not afraid to make the first move. An Aries in love is a very caring, but very intense lover. When an Aries is falling in love with you, their attention is on you constantly.

ONE DAY

 "one day, you will look back on this time & all you will see is magic. you won't remember how stuck you felt or how far behind you thought you were or what you wished you had done differently. all you will see is that within your uncertainty was also your potential & within your lostness was also an opportunity to be found & within your discomfort was also a chance to see what you need to change & changing it was you becoming the person you were always meant to be. if there is one single thought that can comfort you in your darkest, quietest nights, please let it be this - one day, you will look back on this time & all you will see is magic."

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TRAUMAS

 Ang mga traumas, hindi naman agad-agad na nag-heal yan. Hindi bukas, hindi next year, or even sa mga susunod na taon. Kaya sana, before tayo mag-comment na "ang tagal na nun, mag-move on ka na,

"let's think twice. Hindi porket hindi ganon kabigat sa atin or hindi natin naranasan, ay dapat okay na yung tao.


Iba-iba tayo ng healing process, and may mga bagay na sa iba ay super big deal, pero sa atin parang nothing. Pero doesn't mean na ganon lang kadali para sa kanila. Lahat tayo may mga pinagdadaanan, at hindi laging madali yun.


So, instead of judging or rushing them to move on, maybe it's better to just be there, listen, and give them space. Hindi laging kailangan may solution.

Sometimes, just having someone who gets it and isn't pushing you to get over it is already enough. - 


-Toni Gonzaga

EVEN WHEN LIFE BRINGS STORMS

 Even when life brings storms—trials that test your faith—they are not a problem. Let the winds blow. Let the storm rage. It doesn’t matter how fierce the storm is, how strong the winds are, or what schemes the devil tries to use. None of it will affect you as long as you live by His Word and obey His commands.


No matter the trials, the type of storm, or the tactics the enemy employs, they are all powerless and ineffective against a life rooted in obedience to God. The Lord does not call you merely a hearer of His Word but a wise person who builds their life upon a firm foundation.


We are obligated to live by the Word of God, and when we do, no storm can overcome us.


-Apostle Renato D. Carillo

DEREK RAMSAY TO TONI TALKS

 Derek Ramsay in his Toni Talks interview:


"Kaya ang advice ko nga sa mga bata is to get married when you're in your 40s. 


Sa babae, I would say early 30s so you can still have babies, kung gusto magkababy.


For guy, tapusin mo lahat ng gusto mong gawin, make sure may direction na buhay mo so that ma-enjoy mo ang marriage. Because it's hard when you jump into a marriage na you're still looking for food to feed yourself and then now you're responsible for another individual and then you go through those hard times which I'm not saying is impossible, but it can make or break you and in most cases, in todays society it breaks couples. There's so many temptations. For me, you need to be really stable it's like setting a strong foundation.


If you're 40 and you have no direction, then you have no right to get married. Because mag-aalaga ka pa ng isa pang tao or vice versa."

SILENT CUT OFF

 I’ve always believed in the power of silent cut-offs. Sometimes, actions speak louder than words, and when someone crosses a line, I don’t need to explain myself. The truth is, I don’t owe anyone a long explanation for why I choose to distance myself. If you’ve done something that hurt or disappointed me, you already know what you did—there’s no need for me to spell it out. The absence of communication can say more than any conversation, and it’s a way of asserting that I’m no longer willing to tolerate certain behaviors.


People often underestimate the strength in cutting ties quietly. It’s not about drama or making a scene; it’s about maintaining my peace and showing that I’m not interested in playing games or indulging in petty explanations. Those who know me understand that when I go silent, it’s because I’ve already made up my mind, and I’m not going to waste energy on what’s already been decided. Nobody is naive enough to not realize their actions—sometimes, leaving things unspoken is the most powerful response.

Thursday, January 16, 2025

SPIRITUAL MENTORS

 (💙RM Sunday Reflections🙏)


BAKIT KELANGAN NAMIN

NG SPIRITUAL MENTORS

NA HINDI NAG-AAGREE 

AT IBA-IBA SILA.


———————————————————-


💙RM: Nung mas bata kami, BETTER sa amin

ang NAG-AAGREE at PARE-PAREHO 

ang mga spiritual mentors namin.


But as we got older, na-realize namin 

MAS MAGANDA pala na HINDI SILA NAG-AAGREE sa lahat

at IBA-IBA SILA.✔️


——


💙Story of the ELEPHANT & 6 BLIND MEN.


A group of blind men were inspecting an elephant

by touch: 


💙 1. The first felt its tusk, stating the elephant is that which is hard, smooth and LIKE A SPEAR.✅


💙 2. For another one whose hand reached its ear, 

it seemed like a LIKE A FAN.✅


💙 3. The blind man who placed his hand upon its side said the elephant, "IT IS LIKE A WALL.”✅


💙 4. Another who felt its tail, described it LIKE A ROPE.✅


💙 5. As for another person, whose hand was upon its leg, said, the elephant is a pillar LIKE A TREE-TRUNK.✅


💙 6. The last person, whose hand landed on the trunk, 

said, "This being is LIKE A THICK SNAKE.”✅


——-


PRACTICAL APPLICATION:


 🔵 1. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE IN EVANGELISM, dapat lahat ng tao ay share-ran about God.  Friendly at Charismatic sila, magaling mag-imbita dahil LIGHT LANG ang usapan. Madalas ang fellowship time together.


🔵 2. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE IN THE PROPHETIC, dapat naririnig from God ANO ANG DIREKSYON AT MANGYAYARE IN THE FUTURE. Malalim at mahaba usually ang usapan.


🔵 3. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE IN FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP. Magagaling at sobrang trustworthy sa paghawak ng pera. Lagi nilang sinasabi na IF U ARE FAITHFUL with LITTLE, God will bless you with VERY MUCH. Magaling sa negosyo at pagpapalago ng pera.


🔵 4. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE in HEALING & DELIVERANCE. Hindi sila takot sa pagtanggal ng sakit galing sa madilim na espirito. Marami sila napag-pray na maysakit na gumaling, at aral sila sa IBA’T IBANG KLASE NG ESPIRITO NA GUMUGULO SA TAO.


🔵 5. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE IN PASTORAL CARE. Yung maalagang-maalaga sa mga tao. Laging available at very supportive.


🔵 6. Some spiritual mentors SPECIALIZE IN TEACHING. Sila yung nagtuturo ng mahihirap na topics tulad ng END TIMES(paggunaw ng mundo sa dulo, tinatawag na ESCATOLOGY), THEOLOGY, APOLOGETICS, CHURCH HISTORY, etc.


——


REALIZATION: 


Walang IISANG SPIRITUAL MENTOR ang MALAKAS SA LAHAT. 

Laging may ISANG CORE STRENGTH at SPECIALTY.


At dahil SOBRANG STRONG NILA SA ISANG BAGAY, 

hindi sila same mag-isip kumpara sa ibang mentor 

NA IBA NAMAN ANG SPECIALTY.


KAYA MAGANDA na magkaroon ng iba’t ibang spiritual mentors na HINDI NAG-AAGREE…

at HINDI PARE-PAREHO 

dahil just like the ELEPHANT-BLIND MEN story, 

LUMALAWAK ANG PANANAW AT PAG-UUNAWA NATIN sa mga ispiritwal na bagay.


WE SEE OUR SUPER BIG GOD(ELEPHANT) BETTER!

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

INTROVERT

 BAKIT DAW HINDI AKO NAKIKIHALUBILO SA MGA TAO?!


"Many people say that I'm quiet, that I don't interact much or socialize with others. But what they don't know is that I have a reason for being this way. I know that a person's true character doesn't show when they're in favorable and comfortable situations. Their real nature comes out when they least expect it, when there are no cameras, no pressure, and when they're unprepared. That's why I prefer to observe, wait, and see how they treat others, how they act in the face of challenges or difficult situations. I don't spend my time on people who don't genuinely value me or whom I can't respect. Sometimes, being quiet and distant isn't because you can't socialize, but because you've learned to pay attention to who truly deserves your time and energy."


Gladys Reyes

PHILIPPINES

 FACTS ABOUT THE PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭

1.  Most of people in the Philippines speak English! With a strong emphasis on English education, the Philippines ranks as the fifth-largest English-speaking country globally, making communication with locals a breeze for English speakers.


2.  Filipinos ranked as the highest selfie-takers in the world! Filipinos have earned the title of the world’s most enthusiastic selfie-takers, embracing the art of self-expression through photography.


3.  Philippines has 7641 islands – making it one of the largest archipelagos globally. Surprisingly, more than 5,000 of these islands remain unnamed on most international maps, waiting to be discovered. Sounds amazing, right? Just imagine huge number of islands right there!


4.  There are over 170 dialects in the Philippines! One of the most remarkable features of the Philippines is its linguistic diversity. While the official language is Filipino, based on Tagalog, there are over 170 dialects spoken throughout the archipelago, reflecting the nation’s vibrant cultural mosaic.


5.  The Philippines is the only Asian nation that is predominantly Christian. More than 86% of the population identifies as Roman Catholic and religion is still a big influence in the country.


6.  The largest and most expensive pearl in the world was found in the Philippines! It was being found in Palawan, weighing a staggering 75 pounds and valued at an astonishing $100 million.


7.  Filipinos celebrate Christmas longer than you think! The Philippines takes Christmas celebrations to the next level, beginning in September and lasting until January during the “Feast of the Three Kings.” The festive atmosphere includes decorations and numerous parties.


8.  The Philippines has ‘best singers,’ ‘loves music most’ among 90 toured countries. Filipinos are so good at singing! Karaoke is their beloved pastime, showcasing their vocal talents at gatherings, turning any occasion into a singing festivity.


9.  The Philippines has earned its title as the “text capital of the world,” with social media and texting being the primary means of communication.


10.  Tarsier, one of the world’s smallest primates can only be found in the Philippines. It is known for its enormous eyes relative to its body size, aiding in night vision.


11.  Fertilised duck embryo is the famous street snack. Filipinos enjoy eating this, they call it as ‘balut’. 


12.  The Philippines has unique transportation modes, such as tricycles, jeep, and kalesas.


13.  The Philippines is known as the largest supplier of nurses to the world, with over 25% of all nurses in the United States being of Filipino descent.


14.  Jeepney as the usual public transportation! It is distinctive and colorful public transportation vehicles, is ubiquitous in the Philippines, providing a unique way to explore its cities.


15.  Philippines is the only country where the flag is flown upside down to indicate the state of war.


16.  Filipino is the official language in the Philippines. It became the main language of the Philippines in 1987 under the constitution replacing ‘Pilipino’.


17.  Philippines is one of the largest island countries in the world! It offers an incredible diversity of landscapes and experiences.


18.  The Philippines is the second largest producer of coconut products in the world. Locally known as buko, coconut is a top export product of the Philippines. Each year, the country ships around 19.50 million tons or more of coconut fruit.


19.  Filipinos are known for being polite, addressing each other with “ma’am” or “sir.” Respect for elders is deeply ingrained, reflected in terms like “ate” and “kuya” and use of “po” and “opo.”


20.  “Filipino time” refers to the cultural phenomenon of Filipinos often arriving late for appointments or events, reflecting their laid-back, relaxed attitude towards time.


21.  Two of the world’s largest shopping malls are located in the Philippines, offering an incredible shopping and leisure experience. One is SM Megamall, located in Mandaluyong city, with a total floor area of over 5.5 million square feet. Another is SM Shopping center of Asia (MOA) is a rambling shopping center in Pasay City, with more than 4.4 million square feet of retail space. 


22.  The Philippines founded Asia’s first basketball league, the Philippines Basketball Association, in 1975, making basketball a beloved sport in the country.


23.  Jollibee is the top fast food chain the Philippines taking over McDonald’s! Jollibee was the leading limited-service restaurant in the Philippines in terms of sales in 2021. In that year, the restaurant chain generated sales of approximately 24. 53 billion U.S. dollars. Its closest competitor, McDonald’s, had total sales of about 786 million U.S. dollars in that year.


24.  The Philippines has the largest underground river. Many people visit the Philippines because of its cultural history of famous water bodies. In fact, this nation is home to the largest underground river. It is located in Puerta Princesa Subterranean River National Park. There are many famous landmarks in the Philippines that will amaze you.


25.  Filipinos can’t eat without rice! For almost 99% of the Philippine population, no meal is complete without rice, highlighting its central role in Filipino cuisine.


26.  Filipinos usually have 3 to 4 meals daily! 


27.  There are three main island groups in the Philippines: Luzon, Mindanao, and Visayas. Luzon, the most populous, is home to the capital city, Manila.


 #philippinefact

#ctto

ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION

 Alam niyo ba na hindi lang sa NGAYON nangyayare ang DEPRESSION and ANXIETY?


Narito ang mga biblical figures na nakaranas ng depression o anxiety:


1. Elijah – Si Elijah ay nakaranas ng Situational Depression o Adjustment Disorder with Depressed Mood. Dahil sa pagod at takot sa banta ni Queen Jezebel, halos sumuko na siya sa buhay. Pero nagpadala si God ng angel para alagaan at palakasin siya (1 Kings 19).


2. David – Si David ay dumaan sa Major Depressive Disorder (MDD). Ang kanyang matinding kalungkutan, guilt, at pagsisisi ay makikita sa mga Psalms, lalo na pagkatapos ng kanyang mga pagkakamali at pagsubok sa buhay (Psalm 51). Ang kanyang openness kay God ay nagpapakita ng kahalagahan ng pag-amin ng ating nararamdaman.


3. Jesus – Sa Garden of Gethsemane, nakaramdam si Jesus ng matinding Acute Stress Reaction. Dahil sa takot at bigat ng pasanin na Kanyang haharapin, humingi siya ng lakas kay God at pinagpawisan pa nga ng dugo, isang kondisyon na tinatawag na Hematidrosis (Luke 22:44).


4. Job – Si Job ay dumaan sa Reactive Depression o Grief-Related Depression, dahil sa matinding pagkawala ng kanyang mga mahal sa buhay, ari-arian, at kalusugan. Dito, ipinapakita ang tindi ng kanyang sakit at ang kanyang paglapit kay God para sa pag-asa (Job 3:11).


5. Jeremiah – Si Jeremiah, ang “Weeping Prophet,” ay nakaranas ng Chronic Sorrow o Persistent Depressive Disorder (PDD), dahil sa patuloy na rejection mula sa kanyang mga kababayan at ang kanilang pagtalikod sa Diyos. Ipinakita ni Jeremiah ang kanyang emosyonal na pagkabalisa sa kanyang writings (Jeremiah 20:14-18, Lamentations).


6. Hannah – Si Hannah ay dumaan sa Situational Anxiety and Depression o Adjustment Disorder with Mixed Anxiety and Depressed Mood. Dahil sa pangungutya sa kanya sa kawalan ng anak, siya ay nakaramdam ng matinding lungkot at stress, kaya't siya ay umiyak at nag-pray kay God (1 Samuel 1:10-16).


Ang kanilang mga kwento ay paalala na maging sa pinakamatinding emotional na pagsubok, ang paglapit sa Diyos ang nagbibigay ng pag-asa, kalakasan, at kaginhawaan sa ating mental health struggles. Na kahit malakas na tayo o pinaka matatag na tao ay makakaranas nito NGUNIT walang impossible sa Dios. Sumandal at lumapit ka sa kanya ikay kanyang tutulungan.❤️

TIME CHANGE

 There's this one post in tiktok that stops me.

"Hindi na marami ang tubig ng instant noodles"

And that hits me, ang dami na palang nagbago nakakausad na pala kahit pa unti unti.


I had to read all the comments in that post.

"Sawsawan na yung toyo hindi na ulam"

"Hindi na magsisinungaling sina mama at papa na busog sila"

"May coke na kahit walang bisita"

"You can buy now jollibee, kahit walang okasyon"

"Hindi na itutulog ang pasko at new year"

"May cake na sa birthday"

"Hindi na naghihintay mabigyan ng lumang damit at sapatos ng pinsan"

"Cravings na lang ang sardinas"

"nakakapag grocery na yung batang inuutusan dati mangutang ng itlog at noodles sa tindahan"


And while reading this comments, I can't stop my tears. Kasi ganitong ganito din ako dati. I'm so proud by looking at all the comments.

It might still be a long way to go, but a lot of progress had already made. Acknowledge every progress, hindi mo man napapansin pero malayo ka na.


In life we might not get the things according to our plan but be patient because we cannot have it all at once. And to those who still fight their own battles, be patient I know soon all your hardworks would paid off kaya mo yan. I hope we all win in life!! @solana_xola

LISTEN

 "KAPAG NAKINIG KA SA ASAWA MO, MAGIGING MAAYOS ANG BUHAY MO" 💯


Sa bawat relasyon, laging may mga desisyon at usapang kailangang pagdaanan. Minsan, may mga pagkakataon na hindi magkatugma ang opinyon ninyo ng asawa mo. Pero dito nasusubok ang tunay na tibay ng pagsasama—sa pakikinig, pag-unawa, at pagbibigay ng respeto.👈👈👈


Kapag nakikinig ka sa asawa mo, hindi lang basta iniintindi mo ang kanyang sinasabi; binibigyan mo rin siya ng halaga. Pinaparamdam mo na importante ang kanyang opinyon at parte siya ng bawat hakbang na tatahakin ninyo bilang magkasama.💞


Maraming beses na ang simpleng pakikinig ay nagdadala ng solusyon sa mga alitan. Ito rin ang nagiging daan para maiwasan ang mga hindi pagkakaunawaan. Sa huli, natututo kayong maging mas maayos na mag-partner—nagpapakumbaba, nagko-kompromiso, at nagtutulungan.❤️


Kaya kung gusto mong maging masaya at maayos ang buhay mo, simple lang ang sikreto: makinig sa asawa mo. Hindi ito tungkol sa kung sino ang tama o mali, kundi kung paano ninyo mas pinipili ang pagmamahal kaysa pride. 😊❤️

SCATTER

 KWENTONG SCATTER


Hello 27 Female, Married. Soon to be mommy, and sobrang stress ko ngayon dahil sa mga pangyayari dahil sa sùgãl.


Kakakasal lang namin ng husband ko last 2022, matagal kaming magkarelasyon simula nung college pa lang kami. Magkaiba kami ng course, akala ko hindi kami tatagal kasi madami pang distraction nung college.


2022 after 7 years namin mag BF and GF nagpakasal na kami. Maayos na yung career naming dalawa, nasa IT Field sya sumasahod ng 150k per month, ako naman Medical yung course pero nasa IT Field din, nasa 90k monthly salary ko.


Nagstart yung problema ko nung nabuntis ako, nung nagpacheck up kami sinabi na maselan daw yung pagbubuntis ko dahil madami ako na experience na spotting, kaya ang advice ng doctor rest muna para mawala stress at hindi masyado mapagod. Napilitan ako magresign para sa baby namin.


Nung nasa bahay lang ako nacurious ako kung ano yung scatter na yan. Sobrang daming nagbabangit ng scatter na yan at nung una naman talaga wala akong pakealam. Pero siguro dahil bored na pa try na rin ako. Nung una cash in lang ako ng 1k per day, hindi ko pa alam kung ano ginagawa ko, spin lang ng spin. 


Sobrang corny nung una kasi spin lang ng spin tapos hindi ko alam nangyayari. Ang panget pa ng graphics nung mga nilalaro kong games. Kaya parang hindi rin ako na hook ng matagal.


Fast forward after 2 - 3 weeks ata, nakita ko yung ibang streamer na magaganda na yung graphics na nilalaro, nalaman ko na iba iba pala yung provider ng games. Nahook ako sa isang provider kasi sobrang madali intindihin yung games tapos maganda na yung graphics.


Nanalo din ako nung una, first max win ko parang 3 pesos bet lang, naging 45k. Ibang klase talaga yung feeling, sobrang saya. Naalala ko nung magBF/GF pa kami ng husband ko pag naglalaro kami sa mga (amusement park) sa mall, lagi kami masaya kapag napapalago namin yung mga token namin. 


Naalala ko pa dati, budget namin sa token nasa 50 to 100 pesos lang, then papalaguin namin magiging 50 to 100, then magbabastketball, videoke, at claw machines na kami. Ganun na ganun yung feeling, sobrang na miss ko din siguro..


Dati spin spin lang ginagawa ko nasa 3-5 pesos bet lang, max cash in ko nasa 1k lang per day, talagang libangan lang kasi hindi ko rin naman need ng money.


Hanggang sa nalibang na ako sa mga sl0ts games, yung dating spin spin lang naging buy bonus na, kasi nandun naman talaga yung pinaka exciting part. Yung dating 300 to 500 buy b0nus napalitan ng 3k hanggang sa umabot na ng up to 30k per buy bonus kakahabol ng talo.


Grabe yung sa buy bonus, minsan bibili ka worth 10k, kadalasan ang balik sayo 10% lang nung pera. Laging talo sa buy bonus pero hindi ko alam pero ganun pa rin ng ganun yung ginagawa ko.


Hindi ko namalayan na max na pala yung mga card ko kaka cash in almost 1.2m yung natalo sakin sa almost 3 months pa lang na paglalaro. Naubos lahat ng savings ko na sana budget namin mag asawa sa hospital panganganak at pagpapacheck up ko at ng baby ko.


Nagkautang pa ako sa banks. Sumabay pa na wala akong trabaho ngayon, kaya walang way para mabayaran yung CC ko. Yung dating laging fully paid yung credit card, ngayon minimum amount due na lang ang kaya kong bayaran. Ang hirap kasi dapat hindi ako stress kaya nga nagresign ako, pero mas sobra sobrang stress pa yung nararamdaman ko ngayon.


Nalulong na pala ako sa 0nl!ne, sobrang t@nga ko hindi ko alam gagawin ko. Halos araw araw gusto ko maglaro, kahit alam kong matatalo ako talagang gusto ko pa rin maglaro. Sobrang hirap sa mental health pala yung ganito.


First week ng December nagsend sakin ng 120k yung asawa ko sa online bank ko, 13th month pay daw nya para pangbudget ngayong pasko at pambili ng gifts sa mga pamangkin.


Nacashin ko yung 20k nagbabakasali na makabawi at madagdagan yung budget at makabayad ng onti sa utang, ang malala naubos yung 120k, ngayon tulala ako at nasusuka hindi ko alam kung ano gagawin.


Hindi ko masabi sa husband ko kung ano yung nangyari sakin, sobrang nahihiya ako sa kanya. Hindi ko na alam gagawin. Kung saan ako pupulot ng pera, gusto ko sana magwork para makabayad kahit papaano, pero iniisip ko si baby. 


Gusto ko umiyak at sabihin sa asawa ko pero natatakot ako. Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. Masasabi ko na ito talaga yung rock bottom ko, sana malapamsan ko lahat ng ito 🙏

FORBIDDEN

 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐈𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐈𝐬 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐛𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐆𝐨𝐝?


Because God said...

“𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘦, 𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘣𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩, 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩." - 𝗘𝘅𝗼𝗱𝘂𝘀 𝟮𝟬:𝟰


“𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘰 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘨𝘰𝘥𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘦." - 𝗘𝘅𝗼𝗱𝘂𝘀 𝟮𝟬:𝟯

IDOLATRY

 𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐖𝐄 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐕𝐄𝐃 𝐈𝐌𝐀𝐆𝐄𝐒?


𝟭. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗷𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗚𝗼𝗱

“𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘰𝘳𝘥; 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘔𝘺 𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘦! 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘔𝘺 𝘨𝘭𝘰𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘳 𝘔𝘺 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘭𝘴.”

- 𝘐𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘢𝘩 42:8


𝟮. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗱𝗼𝗹𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗰𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲, 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸, 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝘃𝗲

“𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘭𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘭𝘥, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘶𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘴. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘩𝘴, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬; 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘦…” - 𝘗𝘴𝘢𝘭𝘮 115:4-8


𝟯. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗱𝗼𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗿𝘆 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗼𝗻

“𝘋𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘶𝘱𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘭, 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘦…”

- 𝘋𝘦𝘶𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘮𝘺 4:16-19


𝟰. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝘀

“𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘏𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘵𝘩.” - 𝘑𝘰𝘩𝘯 4:24


𝟱. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗱𝗼𝗹𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗚𝗼𝗱'𝘀 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁𝘀

“𝘗𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘭𝘺 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦… 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘥𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘳𝘺.”

- 𝘊𝘰𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘴 3:5


𝟲. 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝗱𝗼𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗿𝘆 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀

“𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘐, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘰𝘳𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘎𝘰𝘥, 𝘢𝘮 𝘢 𝘫𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘎𝘰𝘥, 𝘱𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘳𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯…” - 𝘌𝘹𝘰𝘥𝘶𝘴 20:5

I LOVE YOU NESTOR

 you do not understand how necessary it is for me to hear your voice everyday. i want so much to just hold you & wake up beside you & just be there to love you 🥰😘

if i was to describe to you exactly why i love you, it would be just like me just trying to tell you how water tastes; indescribable 🥰😘

TRUE LOVE

 If you meet someone that has been through hell their whole life, but still remained big hearted… be careful with their love. They will change you, they will teach you true love, self love and to love life. They chose love their whole life…even when they were being damaged.

SALAMAT PO PANGINOON DAHIL MAPALAD AKO SA ASAWA KO

 𝙈𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙢𝙤 𝙩𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙜𝙖 𝙠𝙪𝙣𝙜 𝙜𝙖𝙖𝙣𝙤 𝙠𝙖 𝙠𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙝𝙖𝙡 𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙨𝙖𝙬𝙖 𝙢𝙤 𝙠𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙜 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙠𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙠 𝙣𝙖 𝙠𝙖𝙮𝙤. 𝙆𝙖𝙨𝙞 𝙠𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙜 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙠𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙠 𝙠𝙖𝙣𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙖𝙜𝙤.   


𝘼𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞 𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙠𝙖𝙠𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙖 𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙖𝙜𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙖𝙜𝙤 𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙠𝙖𝙡 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙤. 𝙄𝙙𝙖𝙜𝙙𝙖𝙜 𝙢𝙤 𝙣𝙖 𝙙𝙞𝙣 𝙮𝙪𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙖𝙜𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙖𝙜𝙤 𝙨𝙖 𝙪𝙜𝙖𝙡𝙞 𝙢𝙤 𝙙𝙖𝙡𝙖 𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙜𝙖 𝙥𝙖𝙜𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙖𝙜𝙤 𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨 𝙨𝙖 𝙞𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙠𝙖𝙩𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙣.   


𝙔𝙪𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙠𝙖𝙬 𝙣𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙗𝙞𝙣𝙜  𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙮𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙮 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙗𝙪𝙗𝙪𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙖,𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩 𝙨𝙖 𝙠𝙖𝙝𝙞𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙞𝙩 𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙣𝙖 𝙗𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙮, 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙖𝙣 𝙣𝙜𝙖 𝙨𝙖 𝙙𝙞 𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙙𝙖𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙖𝙣. 


𝙈𝙖𝙖𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙣𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙠𝙖 𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙜𝙖 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙨𝙖𝙬𝙖, 𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩 𝙨𝙖 𝙢𝙜𝙖 𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙝𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙜𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙨 𝙠𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙣 𝙢𝙤 𝙖𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙪𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙜𝙖 𝙣𝙞𝙮𝙖.   


𝙆𝙖𝙮𝙖 𝙠ung 𝙢𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙨𝙖𝙬𝙖 𝙠𝙖 𝙣𝙖 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙝𝙖𝙡 𝙠𝙖 𝙥𝙖 𝙧𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙖𝙞𝙮𝙤 𝙨𝙖 𝙢𝙜𝙖 𝙜𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙖𝙜𝙠𝙖𝙠𝙖𝙩𝙖𝙤𝙣, 𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙩𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙣 𝙢𝙤 𝙞𝙮𝙖𝙣. 𝘿𝙖𝙝𝙞𝙡 𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞 𝙡𝙖𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙜 𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙖𝙚 𝙖𝙮 𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙗𝙞𝙮𝙖𝙮𝙖𝙖𝙣 𝙣𝙜 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚, 𝙢𝙖𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙜𝙢𝙖𝙝𝙖𝙡 𝙣𝙖 𝙖𝙨𝙖𝙬𝙖.

I DO NOT ASK FOR HELP OFTEN

 I don't ask for help often. I tried to manage all my issues on my own. I carried my life believing that my breakdowns are my responsibilities. Somehow, it's true.


But more than truth, I am just afraid and tired. Of explaining myself. Of hearing unsolicited advice. Of tolerating people whom I thought would understand me, but they wouldn't.


And so I distance myself. I don't loathe them, but I created a gap between us and a wall beneath me. I don't wanna be helped anymore.


It's just the more people disappoint me, the more I feel that I equate to them.

FOURTH YEAR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

 Thank You, Lord God for the abundant blessings and Gift of Love... Happy 4th Year Wedding Anniversary My Wifey! Though we have challenges and trials along the way, we tackled it all with God's help and guidance and we need to work it out for the road to forever.

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we want to be close to Your heart 🤍

Your love never fails! ☝️

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the journey of marriage was never easy 🤍 but it's all worth it ☝️

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Dear Heavenly Father,

Grant us the strength to hold fast to our vows & give us the strength to fulfill them everyday with humility, gentleness & patience as long as we both shall live. In Jesus' name, AMEN.


"anyone can love you when it's easy. real love is someone loving you when it's hard. it's someone standing by your side through life's ups & downs. it's someone healing, evolving & building with you. it's someone choosing to take on the world every single day."

happy 4th year wedding anniversary satin asawa ko

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