LET GO OF UNNECESSARY DRAMA

 Wife: 

“AS MUCH AS I NEEDED TO BE 

HEARD AND UNDERSTOOD, 

GANUN RIN SI HUSBAND.”

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Crystal Sabido:

I am a silent reader, happily married for 9 years.. 

allow me to share my thoughts.. 

We, mga wives and GFs, need to listen intentionally 

and understand the POV of our husband/BF.. 

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As a wife, marami rin ako natutunan.. 

I realize na, as much as I needed to be heard and understood- 

ganun rin si Husband.

Ang gusto kasi natin mga girls, 

tayo iniintindi PALAGI, tayo inuunawa PALAGI, pinapatawad agad PALAGI kapag may pagkakamali.. 

paanu naman mga husband or partner natin? 

Sana marealize natin na same din ang needs nila.

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Ang problema, most of the time, women tends to talk a lot (as in!)- umaandar na defense mechanism at pangangatwiran, 

lalo kapag nare-Real Talk na ni hubby.. 

Imbes na iprocess ang sinabi ni hubby, intindihin at aminin na may kakulangan at kasalanan din tayo,, idadaan pa sa tantrums, pagpuputak at minsan, hindi mamamansin..

(💙RM: SUPER CORRECT!✔️✔️✔️)

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May times na hindi nagsosorry ang mga husbands or BFs natin, dahil gusto nila cguro matutunan din natin na magSorry- umamin sa pagkakamali. 

(💙RM: TRUE✔️)

Wives/ GF, try niyo rin kasi magSorry. 

There’s no shame in apologising.

I know many of you (wives or GFs) will not agree with me. 

But believe me, nung natutunan ko ng pakinggan at intindihin husband ko.. at nung natutunan ko na rin mag-Sorry.. yes, may disagreements pa rin pero wala ng unnecessary drama.

(💙RM: MISMO✅

ANG GAAN NG RELASYON KUNG MAWALA ANG UNNECESSARY DRAMA.🎯🎯🎯)

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#HusbandsNeedListeningAndUnderstandingToo

#LetGoOfUnneccessaryDrama