By far the most common questions I
get are variations of figuring out how a guy feels, “He texts me from time to
time but we never actually hang out,” “He texts me from time to time but we
never actually hang out,” “He’s really flirty when we see each other and said
I’m the coolest girl he knows so why isn’t he asking me out?” “We’ve been
seeing each other for months but he won’t make it official,” “He always watches
my instagram and snapchat stories and he likes my pictures so what does that
mean???”
It means he is kind of interested in
you but doesn’t want a relationship with you. He always says he misses you but
doesn’t make a way to see you. Guys don’t play games. They don’t tried to hide
interest, they don’t speak in code, and they aren’t trying to confuse you. Why
is it so confusing? Again, because we don’t want to accept the truth and we all
want to think we’re the exception.
What women always get wrong about men
is thinking they’re evil or complicated or commitment-phobes or players. But
most of the time this just isn’t the case. Men usually show you exactly who
they are. They may not necessarily come right out and say the words but you’ll
always see the truth when you can honestly look for it. And if a man does ever
come right out and tell you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, believe
him. Again, this isn’t him performing voodoo trap on you and trying to get you
to like him more or prove your worth by showing what an amazing girlfriend you
would be. If a guy isn’t making it obvious to you that he likes you, it’s
because he doesn’t like you that much. If he isn’t committing to you, it’s
because he doesn’t want to. If he’s treating you like a booty call, it’s
because he doesn’t want a relationship that goes any deeper than that. Don’t
delude yourself or adopt a man-hating attitude. See a situation for what it is,
and accept that men just aren’t that complicated. I’m not blaming the woman,
but I will say we put ourselves through so much unnecessary grief just because
we don’t want to accept that men are actually fairly simple and straightforward
creatures.
COMMENT:
Yes Yhang. I understand completely.
We show women exactly who we are. The truth reveals itself at the right time,
not the time you expect when. We are firm, confident, and considerate in our
words. We mean what we say, we say what we mean. It is simple to understand us.
We feel, understand, appreciate, empathize, and respect every woman we meet in
our life. Yes, we are fairly simple and straightforward. I appreciate your
opinion on this, Yhang. Thank you.. –R.E.DeJoya
God Bless YOU..
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