HAPPY 39TH BDAY ASAWA KO

 Nung mag boyfriend pa lang kau, 

70- 80% pa lang ng pagmamahal ng isang lalake ang kaya nyang ilabas at iparamdam. 

Pero once na magkaanak na sya, 

Dun mo makikita ung 100% na  pag mamahal, pag alaga at pagprotekta nya.

Hindi nya din alam na capable pala sya sa gantong klaseng pag ibig. 

Dalisay ito at totoo.

Tanging anak nya lamang ang makakapag palabas nito.

happy 39th bday sa kamukha ni neya🥰😍😘

Thank you for showing me the meaning of love, guidance, and affection. You are the good in this world. You are the reason I’m starting to see the good in me, too.

"Happy 39th Bday My One&Only

Thank you for being there. Thank you for being present. Thank you for being the ones who stay in a world where everyone leaves.

"Happy 39th Bday My One&Only

YOU ARE ENOUGH

this is your reminder that you in your skin, in your natural state, in simply being are enough.

you don't have to change or shape, you don't have to be perfect pushing away every mistake & blemish & bruise.

you don't have to beat yourself up for mistakes of the past...

for the times you lost your way...

for the way you doubt even when you know doubt is filled with lies.

LOVE

 “We must be rooted in LOVE for this is the most powerful force within us.

So that regardless of what we face,

or what happens to us,

we are grounded in the truth—

that we are loved by God…..

that we are worthy of love,

that we can and will change the world

with the way we care.”

I hope, no matter what darkness you're dragged through, you never lose sight of your brilliance.

Because even if you don't see your light, it's there. Even if you don't feel your heartbeat, it's drumming in your chest. Even if you don't think you can push through, you can - one step, one breath at a time.

I HOPE

 i hope you have the courage to choose yourself over & over.

i hope you have the courage to move forward not backwards.

to choose growth over comfort, to choose possiblity over the past.

i hope you know how worthy you are of everything you've wanted even if an unkind heart has cause you to believe otherwise.

your soft heart deserves to feel loved & chosen not just today but everyday.

i hope you wake up each day feeling hopeful & encouraged knowing that you're so capable of every single thing you want to do big or small.

i hope you remember to think beyond your comfort zone from time to time & never forget the importance of growth.

i hope you remember that progression isn't always easy & sometimes the things that scare you will actually get you a lot closer to where you want to be.

i hope you make the most of each day & know that you are worthy of the life you are gifted, that you are worthy of success & deserve all the triumphs you've worked so hard for & all beautiful things coming your way.

you are born to win & victorious forever.

& the darkness that disturbs your peace of mind, you can defeat it right under your feet.

SOMEONE

 Someone that loves you will put in their best effort to communicate with you.

No matter how poorly worded, or non-sensical, or emotional, or imperfect their attempts may seem, they'll keep trying to sort things out.

They'll keep trying to better understand & be better understood by you.

They'll keep putting in the effort to make things work because they'd rather risk looking stupid for trying than risk losing you.

IMPORTANT CHOICE

 An important choice we can make is to choose to remember the reasons why we committed to this person.

Our relationship will not always be pleasant and there will be times for serious discussions and disagreement.

There will be trying times and even bad times that we will need to work through together.

The key to surviving these times is to remember to be respectful, acknowledge our commitment, and work through whatever is at hand together.

During these times it really helps to remind ourselves of why we chose to love them in the first place.

Love is all about choices. We choose to see the good, ignore the petty, look for what we could do for our partner, and remember why we love our partner.

Choosing to put in the effort to do these things is what love looks like, and with that work comes the wonderful reward of staying in love.

ULAN

 kung paborito mo ang ulan,

malunod man, lagi kang sasamahan.

kulog at kidlat ay sasayawan,

at kung magsawa, handa kang payungan.

kung sa dagat ang ligaya,

gagawan kita ng balsa.

sisisirin ang 'yong kaluluwa.

ano man ang istorya, tanggap kita.

aplaya'y gagawing simbahan

kung ibig ng katahimikan.

mananalangin sa lahat ng durungawan,

ikaw ang parating kahilingan.

at kung pag-ibig naman ang ninanasa,

huwag kang mabahala.

hiniling ko na ito sa mga tala,

kung may susunod pang kabanata

— sa'yo pa rin sana itadhana.

SABI NI NANAY

 Lagi kong bitbit 'yung payo sa akin ni Nanay na kapag daw umuulan o bago pa man magsimulang umambon, dapat ay sikapin kong makauwi kaagad sa bahay. Tahanan ang pinakaligtas at pinaka-kakampi nating lugar.

Nakakatawa, dahil walang nakapagturo sa akin kung saan uuwi kapag nasa loob na mismo ng tahanan ang bagyo. 

| kapag hindi na natin tahanan ang tahanan...

"i will call upon Your name & keep my eyes above the waves. when oceans rise my soul will rest in Your embrace, for i am Yours & You are mine"

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF A PARENT

Breaking the chains of poverty.

Remember your Children are not your Retirement Fund.

Be Financially Independent.. Do not RELY on your children.

Plan for your future and retirement and only have children that you can afford.

Your Children will help you if they really want to (unconditionally).

Do not pressure or give an obligation to your children a responsibility that you yourself are not able to establish.

Let your children have the life that they deserve and do not expect anything in return.

 While our children can help us, it should be done voluntarily and not as an obligation. By then, our children will have their own families to look after. We owe it to ourselves to maintain our DIGNITY despite sickness and old age.  

Remember

As children, you do it out of gratitude not obligation...

As parents, you receive with gratitude rather than entitlement...

Stop the cycle. Stop this toxic Filipino culture.

 As Elon Musk said: “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”

LEARN TO LIVE EACH DAY TO THE FULLEST

 Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present. Learn to live each day to the fullest. Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day. Never regret a day in your life. The best days give us happiness.”

LIFE IS HERE LIFE IS NOW

 “That we can’t dwell on the past and we can’t worry about the future because that is unnecessary stress and that is waste of energy.

So life is here, life is now. We have to stay present and that is how we will be able to deal with all the trials and tribulations of this world.

When you can learn and train yourself to stay in the present moment. Coz when you are present with life, life becomes so much more vibrant, so much more colorful.

So cry if you need to in this present moment if you’re sad be with that sadness don’t deny it.

In this present moment if you are happy celebrate that too but don’t attach. So life is here now but you have to learn how to keep letting go of the past and keep letting go of the worries for the future. You have to stay here now.”

I STAND AS A TESTAMENT OF GOD'S UNFAILING LOVE AND GRACE

 God's grace has truly been unlimited in my life. There was a time when I was lost, consumed by the things of this world, and unfaithful to Him. Yet, through it all, God's faithfulness never wavered. He reached out to me with His consistent saving power, lifting me out of darkness and into His loving light.

Today, I stand as a testament to His unfailing love and grace. No longer am I bound by the limitations of the world; instead, I am empowered and set free by His boundless grace.

As I reflect on my journey, I am reminded of Lamentations 3:22-23: 'The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.' Praise God for His unlimited grace and unchanging faithfulness! 🙌

IKAW LANG

 alam ko,

darating ang panahon

na mawawala rin ang kaba,

mapapalitan ng mga

hindi maipaliwanag na

nadarama.

ang sigurado

ay mapapalitan

ng mga ‘bahala na.’

mawawala na rin

sa makikitid nating paningin

ang ganda ng mga bituin.

mamamatay

ang ‘sanlaksang

tala na pinagagana 

ng mga dagitab

sa pagitan ng ating mga palad.

mawawalan ng bisa ang tula,

kukupas ang mga kanta.

at kung sakaling makalimutan na ng uniberso

na paniwalain tayo sa kapangyarihan ng pag-ibig,

ikaw ang palagi kong aalalahanin.

ikaw,

palagi.

dahil mas masarap ang pag-ibig

na walang ibang dahilan

kundi

ikaw lang.

YULO

Yung nanay parang uhaw sa pera kaya gumagawa ng eksena. 

Yung jowa naman parang uhaw din sa kasikatan kaya gumagawa din ng eksena. 

Parehas sablay eh. Isipin nyo, inagawan nyo parehas ng spotlight yung tao. Wala ni isa sa inyong nagpa kumbaba para bigyan ng chance na mai celebrate nung tao yung bunga ng ilang dekada nyang pinag paguran. Walang nagpaubaya eh. Kase kung talagang mahal nyo yung tao, sana pinagbigyan nyo man lang yung tao na ma enjoy yung pagka panalo nya. Kaso ang dating eh parang parehas gusto ng eksena. 

Sinira nyo yung once in a lifetime moment nung tao eh. Lahat ng Pilipino masaya sa nakamit nya tapos kayong dalawa ang ingay ingay at ang kalat kalat nyo sa internet. 😒