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FAILURE IS A
CHOICE MADE BY THE UNDISCIPLINED
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG
Vic
Conant — December 5, 2009
Failing to meet
your objectives, regardless of what they are, is a choice, because
something else has been given higher priority. If you fail, it is because
you choose to fail.
We call some people
"self-disciplined" and others we call "undisciplined."
And what's fascinating is that one person can be disciplined at one thing
but not at another. I know an extremely successful businesswoman who has
run two different billion-dollar businesses. If you saw her in her business
environment, you would say she was disciplined. However, this same woman
has had an extreme weight problem for as long as I've known her, and so far
she hasn't had discipline in that area of her life, even though she would
identify it as an area of tremendous concern to her.
How can this happen? How can a brilliant
person so strong and disciplined in one area of his or her life be so
undisciplined and unsuccessful in another?
The answer is deceptively simple.
Discipline always involves the act of reaching a goal, and it also reflects
the level of commitment that is attached to the goal. Furthermore, our
various personal commitments will be ranked in the order we consciously, or
more likely unconsciously, believe fit with our life priorities. When goals
are set halfheartedly and they don't reflect our top life priorities, there
should be no surprise when we display low discipline and we fail.
The vast majority of us have no grasp of
what our top life priorities are. And because we aren't conscious of them,
we tend to move them around very fluidly. That's why weight may seem like a
high priority on Monday but be lowered to a secondary importance below
taste enjoyment by Friday. Likewise, fidelity might seem like the highest
priority until temptation comes in our path. In general we allow ourselves
to get in the habit of setting goals for which we are not truly committed,
and then we beat ourselves up when we fail at achieving them. There is a
huge difference between even a 99% commitment and a 100% commitment.
Choosing to be disciplined about something means committing 100% to
reaching the objective.
My great friend Wayne Dyer (author of The
Secrets to Manifesting Your Destiny) is a wonderful example of what it
means to be "truly disciplined." There was a time when Wayne had
run eight miles every day for 21 years in a row without missing a day!
That's over 7,665 days straight running eight miles a day with no
exceptions! I don't know about you, but I'd be overwhelmed with the thought
of attempting that. And yet to Wayne, it was a part of his day — every day
— without exception. Now I think Wayne would admit he isn't disciplined at
everything. But what allowed him to be so disciplined at this?
He simply made running the most, or
certainly one of the most, important activities in his day, every day. The
great thing about this is that you simply don't allow anything to get in
the way of the most important objectives in your day. Everything else takes
a lower priority. All of a sudden reaching the objective becomes easy. You
become — disciplined.
In the case of Wayne, I'm sure that over
the 21-year period there were literally millions of things that he could
have used as an excuse not to run one of those days. But, because it was
one of his top priorities, nothing got in the way of Wayne's running. He
ran when he had a fever, he ran in place on long flights, and during bad
weather he would run up and down the halls of his hotel. That's discipline!
Here's a fun, potentially life-changing
game I'd encourage you to play. Pick out an area of your life that you've
had weak discipline in the past. Set an objective relating to this area.
Now, set that objective as your life's top priority — or at least put it in
the very top few. Then set a minimum time that you will stay committed to this
objective. I'd recommend a minimum of a month, but for this game you could
even choose a week. If you can be disciplined for one week, you can be
disciplined for as long as you choose. Now, this is going to mean
repriori-tizing your time from your normal weekly schedule, but you'll do
it — Why? Because it's your top priority!
While doing this, you're going to
experience an interesting phenomenon. In the past, when you have set
halfhearted objectives, your brilliant mind would start figuring out how to get around the
objective to get you back to your comfort zone. However, now you'll find
when it's your top priority, your mind works only on achieving the
objective and taking you where you really want to go.
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CONVINCE
YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE A WINNER
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG — December 9, 2009
The Winner is always a part of the
Answer. The Loser is always a part of the Problem.
The Winner always has a Problem. The
Loser always has an Excuse.
The Winner says let me do it for you. The
Loser says it’s not my job.
The Winner sees an answer for every
Problem. The Loser is always sees the problem for every Answer.
The Winner says it might be difficult but
it is Possible. The Loser says it might be possible but it is difficult.
A Winner Listens. A Loser waits until it
is his turn to talk.
When a Winner makes mistake he says I was
Wrong. When a Loser makes mistake he says it’s not my Fault.
Winner says I am good but not as good as
I could be. Loser says I am not as bad as other people.
A Winner feels more responsible for more
than his Job. A Loser says I only work there.
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NO EXCUSE
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG — December 22, 2009
Any excuse for non-performance, however
valid, softens the character. It is a sedative against one's own
conscience. When a man uses an excuse, he attempts to convince both himself
and others that unsatisfactory is somehow acceptable. He is perhaps
-unconsciously- attempting to divert attention from performance, the only
thing that counts, to his own want for sympathy. The user is dishonest with
himself as well as with others. No matter good or how valid, the excuse
never changes performance.
The world measures success in terms of
performance alone. No man is remembered in history for what he would have
accomplished. History never asks how hard it was to do the job nor
considers the obstacles that had to be overcome. No man ever performed a
worthwhile task without consciously ignoring many a plausible excuse.
Washington might have reported, “The Delaware was running ice that would
have crushed our boats.” Lincoln might have said, "The people will
simply not support a war to keep the South in the Union." Eisenhower
might have said at Normandy (as the Germans did), "The weather made
amphibious assault impossible."
To use an excuse is a habit. We cannot
have both the performance habit and excuse habit. We all have a supply of
excuses. The more we use them, the lower become our standards, the poorer
our performance. The better we perform, the less plausible our excuses
become.
Next time you want to defend your
slothfulness, say instead (at least to yourself), "No excuse".
Notice the startling effect this will have your self-respect. You will have
recognized your failure. You will have been honest with yourself. You will
be a step closer to the performance.
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EMINENT
SUCCESS
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG — December 23, 2009
"No one ever
attains very eminent success by simply doing what is Required of him; it is
the amount and excellence of what is over And above the required that
determines the greatness of ultimate Distinction."
When an archer misses
the mark, he turns and looks for the fault within Himself. Failure to hit
the bull's-eye is never the fault of the target. To Improve your
aim-improve yourself.
"Excellence can be
attained if you: Care more than others think is wise. Risk more than others
think is safe. Dream more than others think is Practical. Expect more than
others think is possible."
THE
REAL OFW HERO IS ALSO AN INVESTOR IN RP
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG
Hansen Sy - Philippine Daily Inquirer —
March 16, 2010
I REFER TO THE EDITORIAL,
"Passport to prosperity?" (PDI, 10/27/05) While it is true that
working abroad somehow gives us a passport to prosperity, it’s still just
a step closer. I believe that our positive response to Sen. Manuel
Villar’s call for us to go up the next level from OFW to OFI (overseas
Filipino investor) will make prosperity a reality. House bills like that
should be passed expediently.
Many of my friends here in Singapore,
including myself, dream of putting up our own business. We are determined
to help the towns where we come from gererate wealth. Brain drain only
happens when we totally uproot ourselves and never go back. But there are
many of us OFWs who consider this stage of our lives as only a season of
learning and acquiring better skills. We dream of going back and helping
our communities realize their potentials to be economically prosperous.
The question for us is when. When do we go back? Apparently, this becomes
the hardest question everyone of us struggles with. When things become
perfect at home? No, we realize that there is no perfect timing.
So while we make it out here and figure
out how to make it there again, we urge our lawmakers and our rich
countrymen who are capable of creating businesses, to improve our
country’s economy, so that opportunities for employment will be aplenty,
and we would need foreign talents more that we need to export local ones.
And all of us OFWs would go home.
While we are called the new heroes of
our economy, we don’t really feel like it. Once, a Singaporean taxi
driver asked me what I was doing in Singapore. And then he went on to
boast that he’s got a chicken farm in Mindoro even if he’s not a Filipino
or even if he doesn’t have a Filipino wife or family, because he wanted
to help our poor country. He advised me to go back and make our country
wealthier. I may doubt his sincerity or scorn his bragging, but the truth
is, most of us here would really like to go back and help our country
become better. And see ourselves sending money from home to destitute
places in Africa or to other needy places in the world. That makes for
real heroism.
Who does not want to be called a hero?
But most certainly, none of us OFWs feel like one. Those who generate
wealth from our own resources back home are the real heroes. They are the
pillars of our economy. OFWs are here today, gone tomorrow. So, may all
OFWs be OFIs and be a "brain gain" for our beloved country.
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A PERSON WITH SAVINGS CAN WALK TALL
IMG (INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG
A. F. Bannerman —
January 8, 2010
The state of your savings does have a lot to do with how tall
you walk. Your savings affect the way you stand, the way you walk,
the tone of your voice, your physical well-being and your
self-confidence.
A person without savings is always running. He must. He
must take the first job offered, or nearly so. He sits nervously on
life’s chairs because any small emergency throws him into the hands
of others.
Without savings, a person must be too grateful. Gratitude is a
fine thing in its place. But a constant state of gratitude is a
horrible place in which to live.
A man with savings can walk tall. He may appraise
opportunities in a relaxed way, have time for judicious estimates and
not be rushed by economic necessity.
A person with savings can afford to resign from his job if his
principles so dictate. And who can afford to quit is much more useful
to his company, and therefore more readily promoted. He can afford to
give his company the benefit of his most
candid judgments.
A person with savings can afford the wonderful privilege of
being generous in family and neighborhood emergencies. He can take
the level stare of any man... friend, stranger or enemy. That
ability shapes his personality and his character.
The ability to save has nothing to do with the size of income.
Many high-income people spend it all, darting through life like
minnows, But as the dean of American bankers, J.P. Morgan once
advised a young broker:
"Take waste out of your spending; you’ll drive the haste
out of your life."
If you don’t need money for college, a home or retirement,
then save for self-confidence. And with the self-esteem and peace of
mind that comes from having, walk tall through life.
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BUILDING A REAL BUSINESS
IMG (INTERNATIONAL
MARKETING GROUP) BLOG — February 11, 2010
:: NETWORKER VS REAL BUSINESS PERSON ::
Recruit to Sell
vs
Recruit to Educate
Change name brand to hide real value
vs
Brand is the same, actual value
Prices become more expensive compared to buying direct
vs
Price is the same compared to buying direct
With Quota
vs
No Quota
Volume requirement every month to maintain position
vs
No volume requirement. Position is permanent
Sells the dream, car, boat, yacht etc.
vs
Sells reality/mission/crusade
Product Inventory
vs
No Product Inventory
Inventory Problem
vs
No Inventory Problem
Product expires
vs
Product matures with cash benefit
Product value decreases over time
vs
Product value increases over time
Possible Position Reversal
vs
Permanent Position/No Reversal
Buys the position/with Inventory Purchase
vs
Position is Earned - Achieved- Can’t Be Bought
After product is consumed no more value
vs
After purchase the value grows
No Education
vs
Financial Education
Teach you to spend money
vs
Teach you to save money
Train you to become a Salesman
vs
Train you to build a big business
Recruit people by showing huge income
vs
Recruit by showing a system to build a big business
Short Term (Seasonal, What’s Next?)
vs
Long Term/Career (as financial advisor)
Compensation changes all the time; very difficult to understand
vs
Compensation is simple; Clear, easy to understand
Commission is based on equivalent point not based on not actual
amount paid
vs
Commission is based on the actual amount paid
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Are you making money out of the expense of people?
or
Are you making money by helping people save money?
Which person are you?
:: IT IS A FACT THAT ::
NETWORK PRODUCTS ARE EXPENSIVE
VS
PRODUCTS IN RETAIL STORES
Network Toothpaste is more expensive
vs
Colgate
Network Soap is more expensive
vs
Safeguard
Network Shampoo is more expensive
vs
Palmolive / Pantene
Network Vitamins are more expensive
vs
Mercury Drug / Vitamins
Network Deodorant is more expensive
vs
Rexona / Tawas
Network Cloths are more expensive
vs
Sale in SM
Network Shoes are more expensive
vs
Shoes in SM
Network Coffee is more expensive
Vs
Nescafe
Network Tea is more expensive
vs
Lipton
OUR ADVICE:
Buy Cheap and Save Money
A Peso Saved is a Peso Earned
OUR VISION:
To create wealth for families on a grand scale
OUR MISSION:
No Family Left Behind
The acid test is to verify if gold is real.
The acid test for business is the acid question:
“IF I DONT RECRUIT WILL I STILL MAKE MONEY”
If answer is Yes = Real Business
If answer is No = Fake BusinessBottom of
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PERSONAL FINANCIAL PLANNING
IMG
(INTERNATIONAL MARKETING GROUP) BLOG — February 22,
2010
Kabayan,
Kumusta na ang buhay mo sa abroad?
Ilang taon ka na bang nagtratrabaho?
Nabawasan na ba ang mga iniwan mong utang sa Pinas o
nadagdagan pang lalo?
May naipon ka na ba sa ilang taon mong pinaghirapan o walang
natitira sa kinikita mo buwan buwan?
Hanggang kailan mo balak magtrabaho dito? Pag balik mo ba sa
Pinas, may maiuuwi ka bang pera para sa iyong kinabukasan?
Pinaghahandaan mo ba ito?
Nasa sitwasyon ka ba na di mo alam kung paano mo aayusin ang
pamamalakad ng iyong pananalapi? 0 di mo alam kung paano mo
kokontrolin ang pag gastos kahit mag kanda utang ka na? O marami ka
nang salapi pero di mo alam kung paano ito hawakan ng maayos?
Kabayan, kung nasa ganito kang sitwasyon, ibig kitang
imbitahan sa isang LIBRENG SEMINAR TUNGKOL SA PERSONAL FINANCIAL
PLANNING.
Ituturo dito ang pagkakaiba ng pagpapakahirap natin para sa
pagkita ng pera sa perang nagtratrabaho o kumikita ng kusa para sa
atin (working hard for the money vs money working hard for you).
Ituturo din dito ang mga paraan para tayo makalaya sa paghihirap sa
pananalapi (Financial Independence)
Sabi nga, pumupunta tayo sa Doktor para malaman natin ang
problema o tulong para sa kalusugan, sa Abogado, kung tungkol sa
Batas o sa Pari o Pastor para sa ating ispiritwal na pangangailangan.
Pero sa pamamalakad ng ating pananalapi, alam ba natin kung sino ang
dapat lapitan?
Eto Kaibigan ang maaaring matagal mo nang hinahanap na
tulong..
Bakit namin ito ginagawa?... May nag-imbita din sa amin noong
una... Nakinig rin kami sa seminar na katuld nito, natuto at ginagawa
na kung ano man ang aming natutuhan. At ibig rin naming ibahagi kung
ano man ang natutuhan. Sigurado akong hindi ka manghihinayang sa oras
na ilalaan mo para dito.
Salamat,
International Marketing Group
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