INFJ10

“You don’t know this new me; I put my pieces differently.”

“As my room mate attempted to explain to me what I said and meant, one more time, and completely missed the point, I yearned for understanding. I prayed for it, I desire to be heard just once, have my heart purposely understand and validated. Even if they would just try. Not act as if they already knew what I was saying. But listened and contemplated and acknowledged who I am, even if they don’t quite get it, at least I know they heard me.”

“Everyday I want someone to understand or at least try to understand me.”

“If I ever decide to give up on you, understand how much that took out of me. I’m the type to give endless chances, always have your back even when you are wrong, and truly accept you for who you are. When the rest of the world doesn’t want you, I will. So if I gave up on you, understand that it took everything I had left inside of me to leave you, because if I loveyou, and care about you, there isn’t anything on the planet I wouldn’t do for you.”

“If you can’t be kind, be quiet.”

“I know that time is going to help me understand why you are not meant for me. I know that the universe is setting up a plan for me to meet someone, who’s going to fill my life with joy better than you did. I know that few months from now, I will remember you but I will no longer remember the feelings that you gave me.”

“Based in my personality test, I’m: PHELGMATIC. Phlegmatic types are calm, private people who value quiet and patience. These people are accepting, reasonable and tolerant. Though mainly introverts, they are faithful friends and tend to live quiet live seeking a peaceful environment. For these types of people, serenity and consistency is key for success and balance life.”

“INTROVERT: I can convert oxygen into carbon dioxide in just a matter of 1 second.”

“I am nervous, shy, worry-wort. What are my biggest anxiety triggers? The future, comparing myself to others, people’s perception of me, friends/ relationships. Socializing: for example at work, the small talk with customers, what questions I’ll get and if I’ll have the answer.”

“I’m afraid to love You because every time I’ve tried to love, I’ve failed. I worry I won’t be enough to make you stay.”

“I’m the girl you want back when I no longer want you. When you text me and I don’t respond. When you call me and I don’t pick up. When you tell me that you miss me and I don’t feel a thing.”

“Someone gets me: I’m normal, I’m unique, I’m powerful.”

“People don’t understand how stressful it is to explain what’s going on in your head when you don’t even understand it yourself.”

“If your goal in life is to find a BF/GF, your life seems pretty boring. And if you feel sad and incomplete, lovelife is not the solution. You need to be happy by yourself, you need to be a whole person.”

“Am I the only one that feels numbness in this life? It’s like if you don’t have a major passion, something that really feeds your soul, then you simply live bored. Since I discovered writing for example, life seems worth living.”

“Instead of searching for someone who makes you feel complete, find something that makes you feel complete. A hobby. A passion.

“Thank you for letting me understand that it is not easy but it’s not going to be easier if I keep clinging on to what we have, no matter how beautiful it was. Thank you for reminding me that people come and go but life goes on.”

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