Saturday, August 4, 2018

THIS IS HOW TO TREAT A GIRL WHO IS USED TO DISSAPOINTMENT


Treat her with fragile hands. Understand that it is going to take her a while to fully let you into her world. At first, she is going to be wary about handing her heart to someone new. She is going to hesitate to spend time with you, to tell you her secrets, to let you get close. She has been disappointed too many times before, so she is going to want to make sure that you are the real deal before she puts all her faith in you. She is going to be careful, because she has been careless in the past and it only ended in heartache.

Treat her with kindness. Instead of acting like she is some sort of backup plan, place her as a first priority. Show her that you enjoy spending time with her by giving her your all, answer her texts. Ask her out on dates. Keep all of your promises. Make time for her, even if it’s hard.  Never keep her waiting or wondering where you stand. The boys that have disappointed her in the past have left texts unanswered and canceled plans, so don’t follow in their footsteps. Show her that you are different.

Treat her with respect. Respect her body. Respect her time. Respect her privacy. Respect when she asks for a day to herself, free from socializing. Respect when she sits you down and wants to have a talk with you about your relationships. Respect her, no matter the situation, no matter what mood you are in. Take her seriously, even when you think she’s overreacting over something silly. If you act like her emotions are a joke, then she isn’t going to stay with you. She needs someone who respect her thoughts, her opinions, and her boundaries.

Treat her with love. Tell her how much you like being around her. Show her how much you care about her. Make it clear that you are ready to commit to her and leave the single life behind.

Treat her with as much compassion as you can. Because she used to disappointment, and she doesn’t want to go through it again.

-thought catalog

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