JESUS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE

 𝗝𝗲𝘀𝘂𝘀: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝘆, 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵, 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 - 𝗔 𝗛𝗼𝗹𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗧𝗿𝗶𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆 🌟

This Christmas, let's unwrap a three-part series celebrating Jesus as our 'Way', our 'Truth', and our 'Life' in this special season. 🎄

🎁 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝟭: Jesus is the Way:

With the birth of Jesus, the only way has opened to a restored relationship and eternity with God.

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus, let us remember that He is not just a historical figure born in Bethlehem. Just as the Magi sought and found Jesus through the star, we too can encounter the true way to God.

🎁 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝟮: Jesus is the Truth:

Jesus, the Word became flesh, embodies the truth of God's love and the fulfillment of His promises only found in the Bible, the Word of God. 

This Christmas, let us spread the Good News that Jesus is the manifestation of God's Truth. 

🎁 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝟯: Jesus is the Life:

Jesus came to give us abundant and eternal life.

As we gather to celebrate Christmas, let us remember the gracious act of Jesus. He sacrificed His life so that we can have a purposeful life. A gift He offers to all those who believe.

With each part, we're reminded of one unifying verse: "Jesus answered, 'I am the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" 

- John 14:6 🕊️

#JesusOurWay #JesusOurTruth #JesusOurLife

JESUS CHRIST

It’s very easy to say I believe in Jesus Christ….🙂 

But what does it really mean when you say I believe in Jesus Christ? 

Let’s see if check tayo sa 3 na to 🙂

1. You believe the DEITY OF JESUS 🙂 

Divine nature, Jesus is God. 

Jesus when He was on earth He is 100% God and at the same time 100% Man 🙂 

He needs to be a man to die ( kasi a God can’t die diba) and at the same He has to be a God for the resurrection ( kasi only God can conquer death) 

2. You believe WHAT HE DID ON THE CROSS. 

He died for our sins. We are no good in the eyes of God. We are all bound to go to hell. 

For the wages of Sin is death. Someone has to die for us, the Perfect One. He alone can do that. Thats Jesus.  

3. You believe HIS WORDS ( the scripture, the Bible) 

The whole Bible is all about Christ, from Genesis to Revelation 🙂  

When we believe His words…..we obey. This is hard because of our sinful nature, we’re in the flesh but with the help of the Holy Spirit we can. 

We still commit sin but we sin less and less. 

That’s why we need Jesus, when we put our faith in Christ as our Lord and Savior when God looks at us, He will see the righteousness in Christ in us 🙂 

So are Christians righteous? Yes! Only because we have the righteousness of Christ. 

Life is really all about Christ.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

 Tomorrow we are not celebrating the birthdate of our Lord Jesus Christ because He wasn’t born on December 25th. 

What we are celebrating is the “birth” of Jesus Christ. 

The fact that a SAVIOR of humanity was born.

John 3:16  For GOD  so LOVED the world that He gave His ONLY begotten son, that WHOEVER  BELIEVES in Him shall not perish but HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE! 

John 14:16 JESUS answered, I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH and THE LIFE, no one comes to the Father EXCEPT THROUGH ME. 

Jesus is the ONLY WAY, not our good works, not our religion, not our rituals, nothing except through Him. He died and paid for our sins ONCE and FOR ALL. 

Choose Him. Choose Jesus. Not just this season but everyday for the rest of our lives! 

Merry CHRISTmas Everyone. 

With all the Love of Christ for all of you.

MARRIAGE REFLECTION

 MINISTRY VERSUS WIFE (Yonggi Cho's story)

"...After my wife and I were married, I brought her to our apartment, and after about a week, I began to go out on evangelistic preaching missions.

I would preach in my church on Sunday, and then, on Monday, I would go out preaching. I came home only on weekends and brought my laundry to my wife.

This went on for six months while I burned with ambition to become an evangelist.

For a while my wife was very kind. When I came back from my evangelistic campaigns, she would rush out to the door and welcome me. She loved me, and she would cook a good meal for me. But as month after month passed and there was no change in this routine, she became depressed. She wouldn't welcome me. She cried often. Even the meals were not very good. Something was wrong.

At that time, my wife was very shy, because we were newly married. She never said anything to me about what was wrong. I tried to cheer her up by joking and so on, but nothing seemed to help.

Finally, one day, my mother in-law came to me and said, "Yonggi, do you like living with my daughter?"

"Yes, of course," I said.

"Well," she said, "you are going to lose her if you keep treating her this way."

"Why, what do you mean?" I asked, shocked. "I treat her very nicely. I got her this nice apartment, and I make sure she has plenty of food and very good clothes. What more can I do? I am treating her very nicely."

Then my mother in-law looked into my eyes and said, "Son, you don't understand. You didn't bring a 'thing' into your home. You brought a person to your home. A person can't live in an apartment with just rice and clothes and money. She needs love, recognition, fellowship."

I thought about that for a very long time. My immediate reaction was, "That's from the devil! Here I am working for the Lord. Why should she put so many demands on me for affection, care and concern?"

But my wife continued to become more and more depressed, and eventually, some warning signs stirred in my heart. So, I went before the Lord, and I prayed, "Lord, it seems that I am going to have to choose between one of two things - my ministry or my wife. Your glory and my ministry are far more important than my wife. If I need to lose one of them, then I will have to lose my wife, because my ministry means more to me than she does.

God, either correct her or let us be separated. I'd rather live the rest of my life alone and carry on my ministry."

Then the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart, and He said, "No, no, no. You are greatly mistaken in your priorities. So far you have put God first, church second, yourself third, and you are putting your wife last. You have made a grave mistake. Of course, God must be first, but the rest of your priorities need to be arranged. You should come second, and your wife should come third. When you have children, they should come fourth, and then, church should be last."

I thought about that, and I was in great consternation. "This must be an American devil," I said. "We can't accept this kind of thinking in the Orient."

"Oh, no, this is not America, this is my way. God must be first, but you must come second, because you need to live a holy life to carry out this ministry. You are very important. Next, your wife must come right after you. If you ever lose your wife and become divorced, no one will ever listen to you again. Your ministry will be gone. 

You may build a tremendous church, but if your home becomes broken, you will lose your ministry. Having fellowship with your wife is more important than building a church, because the whole church is dependent on your home life. 

You will bring more disgrace to the ministry by being divorced than all the other benefits you might otherwise bring. Also, all Christians will be looking at your children. If your children become rebellious and get into trouble, like the prodigal son, who is going to listen to you? Your primary ministry should be to your children. Your children should be the number one.#copied

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Dear Minister of God, did you pick something? Let your life be aligned. Put God first✓ 

then Your Life(holiness)✓ 

then Your wife/husband ✓ 

then Your Children✓ 

then ministry✓

May God help us in Jesus name.

ctto..

FATHERHOOD AND LOVE

"Some people feel that you can't compare the love a mother has for her child to the love a father could feel for him." They say that a woman's life changes, her body changes, and she sacrifices every little nutrient she has, to offer to the baby. What they don't understand is that a mother and father's type of love can be different, never inferior. Those people don't understand that the man's body also transforms, and his mind will never be the same again. They do not understand that, while the mother is devoted 24/7 to taking care of her son and helping him survive, the father is devoted in body and soul in turn, to help them both so that, in this struggle, they do not lack anything. The mother starts her battle: to be the best mom in the world. Father starts his battle - to take care of them. And so begin the broad working days, nights at night looking for better alternatives to build a better future, mental and even physical absences, betting everything to work, because deep down you know that, at that time, it is the best way she finds to combat her fears. Because being a parent entails the same goal: the mother cares eternally for her children, and the father cares eternally for his family. Some people don't understand that, within parenthood, there is no competition. There is only love and teamwork."

~ Credits to Happy Living

MOTHER

 To my children who are my world

I wish you understood that your mother is everything you are , only a few years older.

A mother dries your tears and teaches you courage.

But when she is alone she cries and is more afraid than you are.

A mother teaches you to love, to talk and much more.

But much she learns from you.

A mother even though she always seems strong is not invincible, she makes mistakes just like you.

It is impossible not to fail but you grow and learn and even a mother keeps learning until the last day of her life.

A mother is always there for you even when you don't want to be because you are angry at the whole world.

A mother shows you the way and supports you but believe me, I fall and get up more often than you think.

A mother is like you, fragile, sweet, with much to learn and teach.

A mother is everything you are with a few more years.

Love her and protect her as she does you.

Remember every day of your life that you are to your mother her life!!!

Art: unknown

GOD IS FAITHFUL

 "Our fight for spiritual growth will often be slow and painful. Whenever you fail—as you often will—remember that even Paul, the renowned apostle, fought this long and hard battle"

"God has given weapons to keep the fight, and He will complete the work He has started in us.

Be patient, for He is faithful."

ABOUT MARRIAGE

DON'T MARRY A MAN LIVING IN A FAMILY HOUSE.

My Sister, don't marry a Man Living in a Family House, you will never enjoy that Marriage.

I may sound Stoopid and senseless but believe me the day you're married into a family house you'll remember this post. Even flies in the house will abuse you including your in-laws.

Untill you find yourself in this situation you may not understand this post. 

Sister, if a man does not have money to rent atleast one room apartment, then you guys have no business getting married.

How will you guys now cope with family expenses?

Don't be deceived, marriage needs money.

The day your husband marry you into family house, both of you have lost RESPECT and dignity in that family.

Even if it’s one room apartment it will be much more better than living in a family house, for peace to reign.

If a man still lives in his parents house, tell him to get an apartment before paying your BRIDE PRICE. Statistics shows that, the wives end up unhappy, caged and frustrated.

No matter how good your in-laws are, pray you don't have any reason to live with them. They will show you shege. It's a matter of TIME. Just give them TIME.

Visit them, let them visit you.

Your parents in-law maybe good but believe me your Co-Wives, brothers and sisters in-law will fight you. Some may even go diabolical to make sure you're 7feet down.

Dear Men, leaving a family house does not mean neglecting your parents and your responsibility, it means starting your own life, living a private life and having a peaceful home. 

I repeat, Please don't marry a man living in a family house, you will never enjoy that marriage to its fullest. 

LADY T

STREET PROPHETESS

DIOS AMA

 

Dios Ama, salamat po sa Inyong pagtugon sa tuwing ako'y nananalangin🙏

PAG ASA AT KAPAYAPAAN

Panginoon, maraming salamat po sa pag-asa at kapayapaan na ibinibigay Ninyo sa amin.

SA HIRAP AT GINHAWA

Salamat po, Panginoong Dios, sa lahat ng biyaya na ibinibigay mo sa amin. Pupurihin ko po Kayo sa hirap at ginhawa.

MY FUTURE PRAYER FOR MY DAUGHTER

wherever the journey in life may take you, i pray you'll always be safe. don't let troubles bring you down. don't let life's obstacles keep you from trying. don't let your fears keep you from dreaming. don't give up for any reason. believe in yourself. you are stronger than you think. 🙏🙏

PANALANGIN

Ama, maraming salamat po sa inyong kabutihan at katapatan sa akin. Tulungan N’yo po akong manatili sa Inyo.

PANALANGIN

Dios na Mapagmahal, tulungan Mo po akong manalig na alam mo ang pinakamabuti para sa amin.

KAGINHAWAAN SA GITNA NG PAGSUBOK

 𝑲𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒉𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒂𝒏

Basahin: 2 Corinto 1:3–8

3 𝘗𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘋𝘪𝘰𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘈𝘮𝘢 𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘗𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘰𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘑𝘦𝘴𝘶-𝘊𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘰. 𝘚𝘪𝘺𝘢ʼ𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘈𝘮𝘢 𝘢𝘵 𝘋𝘪𝘰𝘴 𝘯𝘢 𝘭𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘢𝘨𝘱𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘴 𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘣. 

4 𝘗𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘴 𝘯𝘪𝘺𝘢 𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘣 𝘴𝘢 𝘭𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘢𝘨𝘩𝘪𝘩𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘱, 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘢 𝘴𝘢 𝘱𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘯 𝘯𝘨 𝘬𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘴𝘢𝘯 𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘣 𝘯𝘢 𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘢𝘺 𝘴𝘢 𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯 𝘯𝘨 𝘋𝘪𝘰𝘴 𝘢𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘯 𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘣 𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘢𝘨𝘩𝘪𝘩𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘱.

Minsan, nang binisita ako ng anak kong si Hayley, nakita ko ang aking tatlong taong gulang na apo na si Callum. Nakasuot si Callum ng tinatawag na “bawal kamutin,” ito ay damit na may mahabang manggas. Ang aking apo ay may sakit na tinatawag na 𝘦𝘤𝘻𝘦𝘮𝘢, isang sakit sa balat na makati, mahapdi at maaring magdulot ng sugat. Ang “bawal kamutin” na damit ang pumipigil kay Callum sa pagkamot at pagsugat ng kanyang balat.

Makalipas ang pitong buwan, nagkaroon din ng 𝘦𝘤𝘻𝘦𝘮𝘢 si Hayley “Ngayon, alam ko na ang pakiramdam ni Callum. Dapat siguro magsuot na din ako ng “bawal kamutin” sabi ni Hayley.

Nagpaalala sa akin ang sitwasyon ni Hayley ng sinasabi sa 2 Corinto 1:3-5, kung saan sinabi ni Apostol Pablo, “Pinalalakas niya ang ating loob sa lahat ng ating paghihirap, para sa pamamagitan ng kalakasan ng loob na ibinigay sa atin ng Dios ay mapalakas din natin ang loob ng ibang naghihirap. Sapagkat kung gaano karami ang mga paghihirap natin dahil kay Cristo, ganoon din karaming beses niyang pinalalakas ang ating loob.”

Minsan, ipinapahintulot ng Dios na dumanas tayo ng mga pagsubok. Tinuturuan Niya tayong dumanas ng mga paghihirap upang pahalagahan natin ang pinakadakilang paghihirap na naranasan ni Jesus upang iligtas tayo sa ating mga kasalanan, doon sa krus. Nawa’y isipin natin kung kanino pa tayo makakapagbigay ng malasakit kung paanong pinagmalasakitan tayo ng Dios.

𝑷𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒐𝒐𝒏, 𝒃𝒊𝒈𝒚𝒂𝒏 𝑵𝒊𝒏𝒚𝒐 𝒏𝒂𝒘𝒂 𝒌𝒂𝒎𝒊 𝒏𝒈 𝒌𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒉𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒂𝒏 𝒔𝒂 𝒈𝒊𝒕𝒏𝒂 𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒈𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒈𝒔𝒖𝒃𝒐𝒌 𝒏𝒂 𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒈𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒂𝒏𝒂𝒏.

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MY REALIZATIONS ABOUT GETTING STARTED

You only need ONE thing to get started. One smile can start a friendship. One hand can lift a soul. One candle can wipe out darkness. One word, one child, one teacher, one pen and one book can change the world. Be that ONE.

2) You don’t have to be smarter than the rest. You just need to be more disciplined than the rest and get started.  

3) Conquer yourself. Your success or failure in life or at work isn’t about other people. It’s your procrastination and excuses. Success happens when you grow yourself, not outgrow others. Winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners.

4) Nothing changes if nothing changes. When you change how you see things, both you and the things you see change.  You see the world what you carry in your heart.

5) Every teacher once was a student. Every winner once was a loser. Every expert once was a beginner. Small steps taken every day leads you to your success.

6) Perseverance is the multiplier of Talent and Potential. Success is not about who has more talent, but who is hungrier. A river cuts through a rock not because of its power, but its persistence. You can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, persistence, and the courage to face your fears.

7) Stress comes from ignoring things that you should not be ignoring. Break down the task and start small. A journey of 1000 miles start with one step. Don't wait to be in the mood to do a certain task. Motivation follows action. Get started, and you'll find your motivation will follows. Don't worry about the darkness when you take that first step, for that is when the stars shine brightest.

8)You can become a person of value in a matter of months. Every mountain top is within your reach if you keep climbing. If you aren’t winning, you must be learning.

9) Once you start, no matter how long you have travelled in the wrong direction, you can always turn around. When you can’t change a situation, change yourself. Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change.

10) Risk is better than regret. Take that first step. The biggest risk is not getting started. If you want something you’ve never had, then you must do something you’ve never done. 

Don’t procrastinate. Take that first step. 

Written By

Cedric Ng

NEYA 2ND BDAY

 Happy 2nd Birthday my Baby NEYA Cabrera Sarmiento🥰

Time flies so fast and now you're turning 2 year old😇🥺💕

I wish and pray for your good health and hope that you will grow up according to God's plan. We're so blessed to have you NEYA. Thank you for making us happy every day. May God continue to guide and protect you always😍🙏

I know you won't be able to read and understand this message right now but then I'd still post on my wall of showing how blessed and lucky I am for having such wonderful Daughter like you. We love you so much 😘👩‍👦

Thank you for coming to our life baby iloveyousoomuch💕😘🥺😘

HAPPY 2ND BDAY NEYA

 I love you so much my dearest. Time flew so fast and now you're 2 year old already. Always remember that Daddy will always be your number 1 fan and support in everything you aim in life. I'll love you a bit more every day for my heart beats after yours. A blessed birthday to you my Neya♥️

love,

daddyNestor

DADDY'S LOVELETTER TO NEYA

 Dear Neya,

❤️❤️😇😇

for my daughter😘you are the source of my happiness. you are the reason why i smile ☺️ and i'm thankful to our God for giving you to me .. You are the one who complete my Life. Always remember that i Love you always❤️ I may not be the best father in the world but I promise I will always keep being better., I will always protect you and give you the best that i can. i will provide everything you need 😘 

No messages can express 

how much I LOVE YOU! 🥰

Just continue being smart,loving & sweet.

May God guide you and protect you always.

Love you lots ❤️😘🥰

📸❤️

DaddyNestor

NEYA @ 2

 Two years ago, i gave birth to this Precious Child..

Name: Neya Cabrera Sarmiento

Date of Birth: 27 October 2021 via Normal Delivery @ Valenzuela Medical Center

Time of Birth 2:02am

I PRAY MY DAUGHTER

 I pray my daughter is stronger than me. I pray she doesn’t accept things i’ve accepted. I pray she knows when to fight for something/someone and when to walk away. I pray she never feels abandoned, unloved, and unappreciated. I pray she knows her worth. I pray she knows how special she is even if I’m the only one assuring her. I pray she knows that no matter what she always has me rather it’s physically or spiritually. My precious baby girl, I pray she’s so much better than me.❣️

DO NOT FORCE THEM TO SHARE

Growing up lumaki ako sa perspective na dapat ang bata marunong mag-share, na kapag di sya nag-share madamot sya, na kapag di sya nag-sheshare di naturuan ng magulang. 

Ganyan din ba perspective nyo mga Inay? 

As I read yung book na “No Drama Discipline” by Daniel Siegel, the more I understand yung mga matatagal ko ng “whys” pagdating sa parenting and discipline. May mga “myth” akong nabasag at lalong na-open yung mata ko sa reality ng growth and development ng mga bata. 

We can’t force them to share because their brain is not fully developed yet. Especially sa maliliit na bata, lower part ng brain palang nila ang nagdedevelop. Para mas magets nyo i-short cut ko: 

📍LOWER BRAIN 

✅breathing 

✅anger 

✅fear

✅blinking 

📍UPPER BRAIN 

✅planning 

✅thinking

✅imagining 

So ibig sabihin basic functions lang ang nasa lower brain. Sa upper brain naman andun na yung more sophisticated and complex thinking pati mga emotional and relational skills. 

The upper brain takes time to develop. Research and study shows na by mid 20s fully nadedevelop ang upper part ng brain natin. 

So di pala talaga makatarungan kung papagalitan, papaluin at paparusahan ang bata kapag di sya nag-sheshare. 

Hindi sya madamot, hindi lang kaya pa ng brain nya. 

Hindi ka walang kwentang magulang, hindi palang fully developed ang brain nya. 

Hindi siya spoiled or bad kid, growing lang talaga ang brain nya. 

Now the question is, ganun naman pala, e di wag ng turuan kasi di pa kaya. 

My answer is NO. We will teach them (though modeling) but we will not force them. That’s two different things. 

Ofcourse there are times that they will share, may mga times na hindi, so we need to manage our expectations. 

Itong development ng lower and upper brain din ang dahilan kung bakit laging nag-aaway ang mga maliliit nating mga anak 😂 Adult nga especially mag-asawa madalas pa ding mag-away kahit fully developed na ang brain e. Hehe though ibang usapan yun.  Hehe

Kaya we need a lot of patience and grace and even wisdom talaga as we discern and teach and nurture our kids. Making sure that we are creating an environment where they can grow and mature as we lovingly teach them skills that they will need in this life. 

Sabi nga sa Proverbs 22:6, 

“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” 

Still, kahit hindi pa sila developmentally ready, always ready naman tayo to model the characters that we want them to have. Remember, more is caught than taught. We will not force them, but we will try our best to inspire and influence them. ♥️

PARENTING TIPS

Ito yung anak naming lagi kong napagbabantaan 😅😂

You know what I mean mga Inay 😜

“Pag di mo inubos yan di na kita bibigyan next time”

“Pag di ka pa huminto Grace papaluin na kita” 

“No bedtime stories if you won’t cooperate” 

Yung iba satin mahilig pang mandamay ng iba tao 😅 

“Sumbong kita sa pulis!” 

“Sumbong kita kay Pastor!”

“Hala ka andyan na mumu!” 

“Papakakain kita sa monster!” 

Most of the time nakakaubos na talaga ng pasensya. Lalo pag paulit-ulit tapos madami ka ng anak 😂 Ang hirap maging kalmado. Ang default natin laging malaki mata, mataas na boses at mga gestures na talagang namang hindi pleasing sa mata ng mga anak natin. 

Ofcourse we don’t want to just please them, we need to be tough and firm but it doesn’t mean that we can’t do it calmly and nicely. 

Yes! I heard you. Mahirap maging nice kapag matigas talaga ulo 😅 I’ve been there. Sa tatlong anak ko napakadami ko ng learning curves, teaching moments and mga “golden learnings” along the way. 

Here’s what I’ve learned na masasabi kong proven and effective: 

✅Ibahin ang background music sa isip mo. Nakakatawa mang isipin pero most of the time “shark music” or “horror music” yung nasa isip natin. Try nating gawing comic or calm yung isipin nating music. Siguradong mag-iiba tono at delivery natin. 

✅Focus on the way we interact with our kids. Let’s ask ourselves, kung tayo ang nasa sapatos nila, talaga bang mapapasunod tayo or matatakot lang tayo? Mapipilitan nalang na tayo sumunod or buong puso tayong susunod dahil nagets natin “why” we need to obey? 

✅Wag mo punuin ang plate mo. Most of the time if we are too consumed by work and other things, parang nagiging burden or task nalang sa atin ang parenting. We don’t get to enjoy every single moment kasi marami tayong iniisip at marami tayong ginagawa. Para tayong laging nagmamadali kaya wala tayong time to explain thoroughly the “whys” in every command. Basta gusto natin sumunod lang sila. Period. Kaya ending, they obey blindly, without understanding the “why” so ang mangyayari uulit lang ng uulit. Walang learning. Hindi effective ang discipline. 

 ✅Connect first. Grow your relationship with you child and prioritize it above all else (syempre una si hubby/wifey). Alam nyo bang mas sumusunod ang bagets if they feel connected to us? When we engage them in a pleasant and playful way, mas nakikipag-cooperate sila. 

✅The “how” matters. 

“Get in bed now or you won’t get any stories.” 

or 

“If you get in bed now, we’ll have time to read. But if you don’t get in bed right away, we’ll run out of time and have to skip reading stories.”

O diba? Ibang-iba yung feel nung pangalawa. 

Both set a boundary. 

Both deliver the same request. 

But they feel completely different. 

Most of the time andun tayo sa “shortcut” and “instant” e. Kasi we’re thinking na may bukas pa naman or may ibang opportunity pa para magpaliwanag at maging kalmado. 

But no, that’s what “intentional parenting” means. You live with urgency knowing that parenting and everything is momentary. And because we have that mindset, nagiging intentional tayo sa lahat ng bagay. 

Tandaan, the “how” determines what our children feel about us and themselves. Sa ganitong paraan din nila natututunang makitungo sa iba. Pag lagi tayong tunog demanding, nananakot, laging galit or iritado, isang araw ganun din sila makipag-interact at communicate sa iba. 

We can be much more effective disciplinarians if our “how” is respectful, calm and playful. It will make a BIG difference. Worth it syang effortan mga Inay. Promise! 

Again. 

Connect first. 

Explain the “why”. 

Focus on the “how”.

THE SHORTNESS OF LIFE

Isang araw lilingon tayo at iba na. 

Malalaki na mga anak natin. 

Independent na sila. 

Kaya na nilang pumili ng sarili nilang choice at panindigan kung anuman yun. 

Kaya na nilang harapin ang hamon ng mundo. 

Kaya na nilang wala tayo sa tabi nila. 

Kaya na nilang gawin anuman ang maibigan nila. 

Kaya na nilang alagaan at ipagtanggol mga sarili nila. 

Sana pag dumating yung time na lumingon tayo at nagiba na sila, wala tayong regrets. 

Wala tayong “sana pala”. 

Sana fulfilled tayo knowing that we did our very best (kahit hindi tayo perfect). 

Sana mapapangiti tayo at masasabing nasulit natin ang bawat season ng pagiging bata nila at pagiging magulang natin. 

Parenting is momentary. 

Life is short. 

Focus on WHAT truly matters.

FACTS ABOUT APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO

HO𝑊 𝐷𝐼𝐷 𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝐶𝑂𝑀𝐸 𝐴𝑁 𝐴𝑃𝑂𝑆𝑇𝐿𝐸?

𝙊𝙣 𝙅𝙖𝙣𝙪𝙖𝙧𝙮 12, 1986

𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙈𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙇𝙤𝙧𝙙 𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙣 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙥𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙣 𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙖𝙨 

𝘾𝙝𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙡𝙚.

𝙁𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙣, 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙈𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙖 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙅𝙪𝙣𝙚 1988 𝙖𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙖 𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙇𝙤𝙧𝙙 𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙖 𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙛𝙞𝙘 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙙 Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries 

𝑊𝐻𝐴𝑇 𝐼𝑆 𝑇𝐻𝐸 𝑀𝐴𝑁𝐷𝐴𝑇𝐸 𝑂𝐹 𝑀𝐴𝑁 𝑂𝐹 𝐺𝑂𝐷?

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙘𝙝𝙪𝙧𝙘𝙝 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙅𝙚𝙨𝙪𝙨.

𝙏𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙮 𝙂𝙤𝙙, 𝙞𝙣 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙞𝙜𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙪𝙥 𝙖 𝙁𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙃𝙞𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙧𝙚𝙫𝙞𝙫𝙖𝙡 𝙪𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙝𝙪𝙧𝙘𝙝 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙃𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙞𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙞𝙢:

“𝑆𝑜𝑛, 𝑏𝑢𝑖𝑙𝑑 𝑀𝑒 𝑎 𝑡𝑟𝑢𝑒 𝐶ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑐ℎ, 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑐ℎ 𝑀𝑦 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑀𝑒, 𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑀𝑒, 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝 𝑀𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑜𝑏𝑒𝑦 𝑀𝑒, 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑐ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑀𝑒, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑎 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝐶ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑐ℎ 𝑡𝑜 𝑀𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝑀𝑦 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔."

𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙛 “𝙇𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙇𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙅𝙚𝙨𝙪𝙨" 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙞𝙨 35 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙂𝙤𝙙, 𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙. 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙮.

WHO IS APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO

Apostle Renato D. Carillo, the Man of God from the Philippines, is an end-time Prophet and Apostle ordained by God in our time and generation and was sent to bring salvation to the lost souls; healing to all the sick and afflicted; absolute freedom to those who are bound by evil spirits; prosperity to those who are poor; and Apostolic Revival unto Perfection - LIVING LIKE JESUS to the Church around the world.

His Ministry, Touching The World, The Man of God was born on December 17,1958 in Quezon City, Philippines but his life took on a completely significant meaning when he received Jesus Christ as his Lord and personal Savior on January 12,1986. From that moment of his salvation, his life has been fully dedicated to God.

From fifteen (15) members, it has steadily increased to hundreds, to thousands, and to thousands upon thousands as he preached powerful, straightforward, and uncompromising message of salvation, healing, deliverance, blessing and Apostolic Revival with the manifestation of God's amazing power and glory! Men and women, old and young alike experienced the compelling love and grace of God as he holds ORAS NG HIMALA Miracle After Miracle Explosion and the LIVING LIKE JESUS Conferences in various churches, gymnasiums, open-air auditoriums, houses, restaurants schools, jails, rehabilitation centers, offices and even at the camps of Philippine National Police and the Armed Forces of the Philippines. He also shared God's love in different occasions such as weddings, birthdays, child dedications house and business dedications, and even funerals. The sick and the afflicted were gloriously healed! The oppressed, abandoned, broken-hearted, hopeless, and bound with sins were changed! And the Church was truly blessed and revived! Sometime in June 1988 while he was praying, he received a specific MANDATE from the Lord. God in His sovereign will and infinite wisdom raised up a Filipino man born from His heart to bring revival unto perfection to the church all over the world. And Jesus said to him: "Son, build Me a true Church. Teach My people to love Me, serve Me, worship Me and obey Me. Teach them to live like Me, and present a perfect Church to Me in My coming.".

Impelled by his fervent love to God and great burden for souls he immediately obeyed God and left his business and extravagant life. With mediocre beginning, he pioneered Jesus Is Our Shield Worldwide Ministries on the street. In his early years of ministry he faced tremendous oppositions, accusations and persecutions but he remained steadfast and faithful to the mandate and God gave him victory against all odds! The impact of his ministry spread throughout the nation and invaded nations! And in just two (3) decades he has successfully established hundreds of chapters nationwide and abroad with millions of LIVING LIKE JESUS congregations! His life has been sacrificially dedicated in training and spiritually equipping thousands of Pastors full-time workers and even the young people and the congregations to reach the whole world for Christ with the demonstration of supernatural gift of God's power and glory.

His teachings have also blessed millions upon millions of lives all over the world through "ORAS NG HIMALA" radio, television, cable television programs, the internet broadcasts the LIVING LIKE JESUS Satellite Network (LSN), and the audio-video recordings wherein God's awesome glory and remarkable signs, wonders, and miracles are taking place. He has authored several life-changing and soul-enriching books, booklets, magazines and pamphlets, translated in different languages. He also has the Anointed Prayer Cloths, wrapped with God's tremendous power through prayer and fasting which brought powerful testimonies of all kinds of miracles. His ministry is also engaged in "MISSION OF LOVE - Love In Action" a crisis relief, feeding and clothing program which reaches out innumerable precious souls living in desperate conditions.

Through the supernatural works of God in the life of the Man of God, countless precious souls have graciously thanked God. Numerous prayer requests from different races were brought to him through long distance calls, text messages, snail mails, and e-mails, and all of God's answers to their prayers have been frequently resounded. As crowd had chased and touched Jesus during His earthly ministry expecting various miracles to happen, the same experience is taking place in the life of the Man of God. People from all walks of life chase after him during every service at the ministry's main church and in every place he visits asking him for prayers and even for blessings and anointing.

Having a father's heart, he has lovingly been a great comforter and counselor for several ministers, church workers, and congregations from various fellowships all over the world and they gladly testified on how their lives were changed as they heard the powerful revelations and experienced the awesome miracles from God.

NEYA 1 YEAR AND 10 MONTHS

 Dear Anak,

Hindi kita ikukumpara sa ibang bata. 

Hindi ako maiinggit sa meron sila na wala ka.

Hindi ako magagalit kung hindi mo pa kaya.

Hindi ako manghihinayang sa bagay na hindi mo nagagawa.

Hindi ako magsasawang ipagmalaki ang angking mong talino at ganda.

At lalong hindi ako titigil na ipagtanggol ka sa pagkukumpara ng iba.

Dahil UNIQUE ka. Iba ka at iba sila. ❤️

Happy 1 year & 10 months old Anak♥️

NEYA 1 YEAR AND 10 MONTHS

 Earlier doesn’t always mean better.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

Her kid walked at one year, yours walked at eighteen months, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣

Her kid potty-trained at two years old, yours didn't potty-train until four years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣

Her kid recognized all his letters and numbers before pre-school, yours had no interest until almost four, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣

Her kid was sleeping through the night by three months, yours wasn’t sleeping through the night until two years old, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 it doesn’t matter.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

Because reaching developmental milestones early means 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 in the long run.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

Because a college professor won’t wonder how old her students were when they could count to one hundred or spell their names.⁣⁣

And no one will know or care if the Harvard graduate or the CEO had a pacifier or didn't potty-train until five years old.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

What matters most is the whole child,⁣⁣

who 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are,⁣⁣

and how kind 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 are⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

So let the pressure go,⁣⁣

and let your kids be kids.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

Don’t rush them through their childhoods,⁣⁣

and make them miss out⁣⁣

because they’re too busy meeting milestone after milestone.⁣⁣

 ⁣⁣

Besides, earlier doesn’t always mean better.

𝘐𝘵 just means earlier.

Happy 1 year & 10 months old Anak♥️

YOU WILL BE WITH ME IN PARADISE

 Jesus said, “Assuredly, I say to you, today you will be with Me in paradise.” - John19:25-27

Jesus spoke these words to a criminal who confessed that he is a sinner and believed that Jesus is the Lord and Savior.

A criminal was able to go to Heaven even though he didn’t went through the tradition of having a holy communion, an ash in the forehead, confession of sins to any religious man, baptized in water, or signed a religious membership form He is a sinful man who never had a chance to do good to be saved, his only credential and background was that he used to be a criminal which is the reason he was crucified to death. 

And yet the Lord gave him an assurance that he will enter heaven. 

What did the criminal do to have the assurance to be where Jesus is?

1. He confessed that he is a sinful man in full humility. (Luke 23:40-41

2. He believed that Jesus is the Son of God and the Messiah. (Luke 23:42)

3. He entrusted his soul to Jesus. (Luke 23:42)

- Apostle Renato D. Carillo

LET US CARE FOR OUR MOTHERS

 Why does Jesus want us to care for our mothers?

Before Jesus breathed His last, He ensured that Mary will not be neglected the reason Jesus relied her on His beloved servant, John the Beloved. After that scene, Mary was never alone but she went with John, who treated her as his own mother and Mary treated him as her son for that time Mary was already widowed and Jesus didn’t want Mary to be neglected.

Jesus is the creator of Mary and all mothers. He wants us to understand the sacrifices of our mother for us to be brought out into this world. For mothers are irreplaceable, and God never makes a mistake in choosing a vessel for one to be born. Mothers are chosen and handpicked by God given to us. So we must love, honor, respect, and obey them. It is the key to have a long, satisfied, blessed, prosperous and God-pleasing life. (Ephesians 6:1-3)

- Apostle Renato D. Carillo

CROSS REDEEMED

May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world is crucified to me and I to the world. (Galatians 6:14 NCB)

The world tells us that wealth, fame, and power are the things we must take pride in. But the Bible tells us otherwise: to make the cross our pride. But why? Why should the very symbol of shame be our pride? Because it is not just any cross we boast of. We boast in the cross of Christ. We boast in what Christ has done—and suffered—for us. We boast in His love and His grace, so unfathomable and so undeserved. We boast in His gift of salvation, of life eternal. But it doesn’t end there. Accepting the benefits of the cross requires that we share in His sufferings... that we die to ourselves and be crucified with Him.

BUMUKOD NA KAYO

kung mababasa mo to at may sarili ka nang pamilyang binubuo, 

Sign mo na to..

“BUMUKOD NA KAYO!”

NAPAKASARAP AT NAPAKASAYA sa pakiramdam nang nakabukod!

Ok lang kahit konti pa lang gamit. 

Ganun tlga sa umpisa.

Mahirap, oo. 

kc wala ka nang ibang aasahan kungdi kayo2 na lang.

Wala ka nang katuwang sa pag aalaga sa mga anak mo.

Ung pera nyo dapat tipirin kung mag uupa na kau. 

Pero sa bawat hirap naman andun ung pagkatuto at pagiging mas matatag.

Maniwala ka, mas masarap yung naka bukod. 

Malaya kang gawin laht ng gusto mo,

Wala kang pakikisamahan,

At nakakapag desisyon kayo ng walang 

kinoconsider na ibang tao.

MAS MAG MAMATURE KAYO BILANG PAMILYA KUNG NAKABUKOD KAYO!

Kaya sige na.

don't be afraid to start over.

Isa ito sa pinakamagandang desisyong magagawa nyo bilang mag asawa at bilang isang pamilya.

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and the two shall become one flesh” (Gen 2:24)

CHILDREN ARE 800 PERCENT WORSE AROUND THEIR MOTHER

Did you know that children can also have a bad day? And their only way to unwind is by releasing their tantrum and temper to their mother. 

"A study by the University of Washington’s Department of Psychology found that children are 800% worse around their mothers. The study indicated that observing children’s behavior at the entrance of their mothers in the room showed changes for the worse, drastically and rapidly.

Child psychologists concluded that mothers are the safety bubble of a child’s life when she is around. Children know they are safe, and they can be or do anything they want because mom will keep them safe."

Dear mothers,

You are their safe place.

You are a garbage disposal of unpleasant feelings and emotions.

If they have been holding it together for a whole day, in an unpleasant situation, the second they see you, they know it's time they can finally let it go.

So calm down when you find yourself wondering why does my child behave for everyone but me, it is because you have the privilege of being his mother and are doing an excellent job.

NANAY ELSA

To Nanay, who listens to our stories…

To Mama, who dreams for our future…

To Ima, who remembers our milestones …

To Mommy, who cheers us in our lonely days…

To Inay, who sacrifices her wants for our needs…

We can’t let this day pass without letting you know that you matter and everything you do is appreciated, even if we can’t show it sometimes. 

Words will never be enough to express how grateful we are, but may our prayers for abundance, protection, strength, and wisdom be enough to make your day extra special.

Happy Mother’s Day! 🤰👩👵

LORD THANK YOU

😘😘😘 Thank you, Lord. In You we find peace and unshakeable hope. 💙🙏🏽

HAPPY FATHERS DAY

 dear my husband,

thank you for taking care of me & protecting me when i need it most.

thank you for being by my side through my mood swings & putting up with me.

thank you for spoiling me when i'm hungry.

thank you for being aware of the things i need.

most of all, thank you for being my child's father.

"Happy Father's Day"

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

😘 Happiest Father's Day to the Father of my Child 😘

MOTHERHOOD

 Motherhood is a deeply rewarding and challenging journey that involves nurturing, protecting, and guiding a child towards adulthood. It requires selflessness, patience, and unconditional love as a mother navigates through the ups and downs of parenting. From the moment a child is born, a mother's role in their life becomes significant, shaping their personality, character, and future. While motherhood can bring immense joy and fulfillment, it also comes with its own set of demands, sacrifices, and responsibilities. However, the unconditional love and bond shared between a mother and her child makes all the challenges and sacrifices worthwhile.

NANAY'S LIFE

 Ang kalat ng bahay.

Negative vibes : NAKAKAPAGOD NA SOBRA

Positive vibes : Thank you Lord, makalat ang bahay, magulo etc. It means I have an active family member.

Maingay, makulit, malikot na bata.

Negative vibes : NAKAKAPAGOD NAAAA, nakakarindi, etc.

Positive vibes : Thak you Lord for having an healthy and active kid.

Luto, laba, linis.

Negative vibes : Nakakapagod na, paulit ulit na routine!

Positive vibes : Thank you Lord, I have a family to serve with, I have a roof na natutuluyan, I have food on our table at hindi na maglilimos to have that one.

Always turn your frustrations into appreciation, Always believe na there is at least 1% good in any bad situation. If you feel so stress just take a deep breath and shout WOAAAHH as an exhale, And always start your day with a prayer..

MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

 MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES

Ladies alam nyo ba na men are visual creatures? That’s how they’re created. Just the sight of a woman’s body na stimulate na sila. Unlike us women, kelangan na I-touch tayo to turn us on 🤭

Knowing that, we have to be responsible also, we  can’t just wear anything and expect no reaction from them. Wala man silang sabihin or gawin pero sa isip nila andun ka na 😬 

It is written in the Bible, do not cause your brother to stumble.

My body my rules na naman kayo 🙄susuot kayo ng kita na kaluluwa nyo tapos gagalit kayo kapag may reaction from the opposite sex. “Eh kahit naman balot na balot na, ganon pa din daw” this is something else na, baka may mental factor na to. 

Parati na lang ba na sila ang dapat turuan paano rumespeto sa babae? We should do that naman talaga but we have to consider their biological tendencies also. Hindi ba dapat tayo din wag natin sila i-trigger? 

This is not about respect ha. This is about science. A fact na created visual creature ang mga lalake. 

Doc Bev Ferrer

SLEEPLESS NIGHTS

ALAM MO BA KUNG BAKIT SA GABI HINDI KA MA KATULOG AGAD?

Maliban sa Insomnia 

Naranasan mo na ba? 

Hihiga ka, babangon, iinom ng tubig at hihiga na naman ulit. Pag Higa mo mamaya makakaramdam ka na naiihi ka, pagkatapos ipipikit mo mata mo at didilat kana naman bubuksan ang cellphone para lang sumakit ang mata para makatulog. Pero kahit puyat na puyat ka na bigla ka na namang mapaisip at itatanong sa sarili.  

Okay Lang ba ako? 

Magiging masaya pa ba ako? 

May mali ba sa sarili ko? 

Nakapikit na nga mga mata mo pero dilat at gumagalaw parin ang utak mo. Bigla kanalang malulungkot. Bigla kanalang iiyak, bigla ka nalang manghihina. 

Kailan ka makakatulog? 

Makakatulog ka Lang pagkatapos mong umiyak dahil sa pagod ng utak at puso mo. Sa madaling salita.. 

Kapag matagal matulog ang tao ibig sabihin malalim ang lungkot niya.  

Kaya pag may kilala kang tao na puspusang nag oonline kahit gabi na o umiiyak gabi-gabi wag mong tawanan kasi hindi mo alam kong anong nararamdaman o pakiramdam nila. 

(kung naranasan mo ito ibig sabihin napakalungkot mong tao) 

written by : Ate Lemrach

THEY GROW UP TOO FAST

So fast. 

But we don’t appreciate the years of little kids while we’re in them.⁣⁣

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Because humans never do until it's too late and they're gone.⁣⁣

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While we're in it, we often wish parts of it away,⁣⁣

the hardly any time to ourselves,⁣⁣

the crawling across the floor to put away puzzles and crayons,⁣⁣

the peeling off stickers,⁣⁣

and scraping muffins and scrambled eggs off the kitchen floor.⁣⁣

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We wish away the tantrums,⁣⁣

the constant fighting,⁣⁣

the bad behavior,⁣⁣

the non-stop laundry,⁣⁣

and the exhaustion ALL THE TIME.⁣⁣

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We wish away every imperfect moment that makes our skin crawl.⁣⁣

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But one day, it will be over⁣⁣

and we’ll miss it—⁣

ALL OF IT.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss the giggles,⁣⁣

the smiles,⁣⁣

the “not wiped off” kisses,⁣⁣

and chubby arms and toothless grins.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss being needed,⁣⁣

the crooked teeth,⁣⁣

the time spent together,⁣⁣

and hearing “Mommy look!” every two minutes.⁣⁣

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We’ll miss who we are RIGHT NOW as individuals and a family.⁣⁣

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Because soon new people will be living in our house with us. Their faces and voices will morph into someone else’s.⁣⁣

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And they’ll keep changing.⁣⁣

And we’ll be new people, too.⁣⁣

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So, let’s try to take in ALL OF IT—⁣⁣

the bad, hard, and the good—⁣⁣

and not take any of it for granted.⁣⁣

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Because I guarantee,⁣⁣

one day soon,⁣⁣

we’ll miss THIS.⁣

Because gosh, they grow up too fast. 

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✍️: Living FULL

📸: @lainey.molnar

HOW STRONG YOUR FAITH TO HOLD ON AND RELY TO GOD

 when couple are both christians, consider that the trials and testings of the enemy(devil) is much more stronger.to both test HOW STRONG YOUR FAITH TO HOLD ON AND RELY TO OUR ALMIGHTY GOD..and how strong and fully committed you are to entrust your future to our one and only Omniscient and omnipresent God..this only proves that your flesh are weak thou your spirits are willing to serve Him truly..you where both deceived by the enemy😔may Godbless you both and continue serving God💜

THE REASON FOR SEPARATION IS HARD HEARTS

 Been seeing alot of post of this couple who just broke up recently...

Because of the break up issue...

Of Moira and Jason

May mga nagsasabi na ano bayan "CHRISTIAN" pa naman pareho yan...

Hala nagloko dba Christian yan..

And many more statement na hindi naaalis yung word na- diba Christian yan.

But you know what it's easy to claim to be a Christian and profess that Jesus is the center of the relationship or of any relationship but it's Jesus who knows the heart...

But why did Moi and Jason broke up even the both of them are christians?

It say in Mark 10: 9

9 Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” 

It means marriage should not be broken by any means or  man If God is really the center. But why are Moira and Jason separate, what is the main reason?  The Bible says in (Matthew 19:8)“Jesus replied, “Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended.”

It's not God who intended it!!

What it says in the bible about the God centered love? It never gives up, it never loses faith, it endures!!

The Bible says in (1 Corinthians 13:7) states “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

The reason for separation is “hard hearts”. Jesus is not the center of their relationship in the first place, because if it was, it is impossible to separate your wife. After all, Jesus is living in heart of the flesh, and not in the stone heart (Ezekiel 36:26). 

So don't  be surprice why even some Christian people come into that point of there lives  or Marriage it's not God it's not there Christianity it's there "Heart."

For its say that 

Proverbs 4:23

Above all else, guard your heart  for everything you do flows from it.

If it's not God who's on the center of your life you don't have the power to guard and guide it...

BEING YOUR MOM WILL ALWAYS BE MY GREATEST PRIVILEGE

 What a privilege it is to wrap you in my arms.

What a privilege it is to be your biggest fan.

What a privilege it is to hold your hand.

What a privilege it is to watch you grow. 

What a privilege it is to be your source of comfort.

What a privilege it is to be the one you search for across a crowded room.

What a privilege it is to assuage your fears.

What a privilege it is to be the one who gives you advice.

What a privilege it is to be your role model.

What a privilege it is to be the one you turn to for guidance.

What a privilege it is to make you feel safe.

What a privilege it is to have a front row seat as you discover yourself.

And when the day comes when you spread your wings and fly, 

I hope you know that 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 ALWAYS 𝑏𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑠𝑡 𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑙𝑒𝑔𝑒.

Written by: Surviving Mom Blog with Randi Latzman

TEN REALIZATIONS THAT YOU HAVE TO EMBRACE

As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping. 

2. You can't stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself. 

3. You don't need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you. 

4. You are a work in progress,  so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone. 

5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes. 

6. Those people who know you better will stay with you no matter what. These are people that you have to keep because they have the purest intentions for you. 

7. Maturity is to prioritize your needs over anything. For as long it can serve its purpose, you don't feel the need to buy a new one. 

8. Embrace the fact that we outgrew people. Some of them do not stay because they have other priorities. You don't stop them, you let them go. 

9. You choose your battles because not everything is worth your time and energy. You would want to protect your peace of mind than engage in drama. 

10. You choose your happiness more than anything. You don't let people define your success. You make the most of every day because life is fleeting. 

You chase your dreams, not people anymore.

THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU

 You were the one who made me laugh when my heart felt heavy, the one who held my hand as the tears fell, the one who picked up the phone on the first ring, and let me pour my tired heart out for the thousandth time. You were the one who wrote me letters reminding me of the love I deserve.

It was you who showed me my worth, time and time again. Encouraging me when I was down, celebrating with me when I was up, supporting me on the days I didn’t believe in myself.

It was you who taught me that time and distance don’t have power over a real connection. It was you who showed me that real love doesn’t leave, doesn’t run, doesn’t fade when the roads turn and twist.

It was you who showed me who I was and had the potential to be, time and time again, when I was too distracted by fear and sweet nothings and empty promises to notice I had wandered away from you, away from myself.

And it was you who taught me what love was.

It was you who showed me that love stays, that love fights, that love is next you, walking with you every step of the way. You, who showed me that love doesn’t change with the seasons or life’s obstacles. You, who reminded me that I was wonderful and valued and important and worthy.

It was you who was there for me whenever I needed you. It was you who gave me strength when I was down, who reminded me of all I had fought through and all the potential I had left to be.

So thank you. Thank you for being the person who didn’t leave, didn’t drift with time, didn’t make me feel as if love has conditions and rules.

Thank you for showing me the love I hope to find one day with a romantic partner—a love that is real, and pure, and embedded in your heart—a soul connection.

I know these words will never be enough to tell you all that you mean to me. Just know that I am the person I am because of the care you’ve shown me. And I only hope that we’ll be in each other’s lives as long as we’re on this earth—sharing poolside mimosas, tacos at sunset, and all our secrets until the sun comes up.

Thank you for being you.

YOUR CHILDREN WILL RESPOND WITH LOVE THROUGH YOUR WORST

 Your children will respond with love through your worst.  ⁣

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In the morning, when your breath smells really bad…they’ll still kiss you.⁣

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When you yell at them for standing there with the toothbrush hanging out of their mouth instead of brushing when you’re running late for school…they still hug you goodbye.⁣

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When you’re crying with frustration at how bad your day is going…they’ll lace their arms around your neck into a hug and offer you a tissue.⁣

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When you’re having a case of the blahs and aren’t in the mood for horse rides or playing Barbies…they’ll still want you to lay with them till they fall asleep.⁣

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When your hair is in a messy bun, and you’re cranky, running on three hours of sleep…they’ll still look at you filled with nothing but love.⁣

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Because to them,⁣

you’re the best no matter what you look like,⁣

smell like,⁣

and how you act.⁣

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And they always manage to lift you⁣

with those kisses,⁣

hugs,⁣

and gazes.⁣

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So next time your children have a tantrum,⁣

case of the blahs,⁣

or are exhausted and cranky—⁣

let’s remember to lead with love⁣

just like our children.⁣

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 📷: Unknown Artist

HUWAG ITIGIL ANG LIGAWAN STAGE

 Nakapag date kami ulit! Sabi nga ay huwag itigil ang ligawan stage 🙂

Madalas bitbit namin ang mga kids kapag nalabas kami. Wala kaming helper o kamag-anak na kasama kaya buong pamilya kami palagi (relate? 😅)

Pero iba pa din kapag lalabas kayong mag-asawa ng kayo lang 🤍

Malakas sya maka recharge ng relationship. 

Pero gets namin ang mga couples na nasa season na walang mapag iwanan ng mga anak..

Pag laki-laki nila ay maiiwan din natin mga momsh at daddies.

Pero reminder lang itong post na ito, kelan kayo huling nag date? 🙂 

Pwedeng mag-date sa sala kapag tulog na ang mga chikitings ❤️

✔️kamustahin nyo ang isa’t isa?

✔️may pinag dadaanan ba kayo individually?

✔️saan area ng buhay mo ngayon at season mo ngayon kailangan mo ng help ng asawa mo?

✔️kamusta ang growth ninyo sa spiritual, physical at iba pa? 

Masarap makipag kwentuhan sa mga asawa natin di ba? 

Totoo na ang mga asawa natin ang BEST FRIEND natin.. ka-kwentuhan, ka-ramay sa lahat ng season, ka-bonding sa araw-araw, kasama mangarap sa buhay, kasama idiscover ang purpose ni Lord sa isa’t isa at sa buong pamilya. 

Kapag may pagkakataon, mag-date ulit na kayong dalawa lang. 

huwag manghinayang gumastos sa asawa natin 🙂 sabi nga ng isa sa mentors namin kapag nga ceo ang ka-date mo special ang pinapakain mo, lalo na dapat sa asawa mo 🤍

CHOOSE WISELY FOR YOUR CHILD

 Choose wisely, not only for you but also for your child.

Later in marriage when you hit parenthood, you'll realize what you really wish for in your spouse is not big money or 'six-pack'. A pretty face and a good bank account are nice to have but at the end of the day, there's so much more you should be looking for.

At 3am when your child is crying, and your eyes are heavy and your body is weak for postpartum, it will not be how he looks or what he owns that will matter. It'll be the compassion in his heart and the love for you in his soul that push him out of the bed to attend the child immediately and tell you,

"Go back to sleep, love. I got this."

If I could tell the younger people what to consider in a companion, I would say marry the man who will be the best father for your children. The man who will put you and your little family first, above all else. The man who is as responsible as you are in raising family because you both are in it together. In short, marry the person who will set a standard for a spouse in your children.

Because in all of these, whenever you watch your partner with your child, you'll find yourself falling in love all over again.

Choose wisely, not only for you but also for your child.♥️

Credits: Unknown

MOMENTARY LIFE

 At the end of the day di naman pala mahalaga kung gaano kadami ang pera mo, kung gaano kalayo ang narating mo, kung gaano kataas ang pinagaralan mo, kung gaano kadami ang naipundar mo, kung gaano ka kasikat kasi di mo naman madadala lahat yan sa kabilang buhay. 

Hubad kang pinanganak, hubad ka ding mamamatay. 

Okay lang naman na maging financially free, maging successful at maging productive sa limited life natin dito sa mundo pero pag dyan umikot ang buhay natin, lugi tayo. 

Life is short. 

Life is unpredictable. 

Say i love you. 

Hug. 

Kiss. 

Spend time with your loved ones. 

Damihan mo, wag yung tira-tirang time. 

Forgive. 

Enjoy every moment. 

Embrace every season. 

Live as if its your LAST day. 

Appreciate EVERYTHING or else you’ll REGRET everything soon. 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍🤍🤍🤍

 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍🤍🤍

 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍🤍

 

APOSTLE RENATO D. CARILLO 🤍