HEY RI NA!

Having regrets is pretty normal. I believe that every person living or dead has had regrets in their life. It’s human to have regrets. So you shouldn’t feel sorry for yourself of how you turned out to be. Everything happens for a reason and you changed into an Extrovert happened for a reason and you did what felt right to you during that moment in life.

You’re strong. Life made you strong. You went against your very nature to transform into an Extrovert and doing something like that tells me that you’re strong. And as a strong woman, you can do anything in life. All you need is proper guidance and proper boundaries.

There is no point in loving “again” because you never stopped loving. You have it within you hiding somewhere beneath all your layers and all you need to do is to scratch it out.

I know life can be a bitch and people can be consuming. What you have to do is understand the world around you and how people are. Once you do that, you’ll start living again without much regrets because not everyone is like you and you aren’t like everyone else.

Another thing you need to practice is “Self-Love.” Love yourself. Give yourself time. Get out of your mind and live for yourself. Forget what others will think. Forget what the world says. Rebel against the norms. Because in the end, you’ll only be left with yourself and that is the person you need to love and trust.

The last thing I’ll say is to make boundaries and exercise them for your betterment. Boundaries are important, not because you’re mean or selfish, but because you need them in order to protect yourself. You can find many online resources as well as you can find some resource in our album named “Refuge Resources.”

Be the person you’ll want to fall in love with. I hope you do get better. Have a great life ahead and feel free to message us whenever you need.

Love,

INFJ Refuge