It is painful when feelings of love
erupt in a friendship and they only go one way. It’s called one-sided love and
it puts the person in love into a difficult position.
When you are laughed at for telling
someone you love them, that is not good! It sounds to me like this person not
only doesn’t care about your love, but also doesn’t care about your other
feelings.
Most people would tell you that
talking to him is or was the correct thing to do and ending the relationship in
order to protect your heart would probably be the correct thing to do, too.
Only you can decide, but your first
priority is to protect your heart and stand up for yourself and your feelings.
It might hurt a little more at first, but you are already feeling pain and it
will continue until you move on.
Good luck with all of this, it is so
painful to deal with. If it makes any difference, your situation is not unique.
Many people have gone through this. In time, they finally give up and end up in
a much better situation. Then they look back and wish they had taken action
sooner.
Love,
INFJ Refuge
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