FATHERS LOVE

 “He doesn’t ask for applause.

He doesn’t speak of sleepless nights, or silent worries.

But behind every light in the home,

Every smile on our faces—

Is a man who carries the weight of the world,

Just so we don’t have to.”

-Anupama Rajan

BINUONG PAMILYA WILL BECOME THE MAIN FAMILY

 💙When a couple marries, 

MAGULANG at KAPATIDS 

become “EXTENDED” family, 

yung binuong pamilya, 

spouse & kids become 

the “MAIN” family.✔️

💙RELATIVES at No.5 

is “EXTENDED” family✔️

💙Kids are NOT above Spouse❌

because ang wedding vows are made sa ASAWA, 

NOT TO KIDS.❌

KIDS are just offshoot ng marriage.

They will leave one day and marry too

and make their own vows to put their asawa as top-priority.💙

LET GO OF UNNECESSARY DRAMA

 Wife: 

“AS MUCH AS I NEEDED TO BE 

HEARD AND UNDERSTOOD, 

GANUN RIN SI HUSBAND.”

—————————————————-

Crystal Sabido:

I am a silent reader, happily married for 9 years.. 

allow me to share my thoughts.. 

We, mga wives and GFs, need to listen intentionally 

and understand the POV of our husband/BF.. 

—-

As a wife, marami rin ako natutunan.. 

I realize na, as much as I needed to be heard and understood- 

ganun rin si Husband.

Ang gusto kasi natin mga girls, 

tayo iniintindi PALAGI, tayo inuunawa PALAGI, pinapatawad agad PALAGI kapag may pagkakamali.. 

paanu naman mga husband or partner natin? 

Sana marealize natin na same din ang needs nila.

——

Ang problema, most of the time, women tends to talk a lot (as in!)- umaandar na defense mechanism at pangangatwiran, 

lalo kapag nare-Real Talk na ni hubby.. 

Imbes na iprocess ang sinabi ni hubby, intindihin at aminin na may kakulangan at kasalanan din tayo,, idadaan pa sa tantrums, pagpuputak at minsan, hindi mamamansin..

(💙RM: SUPER CORRECT!✔️✔️✔️)

——

May times na hindi nagsosorry ang mga husbands or BFs natin, dahil gusto nila cguro matutunan din natin na magSorry- umamin sa pagkakamali. 

(💙RM: TRUE✔️)

Wives/ GF, try niyo rin kasi magSorry. 

There’s no shame in apologising.

I know many of you (wives or GFs) will not agree with me. 

But believe me, nung natutunan ko ng pakinggan at intindihin husband ko.. at nung natutunan ko na rin mag-Sorry.. yes, may disagreements pa rin pero wala ng unnecessary drama.

(💙RM: MISMO✅

ANG GAAN NG RELASYON KUNG MAWALA ANG UNNECESSARY DRAMA.🎯🎯🎯)

——

#HusbandsNeedListeningAndUnderstandingToo

#LetGoOfUnneccessaryDrama

TAKE YOUR TIME

 TAKE YOUR TIME. 

Matagal siya kumain ng icecream? Sabayan mo. 

Matagal siya magsuot ng sapatos? Hintayin mo. 

Matagal siya makatulog? Samahan mo. 

Matagal niyang ma-pickup mga tinuturo mo? Tyagain mo. 

Matagal maubos energy niya? Enjoyin mo. 

Matagal siyang magkwento? Pakinggan mo lang. 

TAKE YOUR TIME. Kasi hindi forever yan. Isang araw lilingunin mo ang season na ito at sasabihin mong ang bilis lang pala talaga ng panahon, sana sinulit mo ang bawat oras na lagi niyang gustong...

Sumama sayo..

Nakadikit sayo..

Magpakarga sayo..

Hawak ang kamay mo..

Tawagin ang pangalan mo..

Makatulog na ikaw ang huli niyang nakikita.. 

Magpasubo sayo..

Makipaglaro sayo..

Magtanong sayo..

Nagpapakiliti sayo..

Magkayakap kayo..

Magpaturo sayo..

Magpabasa ng libro.. 

Ubusin ang oras mo...

TAKE YOUR TIME. Ibuhos mo lang lahat sa kanya ngayon. Magtanim ka sa kanya. Aanihin mo yan balang araw. Isang araw baligtad na. Siya naman ang maghihintay sayo. Hindi ka niya mamadaliin. Sasamahan ka niya, sasabayan, papakinggan, tuturuan, tyatyagain at aalagaan. Eenjoyin ka din niya at ibubuhos niya ang lahat ng pagmamahal at panahon niya sayo hanggang sa huling pagtibok ng puso mo.. hanggang sa huling pagpikit at hindi na pagmulat ng mga mata mo.

LUMALAYO PAG DI NA KAYA

yung tipong gusto mong mawala saglit kasi ang hirap magpanggap. Drop everything talaga. Gusto kong i-celebrate yung lungkot, ang weird no? How can you celebrate sadness and why should you have to? But, I do. 

Gusto ko, maalala ko 'to balang araw. Gusto ko, tumatak siya sa akin, yung mga panahong ang baba ng tingin ko sa sarili ko, yung mga araw na talo ako. Ayaw ko silang kalimutan. 

Gusto ko i-acknowledge yung feeling na malungkot ako. At okay lang 'to. Okay lang tayo kahit na di okay ang sitwasyon natin. Dahil dito, mas natatanggap ko yung sitwasyon. Na okay lang pala malungkot. Ganon. 

Para saan pa, at makakaraos rin tayo sa mga laban na minsan, tayo nalang ang nakakaalam. Yakap. ✨🌻

YOU WON'T HEAR THIS FROM OGIE DIAZ

But some relationships really do stand the test of time! 

You've probably seen it with your own eyes, maybe in your family or among your friends.

While celebrity breakups spread louder, faster and wider, there are plenty of couples quietly going strong.

So, don't lose hope in marriage. Give it a chance. 

Here's what I've observed from those lasting marriages:

It’s never been easy

but the Lord Jesus is always the One holding them together. Colossians 1:17

SOUL TO SOUL

 Soul-to-soul relationships are so worth the wait. Your true soulmates will understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you, grow with you & evolve with you. They will naturally bring out your inner child, adore your old soul & make you love yourself even more

TEN RULES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE

1. Never both be angry at the same time.

2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.

4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly.

5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.

6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

8. At least once every day say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner.

9. When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness.

10. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel. and the one is the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

ctto.

POISON THAT KILLS MEN

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse. 

One morning she ran to her mother and said to her "Mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid the Law of the land  will hold me responsible, can you please help me, Mother?"

The mother answered:

- Yes my daughter I can help you, but,  there is a little task attached. 

The daughter asked "What task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached to get him out" 

OK, said the mother,

1..You will have to make peace with him so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.

2.. You will have to beautify yourself to look young and attractive to him

3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative of him

4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient 

5. Spend your money for him and don’t get angry even when he doesn't give you money for whatever 

6. Don’t raise your voice against but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.

Can you do all of that? 

Asked the mother.

Yes, I can. She replied

OK, said the mother.

Take this powder and pour a bit into his everyday meal, it will slowly kill him.

After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.

Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again😒. As of now, I have grown to love him more because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet 🥰husband than I ever imagined. 

What can I do to stop the poison from killing him? 

Please help me Mother 😒, 

She pleaded in a sorrowful tone😤.

The mother answered;

Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him. 

In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.

It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him,  you saved him.

FOUR BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES

🔴1. DOMINANT---Leader, bossy(tendency to be bossy), pinakamabilis(fastest among the 4), super gusto resulta(show me results), needs control, siya ang nagko-control ng relationship,  can be impatient, achiever, pag dominant baby at hindi mo binigay ang gusto, nagwawala.... Basic colors manamet.(clothing). Magaling kumita at dumiskarte. Likes pressure and can work with heavy pressure:) 

🟡2. PEOPLE-PERSON-- Bubbly, super masayahin, puno ng sunshine, wants the spotlight all the time, pag bata sya yung sasayaw at kakanta lalo na maraming bisita sa bahay, hindi nahihiya, initiates interaction with other people, kilala buong barangay at kapitbahay sa street nila, kilala sa school, super dami niyang friends everywhere, super fun na tao, loves going out, loves parties, talks a lot. Pag galit, putak nang putak. Exaggerated magkwento. Colorful manamet.(attention grabing fun colors). Extrovert. Very expressive. Great starter but poor finisher. The more people the more energized sila. They like GLUE-ing different sets of friends together.

🔵3. GENTLE-SUPPORTIVE----Pinakamabaet sa 4 personalities. Super baet sa lahat. Super supportive. Super matiisin. Will lie just to avoid argument and confrontation. Pag galit or offended, papasok sa cave, silence. Walang usap. Tahimik pag may tensyon sa bahay. Super martyr to the point na tanga minsan. Kaladkarin ng ibang more stronger na personality. Sobrang good listener(the BEST LISTENER actually). Pero pag pumutok dahil sa naipon na sama ng loob, nagiging monster(pero rare at minsan lang). Daming hidden na sama ng loob sa puso. Ang baby na ganito, laging naka-smile, bihira umiyak. Does not like pressure. Shuts down emotionally & mentally when pressured.

🟢4.  DETAILED OC METIKULOSO---Deep thinker. Eto magaling sa Math and subjects that require attention to detail. Lahat kinukutkot, lahat iniisip ng malalim. Not easy to trust others. Very loyal. Gusto pulido ang trabaho. Naiinis pag walang detalye at hindi excellent na gawa. Pinaka-nakakapansin ng lahat ng mali ng partner niya. Lahat kinokorek. Lahat dapat may sistema. Mabilang na parang accountant. Honest magsalita if trust ka nya. Gusto tama ang paraan at solusyon, hindi yung mabilis lang. Introvert.

Allergic sa maraming tao. Cannot take too much parties. Maximum of 3 PAX only. 

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#The4BasicTemperaments

#The4BasicPersonalities

#WeWillUnderstandOurPastTensionsBetter

#WhatIsYourUniqueBlendAndMix

BEING A MOM IS EXHAUSTING

i thought being pregnant and giving birth were the most exhausting things I would have to experience, I was wrong. Life as a mom after pregnancy is another level. Whenever the baby cries, I have to be there. I have to feed her, comfort her, clean her, change her diaper…all that stuff. Not to mention the chores that I don’t have time for. I have to get up in the middle of the night to try to get them done. And when I look at my baby sleeping, I can’t help traumatizing myself thinking, “Was I a good mom today? Did I take care of her well enough?”

LIFE IS SHORT

Life is unpredictable. 

Life is momentary. 

Treasure the ones you love. 

Be intentional. 

Live with urgency. 

Embrace and savor the NOW.

ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL

..and remember how you started. 🤍

Minsan, we tend to look for the things that we don’t yet have. Gusto ko ng bahay, gusto ko ng kotse, gusto ko ng ganito, ng ganyan. We are being consumed kung ano ‘yung mga wala pa sa atin without even realizing what we currently have and how far we’ve already come.

Take time to ponder. Pause. Breathe.

Oo, malayo ka PA pero malayo ka NA—kung saan ka nagsimula.

‘Yung dating tingi na pagbili mo sa tindahan, ngayon nakakapag-grocery ka na ng isang buwan. ‘Yung dating tuyo na ulam, ngayon unli samgyupsal. ‘Yung dating yum burger, ngayon supermeal. ‘Yung mga bagay na dating gusto mo lang, ngayon nabibili mo na anytime.

Don’t stress yourself too much dearest, take it one step at a time and celebrate your small wins. ✨

PADAYON—isang mahigpit na yakap para sa ating lahat na nagsusumikap. 🥺

INAY HINDI KA TAMAD

Hindi ka tamad kung nakatulog ka ng tanghali or nakatulog ka ng maaga. 

Tandaan, hindi ka zombie. Tao ka din na kailangan ng tulog. 

Hindi ka tamad kung tambak na ang labahin at tiklupin mo. Hindi ka laundry station para laging maging updated sa labada mo. 

Hindi ka tamad kung minsang nanonood ka ng Kdrama o kaya gumagawa ng bagay ng gusto mo. Mahalaga din ang sanity mo. Mahirap maging ilaw ng tahanan kapag simot at pundido ka na. 

Hindi ka tamad kung gusto mong mapag-isa, tumulala, tumunganga, huminga paminsan. Hindi katamaran ang paghinga, pag-slow down at pagpapahinga. Hindi ka robot. Tao ka. 

Hindi ka tamad kung na-order ka paminsan sa food panda, nagamit ng paper plate para bawas hugasin at kung ano-ano pang hack na makakapag-pagaan ng trabaho mo. Tawag dun madiskarte. Hindi katamaran. 

Hindi ka tamad kung wala kang ibang nagawa sa buong maghapon kundi mag-alaga, makipaglaro, magturo at mag-asikaso ng iyong mga anak. Ang maramdaman ng mga anak mo ang pagmamahal mo at presence mo sa buhay nila this season, malaking accomplishment na yun. It doesn’t have to be grand gaya ng nakikita natin online. Magkakaiba tayo. Kaya wag kang sipagin mag-compare Inay. 

Hindi ka tamad kung mabait ka sa sarili mo, kung iniisip mo din ang kapakanan mo. You’re not lazy if you’re taking good care of your spirituality, emotional, mental and physical being. Tandaan, kailangan mong pahalagahan ang pinaka-importanteng tao sa buhay ng asawa at mga anak mo… IKAW. ♥️

Hindi ka tamad Inay. 

Tandaan mo yan. 

#RealTalk #HindikaTamadInay

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY PART

 The *STOMACH* is injured when you do not have breakfast in the morning.

(2) The *KIDNEYS* are injured when you do not even drink 10 glasses of water in 24 hours.

(3) The *GALLBLADDER* is injured when you do not even sleep until 11 o'clock and do not wake up to the sunrise.

(4) The *small INTESTINE* is injured when you eat cold and stale food.

(5)The  *Large intestines* are injured when you eat more fried and spicy food.

(6) The *LUNGS* are injured when you breathe in smoke, dirt and polluted environment of cigarettes and bidi.

(7) The *LIVER* is injured when you eat heavy fried food, junk, and fast food.

(8) The *HEART* is injured when you eat your meal with more salt and cholesterol.

(9) The *PANCREAS* is injured when you eat more sweet because of the taste and freely available.

(10) The *Eyes* are injured when you work in the light of mobile and computer screen in the dark.

(11) The *Brain* is injured when you start thinking negative thoughts.

Take care of the parts of your body and do not scare them.

All these parts are not available in the market. Those available are very expensive and probably cannot be adjusted in your body.

So keep your body parts healthy.

God bless you!

ARISE

May mga namatay ka bang pangarap?

May mga namatay ka bang relasyon?

Namatay na ba ang passion mo sa Panginoon?

Namatay na ba ang pag-asa sa puso mo?

Totoo na dalawang boses ang maririnig mo sa mga bagay o sitwasyon na tingin mo ay patay na. Boses ng pag-asa at boses na papatay sa natitira mong pag-asa. Totoo rin na kung anong boses ang pinapakinggan mo, ‘yon ang boses na susundin mo. Kaninong boses nga ba nakikinig ang tainga mo?

Mas malakas ba ang boses na nagsasabing,

“Wag mo nang ipaglaban”

“Patay na yan! 'Wag ka nang mag-effort”

“Kahit anong gawin mo, wala nang mangyayari d’yan”

O mas malakas ang boses na nagsasabing,

“Mukha mang patay ‘yan, bubuhayin Ko ‘yan”

“Hindi ba may pangako Ako sa’yo para d’yan?”

“Patay man ‘yan para sayo pero papalitan ko ‘yan”

In a story of a father fighting for his daughter’s life in Luke 8, we can see how this man was stopped halfway into coming to Jesus by a disheartening news. But Jesus knew that it isn’t a hopeless situation and He encouraged the man to believe. Coming into their home, though there were people who did not believe and even laughed at him, Jesus did a miracle. He took the girl’s hand and raised her back to life.

Is there a situation in your life right now that you think is already hopeless? A dream that you consider dead? A prayer that you don’t bother uttering to God again? He is bringing dead things to life. Some things may seem impossible for us, but these things are never too hard for God. 

He is a God that restores and redeems! Kung para sa iba ay game over na, Siya naman ay may ginagawang bago na hindi pa nakikita ng ‘yong mga mata. Kaya ‘wag kang matakot at magsimula kang maniwala. 

Dream again!

Believe again!

Get your passion back!

WHEN YOU DIE DON'T WORRY ABOUT YOUR BODY

 When you die, don't worry about your body...

Your relatives will do whatever it takes.

They will take off your clothes

They will wash you

They will dress you up

They will take you out of the house and deliver you to your new address.

Many will come to the funeral to honor you.

Some will even cancel their plans and ask for labor to go to the funeral.

Your things you didn't like to borrow will be sold, donated or burned.

Your keys

Your tools

Your books

Your CDs, DVDs, games

Your collections

Your clothes...

And be sure the world won't stop and cry for you.

The economy will continue.

You will be replaced in work. Someone with the same or even better ability will take your place.

Your property will switch to heirs.

And don't doubt that about you for the small and big things you have done in your life will speak, judge, doubt and criticize.

People who only knew you face will say, ′′ Poor thing!"

Your good friends will cry for a few hours or several days, but then they will laugh again.

Your pets will get used to the new owner.

Your pictures will be hanging on the wall for awhile, then they will be put on furniture and finally stored at the bottom of the box.

Someone else will sit on your couch and eat from it.

Deep pain in your home will last a week, two, one month, two, one year, two... Then you will join the memories and then your story will end.

It will end among people, end here, end in this world.

But your story begins in a new reality... in your life after death.

Your life is earthly where you couldn't move with the things you had here will lose the meaning they had.

the beauty of your body

Last name

property

loans

working position

bank account

the house

the car

academic titles

Classmates

trophies

Friends of the world

man / woman

the kids

the family...

In your new life, you will only need your soul.

The only property that will last is the soul.

So try to live your life full and be happy while you are here because, as Francis of Assisi said, ′′ You won't take what you have from here. You only take what you gave!"

COLOSSIANS 3:2

 KAPAG TUMATANDA MAS NAGIGING SIMPLE ANG KARAMIHAN SA ATIN 

Hindi na tayo after sa latest, hanggang nagagamit pa PUSH lang!

Yung cellphone, basta nailaw pa at nakaka type hindi pa pinapalitan agad..

Yung damit, mas bet pa nga natin isuot sa bahay yung mga konting sinulid nalang ang nakatahi (haha!) 

Reminder lang ito sa ating lahat, bago magpalit ng gamit pwede natin ito itanong sa sarili:

☑️ Kailangan ko na ba magpalit ng bago?

☑️ Afford ko ba bumili ng bago?

☑️ Wala ba akong mahahanap na alternative? 

Walang masama bumili ng bago ha, ito ay realization lang na karamihan sa atin kapag tumatanda ay mas napapriority natin ang ibang bagay, ang mga bagay na mas nag mamatter 🤍

"Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth" Colossians 3:2 💕 

Sana nakatulong ito mga ka-tipid 🙂

GAANO KARAMING TUBIG ANG DAPAT INUMIN ARAW ARAW

Madalas nating marinig na payo ng ang "UMINOM NG 8 GLASSES OF WATER EVERY DAY". Pero saan ba nanggaling ang payo na ito?

✅ Noong 1945, naglabas ng rekomendasyon ang US FOOD AND NUTRITION BOARD na kailangang uminom ng 2.5 LITERS NG TUBIG (o 8 GLASSES) KADA ARAW ang mga tao. 

✅ Ngunit ang rekomendasyon na iyon ay pawang isang MYTH o HAKA-HAKA lamang, wala itong basehan sa mga pag-aaral at wala rin naman ebidensya na ang paginom ng 8 glasses of water araw-araw ay mas mabuti kaysa sa paginom ng mas kaunting tubig.

✅ Ang bawat tao ay iba-iba ang pangangailangan sa tubig. Halimbawa, mas maraming tubig ang kailangan ng isang 80 kg na tumatakbo sa marathon sa ilalim ng initan ng araw kumpara sa isang 50 kg na tao na nakaupo lamang sa opisina at naka aircon.

✅ Mas maraming tubig din ang kailangan ng mga pasyenteng may PAGTATAE o DIARRHEA at mga NILALAGNAT kesa sa mga malusog na tao. Kailangan rin ng maraming tubig para sa may mga KIDNEY STONES.

✅ May mga pasyente rin na hindi puwedeng uminom ng maraming tubig dahil maaari silang malunod, gaya ng may mga HEART FAILURE at CHRONIC KIDNEY DISEASE na hindi na nakakaihi.

✅ Magaling ang ating MGA KIDNEYS sa PAGBABALANSE NG TUBIG sa katawan. Kung sobra ang tubig, itatapon nito ang sobra sa pamamagitan ng PAG-IHI NG MARAMI. Kung kulang naman sa tubig, magtitipid ito at magiging KAUNTI ANG IHI. 

✅ Para sa karamihan ng mga HEALTHY ADULTS, ang pinakamagandang paraan upang manatiling HYDRATED ay uminom lamang ng tubig KUNG NAUUHAW.

✅ Tandaan na hindi lamang sa iniinom nakukuha ang tubig. Marami ring lamang tubig ang mga PRUTAS AT GULAY, at pati na rin ang mga ISDA AT KARNE na ating kinakain. 

✅ Hindi rin maganda ang SOBRANG PAG-INOM NG TUBIG dahil maaari itong magdulot ng HYPONATREMIA o PAGBABA NG ASIN SA DUGO na maaaring magdulot naman ng SEIZURES at PAGKAMATAY.

✅ Huwag MAPRESSURE na uminom ng napakaraming tubig. Hindi hahaba ang buhay mo kung mas marami kang tubig na inumin. 

✅ Uminom lang ng tubig ayon sa pangangailangan. Uminom kapag nauuhaw. Sapat na ito para manatiling HYDRATED at HEALTHY ang ating katawan.

ALL THINGS ARE BRIGHT AND BEAUTIFUL

..All creatures great and small, All things wise and wonderful, The lord God made them all. Each little flower that opens, Each little bird that sings, He made their glowing colours, He made their little wings. The purpleheaded mountain, The river running by, The sunset and the morning, That brightens up the sky. The cold wind in the winter, The pleasant summer sun, The ripe fruits in the garden, He made them every one. The tall trees in the greenwood, The meadows where we play, The rushes by the water, We gather every day.  He gave us eyes to see them And lips that we might tell How great is God Almighty Who has made all things well

SIGN NA NASA TAMA KANG LALAKI

 BUHAY MAY ASAWA..

IKAW ANG PRIORIDAD 

NGSSUMIKAP PRA SA PAMILYA

AYW NIAN NA NAG AAWAY KAU.

KHT BC SA TRBHO O MHGPIT GGWA NG PRAAN PRA MKAUSAP KA LNG..

WINAWASTO KA..

PNPAYUHAN KA..

CNSBI ANG LHT NG MOVES NIA ,KUNG BAGA UPDATED KHT PASSWORD NG FB SSBHIN SAU .

IBBGAY ANG SAHOD SAU NG KUSA..

KPG MY NRRMDMN SAU UNANG MGSSBI..

KPG MY PRBLMA SAU UNANG SSBHIN..

AAKUIN NQ LMNG NA NG SORRY WG LNG HUMABA ANG PGTTALO NIO..

HND YAN MGHHMON NG HWALAYAN..

MY PNNINDIGAN..

UNA MONG TGA PGTANGGOL..

KRMAY MO SA BUHAY HND LMNG SA SRAP SA KAMA..

HND YAN MTTKOT NA KHT KUNIN MO ANG CP NIA..

MAY PGMMLSKIT SAU..

LLKING IIYAKAN KA DHL AYW KA NIANG MWALA. 

MRUNONG MGPAALAM..

MRUNONG ISANGGUNI ANG GGWIN SA BUHAY..

KHT UMIINOM YAN PNGPLIPAS ORAS LMNG NG MKPG RELAX. 

MY RESPETO SAU..

MY RESPETO SA IYONG MGULANG..

SABIK NA MKITA KA AT MGA ANAK NIO..

SABIK UMUWI NG BAHAY.

MAS NAIS NA NSA LOOB NG BHAY .

NAG IISA KA LMNG SA PUSO NIA..

MAY PNNALIG SA DIYOS..

I DO BELIEVE MAY LLKI PA DING MATINO..

GODBLESS ❤️

TRUE FRIENDS ARE A GIFT FROM GOD

-know that our friendships come from the Lord. 

They are hard to find.

They stick closer than family, and often know you better. 

They pray bigger things for you than you pray for yourself. 

They believe with you when your faith is weak. 

They make space for you when life falls apart, and they rejoice with you when all is well. 

They help you grow and show Christ’s love to others. 

They are not afraid to share truth in love when you need it.

They do not celebrate our sin, but confront us and help us look to God to overcome it. 

“𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 '𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨' 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙮 𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙠𝙨 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙖 𝙗𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧.” —Proverbs 18:24

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Now, please do yourself a favor and thank your true friends. ❤️❤️ They are one of the precious gifts God has given us! 

To all my true friends, I love you and I thank God for your lives. ❤️

- She Conquers

MARRY GOOD A PERSON

 You might be thinking that the most important decision you'll make is the biggest purchase of your life - house, cars, investments.

But according to Filipino business tycoon, the biggest decision of your life is your Partner, your partner to all your challenges and success.

John Gokongwei Jr. said, 

"The most important decision you have to make in your life is whom you’re going to marry. That decision will dictate the rest of your life, whether you will have a happy life or a miserable one".

Marry a good person. 

Your spouse should be an ally in happiness and not a source of misery. The challenge is to find someone who shares the same beliefs and principles and can be your partner in parenthood and all aspects of your life. 

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HINDI MADALI MAGING INA

 "mahirap maging ina, mag-alaga ng anak at magpalaki ng bata. grabe yung sakripisyo physically & emotionally. pero gumagaan at napakadali ng lahat kapag may responsable kang asawa na handa kang tulungan sa lahat at maging sandalan."

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

-- Ignorance 

-- Prayerlessness

-- Unforgiveness 

-- Third party influence 

-- Stinginess

-- Stubbornness 

-- Lack of love 

-- Rudeness

-- Laziness 

-- Disrespect 

-- Cheating 

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is  permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because  you never know who you may be helping. 

May God bless you.

MY BIGGEST FEAR

 What if I’m not there tomorrow?

Who will understand my child the way I do?

Who will know that they like their food a certain way?

Who will feed them when they’re hungry — not just with food, but with love and care?

Who will hold them when they cry, even when they say they’re okay?

If I’m not there, who will make sure they’re covered at night when they kick off the blanket in sleep?

Who will notice their mood without them saying a word?

Who will pray for them every night like I do — with tears, hope, and so much love?

I worry...

What if they fall sick and I’m not there to stay up all night beside them?

What if life gets hard for them, and I’m not around to guide them, to remind them that they’re strong?

I know it’s impossible to control everything. But as a mother, these thoughts never really go away.

They live quietly in some corner of my heart.

Because no one can love my child the way I do.

No one will care like I do.

No one will notice the little things like I do.

And that... is my biggest fear.

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MOTHERHOOD

 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻?.𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗜’𝗺 𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳…🥲

Every night, after a long, tiring day… when the world slowly drifts into sleep… I lie there beside my child, staring at the ceiling, listening to their soft breathing.

But even in that silence… my mind is loud.

Louder than it’s been all day.

Because every night, just before I close my eyes, a fear crawls in—quietly but fiercely.

A fear that grips my heart and squeezes it tight.

What if I don’t open my eyes again?

It’s not death I’m scared of…

It’s the thought of leaving my child behind.

The thought of not being there when they need me.

The idea that someday, they might cry for me… and I won’t be there to hold them.

Who will brush their hair in the morning?

Who will pack their lunch just the way they like it?

Who will understand their unspoken words like I do?

Who will be their safe place in this world?

That thought breaks me.

It scares me more than anything else in this life.

So many people think motherhood is just about feeding, bathing, or teaching them how to walk.

But for a mother, it’s about silently carrying the weight of a thousand fears—every single day.

And still showing up with a smile.

Still singing lullabies.

Still saying, “Everything will be okay,” even when we don’t feel okay ourselves.

Sometimes, I want to scream.

Sometimes, I want to cry without hiding in the bathroom.

But most nights, I just lie there, hugging my child a little tighter, whispering a prayer…

“Dear God, just one more day…

Let me wake up tomorrow.

Let me see their smile.

Let me be their comfort, their shield, their home…

Just one more

Anupama Rajan 

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TANTRUMS

 To those who judge my child : Tantrum is not a bad behavior

"When my child smiles, speaks politely, and behaves well…

Everyone praises him.

‘Such a sweet child,’ they say.

But the moment he cries, throws a tantrum, or screams out of frustration…

The same people say,

‘This child is spoiled… so bad… no one can stand him.’

They don't see the tired eyes of a mother who's been patient all day.

They don’t hear the silent cries of a heart that’s doing its best.

They forget that this little soul is still learning how to handle big feelings.

A tantrum is not bad behavior.

It’s a call for love, understanding, and support.

And no… my child is not bad.

He’s just… two. And human.

And I love him through every single emotion."

Anupama Rajan 

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MARRIAGE

 10 Things na natutunan ko sa discussion ni Maricar at Richard tungkol sa marriage at pag bukod.

1. Priority Shifts– Pag kinasal ka, ang priority mo na ay ang asawa at magiging anak mo, hindi na ang extended family mo.  

2. Boundaries Matter– dapat malinaw ang hangganan—hindi na sila ang may final say sa buhay ninyong mag-asawa.  

3. Hindi Porket Christmas, Lahat ng Kamag-anak Bibigyan– Priority mo na ang asawa at anak mo, hindi ang buong barangay niyo

4. Opinions vs. Decisions– Pwede kang makinig sa opinyon ng pamilya mo, pero ang final decision ay dapat manggaling sa inyo ng asawa mo.  

5. Walang “Dapat Ganito”– Hindi dahil ganito ang kinasanayan sa pamilya mo, ganun na rin dapat sa bago mong pamilya. Kayo ng asawa mo ang magde-desisyon kung paano niyo gustong patakbuhin ang buhay ninyo.  

6. It’s About Teamwork– Hindi "kanino ka kakampi" kundi "paano kayo magtutulungan." Mag-asawa kayo, hindi teammates ng magkabilang pamilya.  

7. Obligasyon vs. Tulong– Tumutulong ka sa pamilya mo, pero hindi mo responsibilidad ang buhay nila. May sarili ka nang pamilyang dapat unahin.  

8. Respect Works Both Ways– Dapat marunong kang rumespeto sa extended family mo, pero ganun din sila sa bago mong pamilya.  

9. Asawa Mo ang Ka-Team Mo, Hindi ang Magulang Mo– Kung every issue, takbo ka agad sa pamilya mo, eh di sana nag-stay ka na lang sa kanila.

10. Marriage is a Fresh Start – Hindi ito extension ng lumang buhay mo, kundi simula ng bago—at nasa inyo ng asawa mo kung paano niyo ito bubuuin.  

✍🏻Malditang Ina.

📷Relationship Matters PH

LIFE BEGINS AT 40

 "you are more than whatever burden you carry. you're not your body or whatever baggage you carry.

you are your strengths & the things you feel passionate about & the people you would sacrifice everything for. you are your smile & the way you laugh & how you make other people feel. you are your favorite book & the songs that soothe your soul & bring you to tears. you are the things you dream about & hope for all the steps you take svery day to try to get there.

you're imperfect & you struggle & you can be difficult for the people in your life, but you're still worthy of love & kindness & belonging. the hard parts of who you are & what you struggle with don't discount all the other parts. & the right people know this. you aren't defective or too much. you're human & there is so much more to you than the darkness you feel."

-however, life begins @ 40.

LETTER OF THANKS TO GOD

Lord, I come before You with a humble heart. Life without You is impossible. There is so much trouble in this world, and so many battles need to be fought from within. What would life be if I had no one to hold on to? Lord, life is so uncertain, and pain is inevitable; today’s happiness may not be the same tomorrow.

When I confront these challenges with my own strength, I easily crumble, and my world feels too dark to see any light. But, Lord, You are my source of joy and strength. I praise You that even in uncertainty, I still experience many moments of contentment, and it feels good inside. My heart sings, my smile is sincere, and I can honestly say: thank You, Lord, thank You, Lord. You are good. No one else can make me feel this way.

Oh, how truly thankful I am that You are in my life, Lord. I recognize this blessing, for I once lived a life without You. Now that I have You, I see the significant difference You make in my life. Though the challenges and trials remain, and the pain and tears still come, Your supernatural love comforts me and sweeps away my discouragement before it can take hold.

Lord, You are the greatest blessing in my life. Every day, I am humbled by Your love. You are the miracle of my existence. ♥️

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Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him! Psalm 34:8

"indeed, life begins@40"

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BEING A PARENT IS NOT ALL ABOUT FLESH AND BLOOD

 I remember when Sarah Geronimo chose peace. She married Matteo Guidicelli without telling her mom. No big crowd. No press. Just love and a quiet wedding.

It wasn’t out of rebellion. It was her way of finally breathing. Of choosing herself. That moment wasn’t about turning her back on family. It was about setting boundaries with love.

People often say, “Balibaligtarin mo man ang mundo, nanay mo pa rin ’yan.” But sometimes, that line is used to guilt you. To silence you. To make you stay even when it hurts.

Being a parent is more than blood. It’s about presence. It’s about protection and respect. It’s about making your child feel safe enough to grow.

Sarah didn’t stop loving her mom. She just stopped choosing pain. And years later, they reconnected. Slowly. Quietly. No drama. Just healing. Sarah even called her mom her hero.

Because boundaries are not disrespect. They are self-respect. And sometimes, choosing peace is the only way to love others without losing yourself.

📷 Sarah Geronimo / Instagram

PALAGI❤️

 kahit saan man maparating

hanap hanap pa rin ay 'yong lambing

at kahit ano man ang mangyari

sa'yo pa rin uuwi

PALAGI

PALAGI

 In our 5+ years, we realized that love isn't everything. I thank the Lord that He gave me someone who is fully committed to his vow, even when I'm being ugly and nasty. We've had our disagreements, we sometimes hurt each other with our nasty words, but we always come back to how we got together in the first place.

BUHAY AT KAMATAYAN

 PATUNGKOL SA BUHAY

Ang mabuting pangalan ay mas mahalaga kaysa mamahaling pabango;

    at ang araw ng kamatayan ay higit na mabuti kaysa araw ng kapanganakan.

Mas mabuting pumunta sa bahay ng namatayan

    kaysa bahay na may handaan,

pagkat dapat alalahanin ng buháy na siya man ay nakatakda ring mamatay.

Ang kalungkutan ay mas mabuti kaysa katuwaan,

    pagkat maaaring malungkot ang mukha ngunit masaya ang kalooban.

Mangmang ang isang taong nag-iisip ng kasayahan,

    ngunit matalino ang isang taong naghahanda para sa kanyang kamatayan.

Pag-isipan mong mabuti ang ginawa ng Diyos. Sino ang makapagtutuwid sa binaluktot niya? Magalak ka kung mainam ang takbo ng lahat ng bagay. Sa panahon ng kahirapan ay isipin mong parehong ipinadadala ng Diyos ang kaligayahan at kahirapan. Sino ang nakakaalam kung ano ang mangyayari bukas?

Mangangaral 6

Mangangaral 8

Magandang Balita Biblia

PAG AASAWA

 Ang pag-aasawa ay ang araw-araw na pagpili sa iyong asawa, sa bawat oras, at sa lahat ng pagkakataon. Kahit sa mga pagkakataong hindi mo siya gusto, at sa mga pagkakataong inis na inis ka na sa kanya, siya at siya pa rin ang pipiliin mo at uunahin sa lahat. 

Kaya hindi para sa lahat ang pag-aasawa. Kung hindi ka handa na panindigan ang iyong piniling makasama habang buhay, o kung wala kang nakikitang tao na karapat-dapat sa katapatang kaya mong ibigay, mas makakabuti pang manatiling walang asawa.

LET THEM BE

 LET THEM BEND, LET THEM GROW.

Some kids love books, some love movement.

Some sit still, some flip upside down.

Some follow the path, some carve their own.

Our job? Not to force them into a mold, but to give them space to stretch, explore, and become.

Because the more we let them move freely, the stronger they grow. 💛

#IntentionalParenting #LetThemGrow #RaisingtheFuture

MARRIAGE

 “Marriage is a lifelong journey that is meant to refine and shape you into the person God wants you to be.” 

-Timothy Keller

Marriage is a sacred bond designed by God to unite, refine, and strengthen. More than love, it’s a journey of growth, faith, and transformation. Through every season, God shapes us, teaching patience, grace, and unconditional love.

Marriage is a promise to God and each other—to stand firm in faith, support one another in love, and to build a foundation that honors Him. With God at the center, marriage becomes a beautiful reflection of His love and purpose.