1.Everyone
doesn’t need to know that you’re dating someone or hanging out with someone.
You can build a love story with the other person and not tell the entire world
about it. The romantic connections that you have with each other aren’t going
to be less special just because you choose to keep them to yourself. Privacy is
a beautiful, rare thing. There is nothing to be gained in displaying your
relationship for public consumption – it’s fun at first, until it becomes a
circus show. It’s possible to love someone openly and put everything that you
have for one another behind the curtain. If both of you are confident about the
happiness that you feel whenever you’re together, aware about the trust that
you’ve built together, then that’s all that counts, no matter what people
around you say.
2.Your future
plans are not guaranteed to happen. Nothing is more embarrassing than sending a
worldwide memo about them and watch them not turn into fruition. You’re allowed
to confide your goals and ambitions to the person you’re dating or hanging out
with. But maybe it’s okay not to inform your social media friends about them.
People give better reactions when you surprise them. So don’t bore them with
your constant updates about what you’re going to do in life; instead, shock them
with your victories. That’s probably the best way to earn respect.
3.I strongly
believe that dating several men in the past is not a bad thing. It’s not all
your fault your previous attempt for relationship didn’t work out. And maybe
you also couldn’t help it that few men wanted to ask you out before and that
you wanted to give them a chance. But please remember that the guy you’re
dating now doesn’t need to know about those men. If he asks, then be honest –
but don’t volunteer information. It’s nice to begin anew, to start with a clean
slate. I’m sure there are million things you’ve learned after dating a handful
of men. Just keep those learnings to yourself and apply them to this
relationship that you’re about to embark with a new guy.
4.We live in a
generation of, “If you didn’t capture it, then it didn’t happen.” And honey,
that’s maybe the reason why we’re all struggling to function without anxiety.
We’re all worried about not photographing the perfect moment. We’re obsessed
with virtual validations and likes and engagements and number of followers.
This instagram generation has grown to become a competition of who can make it
seem like they have their shits together. And this plague needs to retire
because it makes everyone exhausted. It’s not a bad idea to chill. It’s not
depressing to just do nothing. Everyone of us is a human being. Everyone of us
should try to be a human being.
5.To live
happily and tell no one is very hard. To fall in love with someone and not let
the whole world know is a beautiful thing not many of us can do. It feels like
you’re missing out when you’re not sharing important things in your life, but
guarding your favorite moments is worth doing. It’s freeing to live and love
and know in your heart that you’re not proving anything to anyone. You do what
you want; you love who you want, just because – no complicated reasons, no
hidden intentions. You’re sharing your soul with another person simply because
you like them. Some things in life are just meant to keep to yourself. And that’s
okay. That’s completely normal. Besides, isn’t wonderful to love, smile, and
laugh and let the entire world wonder why?
-ANGELO CAERLANG
God Bless Us..
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